Are we dating the same guy FB groups

[ToPleaseHim]

Anyone here part of these groups? I’ve been a member of 2 local groups for a while. My daughters are in their 20s and I like to just be in the groups in case a guy they know gets posted. But…these groups are fucking dangerous!

In one of my local groups, a woman posted last night that she learned that the man she’s been with for 4 years was in another relationship the whole time. She knew he talked with his “ex” and they share children together, so she’s going to be in his life. But, turns out their relationship never ended. This guy also has a record including MULTIPLE arrests for domestic violence as well as other charges.

In the comments section, women are attacking the OP for being the other woman (despite her ending the relationship when she learned this). MANY were defending the man! They “know him,” he’s so “nice and respectful” to them, etc. Others would share about his violent history and his friends would shut them down and say they were spreading rumors. And, as happens more and more in these groups, women screenshot the thread and shared it with him. His response was to go to her place and fucking assault her in front of her child. He choked her and punched her in the face.

The page’s reaction? Leave the fucking comments up, do nothing to address the lack of safety in the group, close comments, and move on. HE PHYSICALLY ATTACKED HER within 10 hours of the post. Women who share these posts with the men involved are nightmares.

It is really evident why these pages need to exist. I’ve seen many women learn their partner was cheating on these pages. But, at the same time, the pages are very dangerous.

They are always looking for volunteer moderators, too. I can’t imagine a more dangerous page to moderate.

 

[AtramentousRex]

Can you imagine if Lit had a thread based on this?

 

[lliicckkss]

Anyone here part of these groups? I’ve been a member of 2 local groups for a while. My daughters are in their 20s and I like to just be in the groups in case a guy they know gets posted. But…these groups are fucking dangerous!

In one of my local groups, a woman posted last night that she learned that the man she’s been with for 4 years was in another relationship the whole time. She knew he talked with his “ex” and they share children together, so she’s going to be in his life. But, turns out their relationship never ended. This guy also has a record including MULTIPLE arrests for domestic violence as well as other charges.

In the comments section, women are attacking the OP for being the other woman (despite her ending the relationship when she learned this). MANY were defending the man! They “know him,” he’s so “nice and respectful” to them, etc. Others would share about his violent history and his friends would shut them down and say they were spreading rumors. And, as happens more and more in these groups, women screenshot the thread and shared it with him. His response was to go to her place and fucking assault her in front of her child. He choked her and punched her in the face.

The page’s reaction? Leave the fucking comments up, do nothing to address the lack of safety in the group, close comments, and move on. HE PHYSICALLY ATTACKED HER within 10 hours of the post. Women who share these posts with the men involved are nightmares.

It is really evident why these pages need to exist. I’ve seen many women learn their partner was cheating on these pages. But, at the same time, the pages are very dangerous.

They are always looking for volunteer moderators, too. I can’t imagine a more dangerous page to moderate.

sounds awful and a fucked up situation but on my end i never had a FB in my whole life.. but if i did i would of found out my ex girl was cheating on me, we was in 10 year relationship she was using FB to do all kinda shady shit ..only reason i found out was i got her an apple like macbook shit for birthday ..like week later ,,i opened it one day cause was only computer not even trying to accomplish anything just wanted open something i couldent on my phone.. guess it linked to all her apple shit.. so just opening the screan allllll her chats popped up .....so definitely FB is dangerous mut all internet is if you choose

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Can you imagine if Lit had a thread based on this?

I’ve been part of one of the Lit Lothario situations. In 2015 I got my taste of Lit’s version of this, General Board style. It was definitely fucked up. Thankfully, no violence ensued.

 

[AtramentousRex]

I’ve been part of one of the Lit Lothario situations. In 2015 I got my taste of Lit’s version of this, General Board style. It was definitely fucked up. Thankfully, no violence ensued.

One of the only benefits of it being a virtual environment. But what do you expect when all the women play with like, the same 5 men?

 

[lliicckkss]

One of the only benefits of it being a virtual environment. But what do you expect when all the women play with like, the same 5 men?

i dont get no play ....

