I'm a sub/bottom, genderqueer, male plumbing, old. My physique’s not what it once was, but I'm working on it. Looking for a top dom, any gender, who's not out there looking to “convert” me to a switch. I've had too much of that. Unless you're very femme, I won't even want to try.
Top is critical; dom is negotiable. Not much into pain, except that I am interested in (reasonably mild) CBT, with a heavy emphasis on the ”B”. That said, I am interested in all sorts of mind play, and maybe bondage with the right person.
But you must be within driving distance. That's the kicker. I might engage in a little online play just for fun, but it's not what I'm looking for.
