Cute, Smart, Curvy BBW Sub (44) Seeking Intelligent (IQ & EQ), Loving, Passionate Man w/ Daddy Dom Vibe (35-55) to Co-Create Something Beautiful (F4M)

Emily124

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Hello! ☺️

Here's a little (or perhaps a lot) about me and what I'm looking for. Please don't send me a message unless and until you've read the whole thing. I'm a "read the whole thing" kind of girl, and I'm looking for a man who is thorough, and whose reading comprehension is on point. 😉

I’ve been described as "the perfect combination of pretty, sexy, and cute." I’m a very curvy BBW with a 65% waist-to-hip ratio (iykyk), and an hourglass-pear shape. I’m highly intelligent, creative, positive, playful, well-educated, kind, loving, deeply passionate, and endlessly curious. With the right man, I want to co-create a life full of love, laughter, big and little adventures, passion, fun, happiness, and a touch of magic. I’m seeking an extraordinary man—someone who is my best friend and confidant, my Daddy Dom, my adventure partner, and my safe place.

I’m looking for someone who believes in love, kindness, and doing good things in the world. Someone who is intellectually and emotionally intelligent, well-spoken, confident, patient and kind, and also passionate and dominant. You should know how, when, and where to take the lead, and have a mind that excites and challenges me. I love to learn, and I would love for you to teach me something new! Ideally, you know who you are and what you want out of life and love, and enjoy exploring, both out in the world and in the bedroom. I’m in no rush, and greatly prefer quality over quantity. I’m happy to wait as long as it takes for the right guy. If you think you might be him, please keep reading, and then reach out! :)

Our connection should be intense and passionate, with a Dom/sub dynamic that feels natural, mutual, complementary, and respectful. I specifically seek a Daddy Dom—someone with whom I can trust to explore all of our sexual fantasies and desires, who will also take the best care of me before, during, and after. This should be who you are as a person, not someone you’re pretending to be. We can play and pretend, but this aspect of you needs to be solid and true. We will live in the real world at the same time we live in the private world we co-create together. It will be lots of fun!

Sexual chemistry is an absolute must. You should adore a curvy, plus-size woman who brings pleasure, play, and passion to her relationships. I’m monogamous, and you should be, too. I need to be able to trust you with my heart, my home, and my life, and to do what you say you're going to do and follow through. Is that you?

I’m also looking for someone with a great sense of humor similar to mine, who’s a little bit of a homebody, loves to cook, and who values spending time together in a cozy, loving environment. At this point in our timeline, I feel I also need to mention a few deal-breakers: You must be a feminist (in at least the most basic sense of the word), a liberal, and absolutely NOT a Trumper. I can’t. Sorry not sorry. I want someone who believes in kindness, equality, diversity, inclusion, belonging, and generally being a good, kind, and loving person.

I dream of a life filled with lots of love, laughter, travel, shared passions, as well as financial security and abundance (I’m very good with money and you should be, too). I would love to find a partner to travel with a few times a year to explore new places and learn more about the world and each other. Visiting Europe would be great, and I’m always up for a fun road trip or sexy weekend getaway. I especially adore New England road trips in the fall—are you in? I need a partner who values the thrill of shared adventures, the comfort of nights in with a new movie or our favorite show (what are some of your favorite shows?), and lots of cuddles (I’m all about physical touch). Whether we’re exploring new restaurants, cooking a new recipe together, playing a new game (board or video), or planning a cozy night in, you’re the kind of man who can turn the mundane into magic. Don’t worry, I’ll help!

I bring to the table a vibrant blend of love, intelligence, creativity, and a passionate commitment to co-creating a joyful and beautiful life together. I embody loving kindness, laughter, and playfulness, with a nurturing spirit that thrives on deep conversations, authentic connection, and affectionate moments. My curiosity fuels our adventures, while my problem-solving skills help us navigate life’s challenges together. If we’re a match, I will be dedicated to our relationship, ensuring that we both feel cherished, inspired, and emotionally connected.