 

[AtramentousRex]

i dont get no play ....

You will, it seems youve already got an admirer. Nobody wants me bro, but I like to be a good wingman. Lol

 

[AmberLGreen]

sounds awful and a fucked up situation but on my end i never had a FB in my whole life.. but if i did i would of found out my ex girl was cheating on me, we was in 10 year relationship she was using FB to do all kinda shady shit ..only reason i found out was i got her an apple like macbook shit for birthday ..like week later ,,i opened it one day cause was only computer not even trying to accomplish anything just wanted open something i couldent on my phone.. guess it linked to all her apple shit.. so just opening the screan allllll her chats popped up .....so definitely FB is dangerous mut all internet is if you choose

This is similar to how I found out about my ex husband’s Lit account and the women he was “chatting” with. He had all of his Apple products linked. The photos he had taken of himself and some of the messages he had taken a screen shot of were all visible on the Mac. I didn’t find out about it until after I had kicked him out but it was the reason I joined Lit

 

[lliicckkss]

You will, it seems youve already got an admirer. Nobody wants me bro, but I like to be a good wingman. Lol

haha good looks ..its like instrad of Clubs. we on some what thred we hitting up next

 

[lliicckkss]

This is similar to how I found out about my ex husband’s Lit account and the women he was “chatting” with. He had all of his Apple products linked. The photos he had taken of himself and some of the messages he had taken a screen shot of were all visible on the Mac. I didn’t find out about it until after I had kicked him out but it was the reason I joined Lit

yeah thats sucks but welcome ! ...i had been using Lit before she ever existed but when we was being a thing.. i gave it up the whole time , never strayed...but then i fuck around and found out .. so one i should have stayed it seems .. but nah i couldn't just being me i wouldent have , not that i really was engaging any single person on lit , like dont really get PMs and have many one on one conversations here again yet but..after her shit well here i am back on lit haha

 

[Lord Pmann]

Can you imagine if Lit had a thread based on this?

I feel like I should start one…

I’ve been part of one of the Lit Lothario situations. In 2015 I got my taste of Lit’s version of this, General Board style. It was definitely fucked up. Thankfully, no violence ensued.

I remember this! There were some good ones on the GB. Haha. That fuckin’ guy. He was such a twat.

You will, it seems youve already got an admirer. Nobody wants me bro, but I like to be a good wingman. Lol

Keep up with this attitude and you’ll be dripping in bitches.

 

[AtramentousRex]

I feel like I should start one…




I remember this! There were some good ones on the GB. Haha. That fuckin’ guy. He was such a twat.




Keep up with this attitude and you’ll be dripping in bitches.

I know, right? I'm so whiny and emo. It's a good thing I'm so good looking.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Cold busted

 

[Apisto42]

Cold busted

Beer?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I know, right? I'm so whiny and emo. It's a good thing I'm so good looking.

You don’t have to be good looking. Just don’t be so emo.

 

[Chillygirl]

I’m in a couple of the local FB groups and it actually saved my ass. A guy had messaged me and I was going to respond when I suddenly thought he looked familiar. Sure enough he was posted along with all of his arrest history and pictures of the ex with busted ribs and black eyes.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I’m in a couple of the local FB groups and it actually saved my ass. A guy had messaged me and I was going to respond when I suddenly thought he looked familiar. Sure enough he was posted along with all of his arrest history and pictures of the ex with busted ribs and black eyes.

Glad you dodged that bullet!

 

[StillRain]

Anyone here part of these groups? I’ve been a member of 2 local groups for a while. My daughters are in their 20s and I like to just be in the groups in case a guy they know gets posted. But…these groups are fucking dangerous!

In one of my local groups, a woman posted last night that she learned that the man she’s been with for 4 years was in another relationship the whole time. She knew he talked with his “ex” and they share children together, so she’s going to be in his life. But, turns out their relationship never ended. This guy also has a record including MULTIPLE arrests for domestic violence as well as other charges.

