Dudes, do you like being called a faggot?

Faggot is as faggot does.
You suck his cock. You're his faggot.
You've earned that title. Be proud.
I agree 100 percent... I've been sucking the same straight guy's cock for almost 10 years now... He uses my other hole now and then when he feels like it... It literally makes me quiver when he calls me "faggot"... There are only a couple of other men in the general area whom I've sucked in the past... About a year ago I saw one of them in a shopping center and he told me to meet him again sometime that week and suck his cock again... I told him that I've been the same guy's bitch for 10 years and he doesn't want me servicing any other men... The guy just said: "Too bad...you're the most talented faggot I ever used." ... Hearing that from him made me quiver intensely also... When a man knows that I'm a faggot and calls me "faggot" , I know he has the right and that excites me.
 
I agree 100 percent... I've been sucking the same straight guy's cock for almost 10 years now... He uses my other hole now and then when he feels like it... It literally makes me quiver when he calls me "faggot"... There are only a couple of other men in the general area whom I've sucked in the past... About a year ago I saw one of them in a shopping center and he told me to meet him again sometime that week and suck his cock again... I told him that I've been the same guy's bitch for 10 years and he doesn't want me servicing any other men... The guy just said: "Too bad...you're the most talented faggot I ever used." ... Hearing that from him made me quiver intensely also... When a man knows that I'm a faggot and calls me "faggot" , I know he has the right and that excites me.
So you sucked him off anyway, as a kind of reward for that beautiful compliment?
Because that's exactly what I would have done! To hell with fidelity.
 
... When a man knows that I'm a faggot and calls me "faggot" , I know he has the right and that excites me.
You know that he knows what you are.

When I'm out sucking cock I don't really memorize their faces -- I'm a little busy and all I can usually see is cock and balls -- but I have yet to run into someone out in public who I've serviced. I think it'd be exciting and scary all at the same time.
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He brushed past me at the Home Depot as I was trying to pick the correct flapper valve to fix my aging toilet. I thought it was odd, as the aisle was fairly wide - but didn't think much else about it. He pointed at the product in my hand, "That one is probably the best, you need one that can handle big loads." What an odd thing to say..... I felt the hairs on the back of my neck rise in alarm.

It was then that I stopped thinking about toilets and turned to look at him.

...then I recognized him. I'd sucked his cock just a few days ago at my favorite Adult Video Arcade. The shock of adrenaline startled me, and I dropped the package. As I bent to pick it up I looked straight at his crotch, with the noticeable tenting just under the surface, obviously caused by a rigid penis that I'd had in my mouth not that long ago.

I looked up at him. "Good to see you again, faggot." he said, smiling.

I knew what he wanted. I knew I was going to give it to him.


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I desire to submissively suck cock, but I prefer a dom be benevolent rather than abusive. Some guys think that being an abusive asshole is a turn on. Not for me. I desire to submit to the superior cock and appreciate encouragement but I hate abusive words like faggot and queer. If a guy is truly superior, he doesn't need to convince me or himself or himself by being a jerkoff. I do like dirty talk but there are some things that offend me.
 
You know that he knows what you are.

When I'm out sucking cock I don't really memorize their faces -- I'm a little busy and all I can usually see is cock and balls -- but I have yet to run into someone out in public who I've serviced. I think it'd be exciting and scary all at the same time.
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He brushed past me at the Home Depot as I was trying to pick the correct flapper valve to fix my aging toilet. I thought it was odd, as the aisle was fairly wide - but didn't think much else about it. He pointed at the product in my hand, "That one is probably the best, you need one that can handle big loads." What an odd thing to say..... I felt the hairs on the back of my neck rise in alarm.

It was then that I stopped thinking about toilets and turned to look at him.

...then I recognized him. I'd sucked his cock just a few days ago at my favorite Adult Video Arcade. The shock of adrenaline startled me, and I dropped the package. As I bent to pick it up I looked straight at his crotch, with the noticeable tenting just under the surface, obviously caused by a rigid penis that I'd had in my mouth not that long ago.

I looked up at him. "Good to see you again, faggot." he said, smiling.

I knew what he wanted. I knew I was going to give it to him.


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I know how you must have been quivering intensely inside when that guy addressed you as what you really are... The same thing happened to me a in a shopping center a couple of years ago... We foolishly convince ourselves that we can turn our true identity off and on like a light switch at our choosing... However, the truth is, we are faggots over and above anything else and we will always respond submissively when addressed as such....
 