If you’re a man with a fair amount of life experience (~35-55 years old), emotional maturity, and a clear sense of who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner and in life, let’s talk. Tell me about your favorite love language(s), stand-up comedians, shows to stream right now, games to play, the last thing that made you cry, your favorite movies, music, current favorite fantasy or desire, your interests and passions, your hopes and dreams, who you voted for in the last Presidential election (just checking!), whether you consider yourself a feminist, and anything else you'd like to share about yourself and what you're looking for. I’m quite possibly looking forward to hearing from you soon! ✨💕
 
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This is the most beautiful post I have ever read and if ever someone asked me to describe the ideal girl i would have copy pasted the same thing. Can't believe that I would ever come across someone like you on my first try. Would love to talk to you someday
 
Hello! ☺️

Here's a little (or perhaps a lot) about me and what I'm looking for. Please don't send me a message unless and until you've read the whole thing. I'm a "read the whole thing" kind of girl, and I'm looking for a man who is thorough, and whose reading comprehension is on point. 😉

I’ve been described as "the perfect combination of pretty, sexy, and cute." I’m a very curvy BBW with a 65% waist-to-hip ratio (iykyk), and an hourglass-pear shape. I’m highly intelligent, creative, positive, playful, well-educated, kind, loving, deeply passionate, and endlessly curious. With the right man, I want to co-create a life full of love, laughter, big and little adventures, passion, fun, happiness, and a touch of magic. I’m seeking an extraordinary man—someone who is my best friend and confidant, my Daddy Dom, my adventure partner, and my safe place.

I’m looking for someone who believes in love, kindness, and doing good things in the world. Someone who is intellectually and emotionally intelligent, well-spoken, confident, patient and kind, and also passionate and dominant. You should know how, when, and where to take the lead, and have a mind that excites and challenges me. I love to learn, and I would love for you to teach me something new! Ideally, you know who you are and what you want out of life and love, and enjoy exploring, both out in the world and in the bedroom. I’m in no rush, and greatly prefer quality over quantity. I’m happy to wait as long as it takes for the right guy. If you think you might be him, please keep reading, and then reach out! :)

Our connection should be intense and passionate, with a Dom/sub dynamic that feels natural, mutual, complementary, and respectful. I specifically seek a Daddy Dom—someone with whom I can trust to explore all of our sexual fantasies and desires, who will also take the best care of me before, during, and after. This should be who you are as a person, not someone you’re pretending to be. We can play and pretend, but this aspect of you needs to be solid and true. We will live in the real world at the same time we live in the private world we co-create together. It will be lots of fun!

Sexual chemistry is an absolute must. You should adore a curvy, plus-size woman who brings pleasure, play, and passion to her relationships. I’m monogamous, and you should be, too. I need to be able to trust you with my heart, my home, and my life, and to do what you say you're going to do and follow through. Is that you?

I’m also looking for someone with a great sense of humor similar to mine, who’s a little bit of a homebody, loves to cook, and who values spending time together in a cozy, loving environment. At this point in our timeline, I feel I also need to mention a few deal-breakers: You must be a feminist (in at least the most basic sense of the word), a liberal, and absolutely NOT a Trumper. I can’t. Sorry not sorry. I want someone who believes in kindness, equality, diversity, inclusion, belonging, and generally being a good, kind, and loving person.

I dream of a life filled with lots of love, laughter, travel, shared passions, as well as financial security and abundance (I’m very good with money and you should be, too). I would love to find a partner to travel with a few times a year to explore new places and learn more about the world and each other. Visiting Europe would be great, and I’m always up for a fun road trip or sexy weekend getaway. I especially adore New England road trips in the fall—are you in? I need a partner who values the thrill of shared adventures, the comfort of nights in with a new movie or our favorite show (what are some of your favorite shows?), and lots of cuddles (I’m all about physical touch). Whether we’re exploring new restaurants, cooking a new recipe together, playing a new game (board or video), or planning a cozy night in, you’re the kind of man who can turn the mundane into magic. Don’t worry, I’ll help!