In the comments section, women are attacking the OP for being the other woman (despite her ending the relationship when she learned this). MANY were defending the man! They “know him,” he’s so “nice and respectful” to them, etc. Others would share about his violent history and his friends would shut them down and say they were spreading rumors. And, as happens more and more in these groups, women screenshot the thread and shared it with him. His response was to go to her place and fucking assault her in front of her child. He choked her and punched her in the face.

The page’s reaction? Leave the fucking comments up, do nothing to address the lack of safety in the group, close comments, and move on. HE PHYSICALLY ATTACKED HER within 10 hours of the post. Women who share these posts with the men involved are nightmares.

It is really evident why these pages need to exist. I’ve seen many women learn their partner was cheating on these pages. But, at the same time, the pages are very dangerous.

They are always looking for volunteer moderators, too. I can’t imagine a more dangerous page to moderate.

Oh gosh! Yes I am on some of these groups for shits and giggles.

Someone posted one of my teens friends dad who is a major player and cheated on his first three wives.

I asked my child what I should do, they’re like post and tell her all about him! He’d told this woman he had no kids, was only married once… blah blah. He has six kids from three marriages.

Your story is awful. I’ve seen the sharing of posts and defending of men etc but nothing that horrific.

 

[Noor]

Can you imagine if Lit had a thread based on this?

You don’t have to imagine, it has had threads based on this.

 

[Noor]

One of the only benefits of it being a virtual environment. But what do you expect when all the women play with like, the same 5 men?

What do you mean?

 

[Noor]

I remember this! There were some good ones on the GB. Haha. That fuckin’ guy. He was such a twat.

Which one?

 

[Lord Pmann]

Which one?

There were a few and I can't remember his username. I wanna say maybe it was Peter or something along those lines.

 

[AtramentousRex]

What do you mean?

The popular Lit girls tend to pass around the same 5 or 6 hot, popular guys. So it has in the past become a tangled mess.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Anyone here part of these groups? I’ve been a member of 2 local groups for a while. My daughters are in their 20s and I like to just be in the groups in case a guy they know gets posted. But…these groups are fucking dangerous!

In one of my local groups, a woman posted last night that she learned that the man she’s been with for 4 years was in another relationship the whole time. She knew he talked with his “ex” and they share children together, so she’s going to be in his life. But, turns out their relationship never ended. This guy also has a record including MULTIPLE arrests for domestic violence as well as other charges.

In the comments section, women are attacking the OP for being the other woman (despite her ending the relationship when she learned this). MANY were defending the man! They “know him,” he’s so “nice and respectful” to them, etc. Others would share about his violent history and his friends would shut them down and say they were spreading rumors. And, as happens more and more in these groups, women screenshot the thread and shared it with him. His response was to go to her place and fucking assault her in front of her child. He choked her and punched her in the face.

The page’s reaction? Leave the fucking comments up, do nothing to address the lack of safety in the group, close comments, and move on. HE PHYSICALLY ATTACKED HER within 10 hours of the post. Women who share these posts with the men involved are nightmares.

It is really evident why these pages need to exist. I’ve seen many women learn their partner was cheating on these pages. But, at the same time, the pages are very dangerous.

They are always looking for volunteer moderators, too. I can’t imagine a more dangerous page to moderate.

I rarely go on fb now so I wasn't aware this was a thing.

The idea of it is great I think but I don't know how the groups could exist without inviting drama and potential risk and - if they're anything like the threads that blow up here after something kicks off - we all know some people would join only for the purpose of shit stirring.

But I do try and do a little digging whenever I match with someone to see if there's anything I need to be concerned about. I think it's a good idea to at least check each other's socials, though I probably wouldn't share my Lit name!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

The popular Lit girls tend to pass around the same 5 or 6 hot, popular guys. So it has in the past become a tangled mess.

I don't think that's true at all and, I'm sure you don't mean it to sound this way, it comes across very "manosphere" Tate brothers bullshit.

There are loads of really interesting men and women here and I think you do them and yourself a disservice with this attitude actually.