We foolishly convince ourselves that we can turn our true identity off and on like a light switch at our choosing...
That's SO true -- about SO many things, not just sexuality.

In fact, the best we can do is try to tamp it down, maybe feed it a cookie, and gently put it back into the closet, desperately hoping it doesn't pop-up at a very inconvenient and devastatingly revealing time.
 
I know how you must have been quivering intensely inside when that guy addressed you as what you really are... The same thing happened to me a in a shopping center a couple of years ago... We foolishly convince ourselves that we can turn our true identity off and on like a light switch at our choosing... However, the truth is, we are faggots over and above anything else and we will always respond submissively when addressed as such....
So hot
 
That's SO true -- about SO many things, not just sexuality.

In fact, the best we can do is try to tamp it down, maybe feed it a cookie, and gently put it back into the closet, desperately hoping it doesn't pop-up at a very inconvenient and devastatingly revealing time.
Agreed! I’ve been secretly sucking men’s dicks for over30 years!! I’ve given thousands of blowjobs and I absolutely love it. I love men cumming in my mouth! I finally jut admitted to myself that I Am a cocksucker
 
I told myself to just let this one go and I tried. Unless I'm fueling their flame I am not a bundle of sticks bound together for fuel. I'm still at a loss where they got from that to meaning your homosexual. It's not much of an insult when put into context of it's original meaning but still it's not something I want to be called in front of others outside of the bedroom even if it is true. You 'little' pricks. ;) I'm a bit sensitive since this was the word of choice when I was a youngster before I even knew what the stupid word meant. Let's just say in the 70's it wasn't in the dictionaries or encyclopedias yet. I just knew it was not nice because the way the older boys said it when they would call me that and then laugh about it. Sorry it's a bit triggering. Most likely they didn't know what they were saying either or they were what they were calling me. At least that's what I told myself.
 
I told myself to just let this one go and I tried. Unless I'm fueling their flame I am not a bundle of sticks bound together for fuel. I'm still at a loss where they got from that to meaning your homosexual. It's not much of an insult when put into context of it's original meaning but still it's not something I want to be called in front of others outside of the bedroom even if it is true. You 'little' pricks. ;) I'm a bit sensitive since this was the word of choice when I was a youngster before I even knew what the stupid word meant. Let's just say in the 70's it wasn't in the dictionaries or encyclopedias yet. I just knew it was not nice because the way the older boys said it when they would call me that and then laugh about it. Sorry it's a bit triggering. Most likely they didn't know what they were saying either or they were what they were calling me. At least that's what I told myself.
So, "faggot" is a co-opted word that, decades or centuries ago, meant a meatball, a cigarette, or a bundle of sticks, and still might in some dictionaries - but many of the dictionaries that don't totally suppress the word out of terror list it's first definition as a male homosexual.

Times change, and so does word slang -- "The Flintstones" always had a "Gay Old Time" - and back then no one ever accused Fred of going balls-deep in Barney ( -- tho some of us suspected!) The primary definition of that word changed over time, too.

Of course, you still have the total and complete right to not want to have it used.

Some guys like it.
 
So, "faggot" is a co-opted word that, decades or centuries ago, meant a meatball, a cigarette, or a bundle of sticks, and still might in some dictionaries - but many of the dictionaries that don't totally suppress the word out of terror list it's first definition as a male homosexual.

Times change, and so does word slang -- "The Flintstones" always had a "Gay Old Time" - and back then no one ever accused Fred of going balls-deep in Barney ( -- tho some of us suspected!) The primary definition of that word changed over time, too.

Of course, you still have the total and complete right to not want to have it used.

Some guys like it.
I do.
 
So, "faggot" is a co-opted word that, decades or centuries ago, meant a meatball, a cigarette, or a bundle of sticks, and still might in some dictionaries - but many of the dictionaries that don't totally suppress the word out of terror list it's first definition as a male homosexual.

Times change, and so does word slang -- "The Flintstones" always had a "Gay Old Time" - and back then no one ever accused Fred of going balls-deep in Barney ( -- tho some of us suspected!) The primary definition of that word changed over time, too.

Of course, you still have the total and complete right to not want to have it used.