I bring to the table a vibrant blend of love, intelligence, creativity, and a passionate commitment to co-creating a joyful and beautiful life together. I embody loving kindness, laughter, and playfulness, with a nurturing spirit that thrives on deep conversations, authentic connection, and affectionate moments. My curiosity fuels our adventures, while my problem-solving skills help us navigate life’s challenges together. If we’re a match, I will be dedicated to our relationship, ensuring that we both feel cherished, inspired, and emotionally connected.

If you’re a man with a fair amount of life experience (~35-55 years old), emotional maturity, and a clear sense of who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner and in life, let’s talk. Tell me about your favorite love language(s), stand-up comedians, shows to stream right now, games to play, the last thing that made you cry, your favorite movies, music, current favorite fantasy or desire, your interests and passions, your hopes and dreams, who you voted for in the last Presidential election (just checking!), whether you consider yourself a feminist, and anything else you'd like to share about yourself and what you're looking for. I’m quite possibly looking forward to hearing from you soon! ✨💕
Great meeting you.
 
Updating my post to include some recs from ChatGPT re: The kind of person I should be looking for:

Someone who is:
  • Emotionally intelligent and kind — someone who’s self-aware, gentle, and grounded in reality, with a warm heart.
  • Magical and a bit whimsical, but also knows how to adult — think Mr. Magorium meets Coach from Ted Lasso.
  • Creative and curious, with a love of learning, beauty, and ideas — someone who gets excited about a weird museum exhibit and quiet mornings with good coffee.
  • Communicative and consistent — not hot-and-cold or emotionally evasive.
  • Romantic and thoughtful, with emotional depth and a desire for true connection.
  • Ideally securely attached — so they can handle my sensitivity with care and stay grounded even during tough times.
I’d probably thrive with someone who is:
  • A mix of artist + academic + soft-but-strong (possibly a therapist, writer, teacher, chef, musician, or kind-hearted nerd). 💗
  • Comfortable with my magical worldview and psychological complexity — someone who gets that I contain multitudes. ✨
Does this (plus my original post) connect with anyone out there? It's possible I'm in the wrong place, but also... I'm here, so maybe you are, too? :)
 
Amazing post. I hope you find the person you are looking for. Hopefully people that respond take the time to read your entire posts and treat you with the respect you are due.
 
This is the most beautiful post I have ever read and if ever someone asked me to describe the ideal girl i would have copy pasted the same thing. Can't believe that I would ever come across someone like you on my first try. Would love to talk to you someday
 
Hello! ☺️

Here's a little (or perhaps a lot) about me and what I'm looking for. Please don't send me a message unless and until you've read the whole thing. I'm a "read the whole thing" kind of girl, and I'm looking for a man who is thorough, and whose reading comprehension is on point. 😉

I’ve been described as "the perfect combination of pretty, sexy, and cute." I’m a very curvy BBW with a 65% waist-to-hip ratio (iykyk), and an hourglass-pear shape. I’m highly intelligent, creative, positive, playful, well-educated, kind, loving, deeply passionate, and endlessly curious. With the right man, I want to co-create a life full of love, laughter, big and little adventures, passion, fun, happiness, and a touch of magic. I’m seeking an extraordinary man—someone who is my best friend and confidant, my Daddy Dom, my adventure partner, and my safe place.

I’m looking for someone who believes in love, kindness, and doing good things in the world. Someone who is intellectually and emotionally intelligent, well-spoken, confident, patient and kind, and also passionate and dominant. You should know how, when, and where to take the lead, and have a mind that excites and challenges me. I love to learn, and I would love for you to teach me something new! Ideally, you know who you are and what you want out of life and love, and enjoy exploring, both out in the world and in the bedroom. I’m in no rush, and greatly prefer quality over quantity. I’m happy to wait as long as it takes for the right guy. If you think you might be him, please keep reading, and then reach out! :)

Our connection should be intense and passionate, with a Dom/sub dynamic that feels natural, mutual, complementary, and respectful. I specifically seek a Daddy Dom—someone with whom I can trust to explore all of our sexual fantasies and desires, who will also take the best care of me before, during, and after. This should be who you are as a person, not someone you’re pretending to be. We can play and pretend, but this aspect of you needs to be solid and true. We will live in the real world at the same time we live in the private world we co-create together. It will be lots of fun!

