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Good morning Wonderer. The viruses are making their way through all the grandchildren and their moms and dads. Fortunately they stay away so grandpa doesn’t get it. 🤞.

A warm delightful day yesterday as had lunch and then dinner outside at a couple of wonderful restaurants. Today’s forecast is for storms! It’s better than the cold and snow.

Stay safe and have a good day. Going for cup 2.
Another post that I’d love to put a heart on and a sad pace at the same time. Sorry that they are little incubators and petri dishes.

And that you can’t see your gf…

But your spirit and attitude always makes me wanna put a heart on your posts!
 
I am pretty sure you are up near the wildfires. Hope all is well and that you are staying out of trouble!
The wildfires are on the opposite side of the state from us. Way down in south Central Jersey in the pinelands. (we call the Pine baron which sounds a whole lot scarier. It’s where the legend of the Jersey Devil was born and weird shit does happen down there…)

Anyway, the fire seems mostly under control now and I think only one commercial building was destroyed and a few outbuildings

I’ve heard nothing but great things about the firefighters and their response. I work with a few people from down that direction and the Tuesday and Wednesday were turned upside down.
 
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Sorry to hear this mitt.

Same thing happened to my mom. UTIs were the culprit. She would get dizzy, disoriented and fall.

Sending positive energy your way, bro. I hope your mom is ok….
UTI? I never would have thought about it, but yeah. I gotta have them be more thorough. I know they are not checking for that. If she is holding it all day because she is worried about falling, it may only be getting worse because she's holding it.

Thanks for the bread crumb @Wonderer67
 
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UTI? I never would have thought about it, but yeah. I gotta have them be more thorough. I know they are not checking for that. If she is holding it all day because she is worried about falling, it may only be getting worse because she's holding it.

Thanks for the bread crumb @Wonderer67
With LOLs uti will cause a lot of problems.... and dehydration too.... older people don't have a sense of thirst and dehydrate easily. I good test is to gently pull on the skin of her arm... if it pulls up and stays there like an old fashioned tent... she needs to drink some water/ Gatorade etc....
 
Hey there and Welcome!

Feel free to join us. Think of this group as a coffee klatch or a bunch of people who meet daily at the bar or coffee shop.

Just a few simple rules that we “govern” our thread by. I’m an anarchist, but can live by some basic frameworks.

1. Basic respect for all - especially the women here.
2. No politics, religion or drama..
3. No hitting on the women folk!

Tell us a little bit about yourself. I see you’re from Southwest UK. Closest I’ve ever gotten out there is Bristol - then into Wales, where we promptly forgot that our passports were in the hotel lockbox back in Bristol. (not that we needed them to go into Wales.)

I am from Jersey. The state, not the island.
Thank you.

I'm not terribly mobile, so here I am. In my little corner of the world
 
With LOLs uti will cause a lot of problems.... and dehydration too.... older people don't have a sense of thirst and dehydrate easily. I good test is to gently pull on the skin of her arm... if it pulls up and stays there like an old fashioned tent... she needs to drink some water/ Gatorade etc....
Oh hell! I will go get a glass of water now! I guess the coffee isn't hydrating enough!
 
With LOLs uti will cause a lot of problems.... and dehydration too.... older people don't have a sense of thirst and dehydrate easily. I good test is to gently pull on the skin of her arm... if it pulls up and stays there like an old fashioned tent... she needs to drink some water/ Gatorade etc....
@Missk_2022 Thank you, thank you.

I will take all the advice I can get. Sometimes I just sit there and don't know what to do or check for. I definitely don't know what to look for.

Keep 'em coming! They are welcome, not a nuisance to us.

Send some smiling vibes to Mrs. Mitt as well please. She has to do all the personal care and take up my slack while I'm at work. Bless that woman for sticking around when she probably shouldn't.
 
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UTI? I never would have thought about it, but yeah. I gotta have them be more thorough. I know they are not checking for that. If she is holding it all day because she is worried about falling, it may only be getting worse because she's holding it.

Thanks for the bread crumb @Wonderer67
It’s definitely an issue with older folk. My mom would not drink a lot of water, because she didn’t want to have to get up and go to the bathroom often.

This led to UTIs, then to falling and confusion. It’s pretty common with folks of advanced age.
 
@Missk_2022 Thank you, thank you.

I will take all the advice I can get. Sometimes I just sit there and don't know what to do or check for. I definitely don't know what to look for.

Keep 'em coming! They are welcome, not a nuisance to us.

Send some smiling vibes to Mrs. Mitt as well please. She has to do all the personal care and take up my slack while I'm at work. Bless that woman for sticking around when she probably shouldn't.
Send your wife a love letter..... this is what love is......

Stepped up when shit got hard....

I know wonderer.... I know....haha
 
Everyone's first wives are awful.... i guess that is why they are exes...I haven't ever been an ex wife because I am delightful

Hmm I haven't been a first and only either.... we'll shoot
My first wife was a lovely lady.

I fucked it up.

My second wife was super controlling. She fucked that up.

My third wife is the bestest.

Yes, I am crazy for getting married 3x. I told Mrs wonderer I would never do it again, but she made me an offer I couldn’t refuse.
 
@Missk_2022 Thank you, thank you.

I will take all the advice I can get. Sometimes I just sit there and don't know what to do or check for. I definitely don't know what to look for.

Keep 'em coming! They are welcome, not a nuisance to us.

Send some smiling vibes to Mrs. Mitt as well please. She has to do all the personal care and take up my slack while I'm at work. Bless that woman for sticking around when she probably shouldn't.
Mrs mitt is an angel.

Pure and simple.

beware of the coffee though, my mom drank coffee day and night and it can actually be dehydrating…
 
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