Some guys like it.
Well I know that words change their meanings over time. In the heat and passion of the moment I don’t mind being called faggot since we would both be in the act just not out on the street please unless you are including yourself in that and you whispered in my ear. Like “Would you like to cum home with me little faggot and let me fuck you.”
I have heard the term sucking on a fag which refers to smoking a cigarette. I think that’s a UK or Europe thing not sure. I never heard the meatball one though. Anyway thanks for the reply sorry again I was feeling a bit triggered with my reply and just had to get it out.
 
So, "faggot" is a co-opted word that, decades or centuries ago, meant a meatball, a cigarette, or a bundle of sticks, and still might in some dictionaries - but many of the dictionaries that don't totally suppress the word out of terror list it's first definition as a male homosexual.

Times change, and so does word slang -- "The Flintstones" always had a "Gay Old Time" - and back then no one ever accused Fred of going balls-deep in Barney ( -- tho some of us suspected!) The primary definition of that word changed over time, too.

Of course, you still have the total and complete right to not want to have it used.

Some guys like it.
Language is very dynamic and morphs over time. While the discussion here is about the word "faggot", and you mentioned "gay" in passing, "queer" is yet another one for the history books.

In the USA at least its not proper to call someone "queer" or use the word in a sentence generally speaking. But that was never the case. It use to be if someone mentioned an enigma, a person might reply, "indeed, that is queer".

To me the term "faggot" is offensive or not based on the context.

To be told, "hey faggot, get over here and blow me", would be offensive. But in the midst of a blowjob they man was absolutely mind-blown and called me "faggot", I would not find that offensive, but complementary.

Yes, we are what we do, but just because we should always tell the truth, does not mean the truth always needs to be said. There are a billion words in the English Language, why call someone a faggot when you could just say their mouth feels incredibly good?
 
Language is very dynamic and morphs over time. While the discussion here is about the word "faggot", and you mentioned "gay" in passing, "queer" is yet another one for the history books.

In the USA at least its not proper to call someone "queer" or use the word in a sentence generally speaking. But that was never the case. It use to be if someone mentioned an enigma, a person might reply, "indeed, that is queer".

To me the term "faggot" is offensive or not based on the context.

To be told, "hey faggot, get over here and blow me", would be offensive. But in the midst of a blowjob they man was absolutely mind-blown and called me "faggot", I would not find that offensive, but complementary.

Yes, we are what we do, but just because we should always tell the truth, does not mean the truth always needs to be said. There are a billion words in the English Language, why call someone a faggot when you could just say their mouth feels incredibly good?
"Why call someone a faggot when you could just say their mouth feels incredibly good? " I think that when someone uses the word foggot, he is asserting dominance and expecting submission, at some level. That's why if a man calls me faggot while I'm sucking his cock, that's the end of the nlowjob. He'll be lucky if I don't give him a knee in the balls. The word triggers a lot of bad memories of my youth, but I resent the expectation and assumption that I'm submitting to his dominance. If I'm sucking a man's dick, I will be control and doing him a favor.
 
"Why call someone a faggot when you could just say their mouth feels incredibly good? " I think that when someone uses the word foggot, he is asserting dominance and expecting submission, at some level. That's why if a man calls me faggot while I'm sucking his cock, that's the end of the nlowjob. He'll be lucky if I don't give him a knee in the balls. The word triggers a lot of bad memories of my youth, but I resent the expectation and assumption that I'm submitting to his dominance. If I'm sucking a man's dick, I will be control and doing him a favor.
I think that is the true wonder of a blowjob. On the surface it seems as if the person getting the blowjob is the one in control, but that is really not the case. The true power lies in the one giving it. Sure they might be on their hurting knees, their jaw might ache, are about to get a mouthful of cum they must deal with, and certainly are not getting off themselves; or at least at that moment, and yet all of us know the power that comes from edging. Pull your mouth off him a few seconds before he cums and see just who has the power. He will be begging for release, hell even an unexpected delay or unforeseen edging moment and there can be a desperate cry to continue.

For me, I go back and forth as I am giving one, and one of the reasons I love it so much. One moment I feel submissive as I am on my knees, but then a few moments later as he elicits a moan, I realize how powerful I am really being. But if I go to deep and start gagging, I realize how vulnerable I am. Pull back to a more comfortable level and there is typically cues he liked me going very deep on him.

It really is that back and forth for me that I like.

While being called a faggot is not a trigger for me, done too early and it reduces my kind act to just a demand.

I can overlook being called it at certain times in the heat of passion, but that's the only viable time I see it being justified. There are better ways to set things up between you and the guy kind enough to give you a blowjob.
 
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