Sexual chemistry is an absolute must. You should adore a curvy, plus-size woman who brings pleasure, play, and passion to her relationships. I’m monogamous, and you should be, too. I need to be able to trust you with my heart, my home, and my life, and to do what you say you're going to do and follow through. Is that you?

I’m also looking for someone with a great sense of humor similar to mine, who’s a little bit of a homebody, loves to cook, and who values spending time together in a cozy, loving environment. At this point in our timeline, I feel I also need to mention a few deal-breakers: You must be a feminist (in at least the most basic sense of the word), a liberal, and absolutely NOT a Trumper. I can’t. Sorry not sorry. I want someone who believes in kindness, equality, diversity, inclusion, belonging, and generally being a good, kind, and loving person.

I dream of a life filled with lots of love, laughter, travel, shared passions, as well as financial security and abundance (I’m very good with money and you should be, too). I would love to find a partner to travel with a few times a year to explore new places and learn more about the world and each other. Visiting Europe would be great, and I’m always up for a fun road trip or sexy weekend getaway. I especially adore New England road trips in the fall—are you in? I need a partner who values the thrill of shared adventures, the comfort of nights in with a new movie or our favorite show (what are some of your favorite shows?), and lots of cuddles (I’m all about physical touch). Whether we’re exploring new restaurants, cooking a new recipe together, playing a new game (board or video), or planning a cozy night in, you’re the kind of man who can turn the mundane into magic. Don’t worry, I’ll help!

I bring to the table a vibrant blend of love, intelligence, creativity, and a passionate commitment to co-creating a joyful and beautiful life together. I embody loving kindness, laughter, and playfulness, with a nurturing spirit that thrives on deep conversations, authentic connection, and affectionate moments. My curiosity fuels our adventures, while my problem-solving skills help us navigate life’s challenges together. If we’re a match, I will be dedicated to our relationship, ensuring that we both feel cherished, inspired, and emotionally connected.

If you’re a man with a fair amount of life experience (~35-55 years old), emotional maturity, and a clear sense of who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner and in life, let’s talk. Tell me about your favorite love language(s), stand-up comedians, shows to stream right now, games to play, the last thing that made you cry, your favorite movies, music, current favorite fantasy or desire, your interests and passions, your hopes and dreams, who you voted for in the last Presidential election (just checking!), whether you consider yourself a feminist, and anything else you'd like to share about yourself and what you're looking for. I’m quite possibly looking forward to hearing from you soon! ✨💕
Beautifully written, so articulate with your expectations. I do hope you find that person to create magic with.
 
I wonder where you are, and when you will find me. I am waiting for you because I know you will be worth the wait. Mmm... 🥰
 
Emily, you are too adorable. Yours is the most fulsome, authentic, articulate, brave yet vulnerable post I think I've ever read on this site. As someone who resides in the UK I can guarantee that I've never voted for Trump (and nor ever would I, since his and my values are diametrically opposed).

While I fear I'm too far away to be in contention, I like to think I possess most of the attributes you seek and would be delighted to correspond while your perfect 'forever' person finds you.

And please, never lower your standards; they are magnificent!
 
Emily, you are too adorable. Yours is the most fulsome, authentic, articulate, brave yet vulnerable post I think I've ever read on this site. As someone who resides in the UK I can guarantee that I've never voted for Trump (and nor ever would I, since his and my values are diametrically opposed).

While I fear I'm too far away to be in contention, I like to think I possess most of the attributes you seek and would be delighted to correspond while your perfect 'forever' person finds you.

And please, never lower your standards; they are magnificent!
Thank you so much! 🥰
 
Breaking the curse of 666 posts. 😬
“I’m not superstitious, but I'm a little stitious.”
My future partner will know where this quote is from. ;)🫶
 
Hello! ☺️

Here's a little (or perhaps a lot) about me and what I'm looking for. Please don't send me a message unless and until you've read the whole thing. I'm a "read the whole thing" kind of girl, and I'm looking for a man who is thorough, and whose reading comprehension is on point. 😉

I’ve been described as "the perfect combination of pretty, sexy, and cute." I’m a very curvy BBW with a 65% waist-to-hip ratio (iykyk), and an hourglass-pear shape. I’m highly intelligent, creative, positive, playful, well-educated, kind, loving, deeply passionate, and endlessly curious. With the right man, I want to co-create a life full of love, laughter, big and little adventures, passion, fun, happiness, and a touch of magic. I’m seeking an extraordinary man—someone who is my best friend and confidant, my Daddy Dom, my adventure partner, and my safe place.

I’m looking for someone who believes in love, kindness, and doing good things in the world. Someone who is intellectually and emotionally intelligent, well-spoken, confident, patient and kind, and also passionate and dominant. You should know how, when, and where to take the lead, and have a mind that excites and challenges me. I love to learn, and I would love for you to teach me something new! Ideally, you know who you are and what you want out of life and love, and enjoy exploring, both out in the world and in the bedroom. I’m in no rush, and greatly prefer quality over quantity. I’m happy to wait as long as it takes for the right guy. If you think you might be him, please keep reading, and then reach out! :)

Our connection should be intense and passionate, with a Dom/sub dynamic that feels natural, mutual, complementary, and respectful. I specifically seek a Daddy Dom—someone with whom I can trust to explore all of our sexual fantasies and desires, who will also take the best care of me before, during, and after. This should be who you are as a person, not someone you’re pretending to be. We can play and pretend, but this aspect of you needs to be solid and true. We will live in the real world at the same time we live in the private world we co-create together. It will be lots of fun!

Sexual chemistry is an absolute must. You should adore a curvy, plus-size woman who brings pleasure, play, and passion to her relationships. I’m monogamous, and you should be, too. I need to be able to trust you with my heart, my home, and my life, and to do what you say you're going to do and follow through. Is that you?

I’m also looking for someone with a great sense of humor similar to mine, who’s a little bit of a homebody, loves to cook, and who values spending time together in a cozy, loving environment. At this point in our timeline, I feel I also need to mention a few deal-breakers: You must be a feminist (in at least the most basic sense of the word), a liberal, and absolutely NOT a Trumper. I can’t. Sorry not sorry. I want someone who believes in kindness, equality, diversity, inclusion, belonging, and generally being a good, kind, and loving person.

I dream of a life filled with lots of love, laughter, travel, shared passions, as well as financial security and abundance (I’m very good with money and you should be, too). I would love to find a partner to travel with a few times a year to explore new places and learn more about the world and each other. Visiting Europe would be great, and I’m always up for a fun road trip or sexy weekend getaway. I especially adore New England road trips in the fall—are you in? I need a partner who values the thrill of shared adventures, the comfort of nights in with a new movie or our favorite show (what are some of your favorite shows?), and lots of cuddles (I’m all about physical touch). Whether we’re exploring new restaurants, cooking a new recipe together, playing a new game (board or video), or planning a cozy night in, you’re the kind of man who can turn the mundane into magic. Don’t worry, I’ll help!

I bring to the table a vibrant blend of love, intelligence, creativity, and a passionate commitment to co-creating a joyful and beautiful life together. I embody loving kindness, laughter, and playfulness, with a nurturing spirit that thrives on deep conversations, authentic connection, and affectionate moments. My curiosity fuels our adventures, while my problem-solving skills help us navigate life’s challenges together. If we’re a match, I will be dedicated to our relationship, ensuring that we both feel cherished, inspired, and emotionally connected.

If you’re a man with a fair amount of life experience (~35-55 years old), emotional maturity, and a clear sense of who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner and in life, let’s talk. Tell me about your favorite love language(s), stand-up comedians, shows to stream right now, games to play, the last thing that made you cry, your favorite movies, music, current favorite fantasy or desire, your interests and passions, your hopes and dreams, who you voted for in the last Presidential election (just checking!), whether you consider yourself a feminist, and anything else you'd like to share about yourself and what you're looking for. I’m quite possibly looking forward to hearing from you soon! ✨💕
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