Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[JennyCapricorn]

One caveat, @SoReadyNow, Emily's Escorts is just for women. So if that's not your thing, maybe try a different room. I find them too fast-paced for an in-depth conversation. Too much pressure for my enjoyment.

Further clarification: men can be in Emily’s they just can’t hit on anyone. It’s not like this thread where they just aren’t welcome.

A lot of people have tech issues with the chat rooms; you're not alone!

Oh heavens no!

For me, a little witty flirting in the forums is a great starting point. Emphasis on 'witty.' If they can't flirt in an interesting way in a forum, then I probably won't enjoy a PM.

That’s also a great point.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

An excellent point. I guess I've just been lucky so far (what, five or so chats in?), everyone has been witty, giving, and even - gasp - literate. So, is Emily's Escort open to bi women?

Oh yes indeed. I’ve wasted (and been wasted) many an afternoon there….

 

[Lorelei907]

Men will tend to poke their noses in wherever and when ever they can. The best thing to do is ignore them.

I’ve been into the chats a couple time but can’t say it’s my cup of tea either. Most of the time it didn’t seem like much was going on or so much chatter that my own message got drowned out. Threads can be fun but DMs can be a lot more intimate.

 

[Cruel_summer]

Thought of the day…officially done putting my self-worth on the line. I am beyond sick of only being good enough in certain situations and being the only one putting in effort. This is the case for friendships and relationships.
End rant *sips wine*

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Thought of the day…officially done putting my self-worth on the line. I am beyond sick of only being good enough in certain situations and being the only one putting in effort. This is the case for friendships and relationships.
End rant *sips wine*

Amen, sister.

 

[Little__one__]

Thought of the day…officially done putting my self-worth on the line. I am beyond sick of only being good enough in certain situations and being the only one putting in effort. This is the case for friendships and relationships.
End rant *sips wine*

This 100%

 

[velona]

Thought of the day…officially done putting my self-worth on the line. I am beyond sick of only being good enough in certain situations and being the only one putting in effort. This is the case for friendships and relationships.
End rant *sips wine*

Totally agree! Easy to see who your real friends are when you stop reaching out first all the time. Wish I could pull back a bit in family relationships too but just too complicated for that at the moment…

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Just venting

So, I got put in someone's friend zone, and I'm crushed
I felt the most rejected yesterday by this person after my attempts to flirt. This is a person I've been sexy friends with since last summer... It hurts.... Really bad.

 

[Strixaluco]

Just venting

So, I got put in someone's friend zone, and I'm crushed
I felt the most rejected yesterday by this person after my attempts to flirt. This is a person I've been sexy friends with since last summer... It hurts.... Really bad.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Just venting

So, I got put in someone's friend zone, and I'm crushed
I felt the most rejected yesterday by this person after my attempts to flirt. This is a person I've been sexy friends with since last summer... It hurts.... Really bad.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Awww, thank you ..
It hits hard being rejected because I'm so sensitive about my flirting skills anyways...... I've never felt rejected before from this person...

 

[stickygirl]

Slightly random post, but this appeared on my Insta dash.
Since England won the Euro's they have a platform as advocates for women's sport in the UK, highlighting, for example, the trend for young women becoming discouraged from active team games because of poor clothing options that prevent leaks. I hope this mural is for real and not AI

 

[Lorelei907]

Just venting

So, I got put in someone's friend zone, and I'm crushed
I felt the most rejected yesterday by this person after my attempts to flirt. This is a person I've been sexy friends with since last summer... It hurts.... Really bad.

Aww… sending hugs, Sweetie!!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I wanted to share this song with you all...
It's very fitting for me, maybe you too?

 

[Lorelei907]

I wanted to share this song with you all...
It's very fitting for me, maybe you too?

Just love this Sweetie, it’s beautiful! And so are you!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I love music and there's a few songs that remind me of a recently fucked up D/s dynamic I was in for a LONG time...
But here's the one that really resignates my feelings...

"The Grudge" by Olivia Rodrigo

I don't feel comfortable sharing the rest, how he is sooo narcissist, and gaslit me horribly recently...
But I learned about myself after that ended...
That's the important part

ETA:
I can't call it a "relationship", according to him . It was 3 years, he sent me cards and gifts... Dedicated a song, chatted and played together daily.. But it wasn't a "relationship", and apparently it was in my head that it's anything more than FWB..

Fuck all that!! He's blocked, and if he's reading this...
I'm stronger than you think...

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Here's the powerful lyrics:

I have nightmares each week about that Friday in May
One phone call from you and my entire world was changed
Trust that you betrayed, confusion that still lingers
Took everything I loved and crushed it in between your fingers
And I doubt you ever think about the damage that you did
But I hold onto every detail like my life depends on it
My undying love, now I hold it like a grudge
And I hear your voice every time that I think I'm not enough
And I try to be tough, but I wanna scream
How could anybody do the things you did so easily?
And I say I don't care, I say that I'm fine
But you know I can't let it go
I've tried, I've tried, I've tried for so long
It takes strength to forgive, but I don't feel strong
The arguments that I have won against you in my head
In the shower, in the car and in the mirror before bed
Yeah, I'm so tough when I'm alone and I make you feel so guilty
And I fantasize about a time you're a little fuckin' sorry
And I try to understand why you would do this all to me
You must be insecure, you must be so unhappy
And I know in my heart hurt people hurt people
And we both drew blood, but, man, those cuts were never equal
And I try to be tough, but I wanna scream
How could anybody do the things you did so easily?
And I say I don't care, I say that I'm fine
But you know I can't let it go
I've tried, I've tried, I've tried for so long
It takes strength to forgive, but I don't feel strong
Ooh, do you think I deserved it all?
Ooh, your flowers filled with vitriol
You built me up to watch me fall
You have everything and you still want more
I try to be tough, I try to be mean
But even after all this, you're still everything to me
And I know you don't care, I guess that that's fine
But you know I can't let it go
I've tried, I've tried, I've tried for so long
It takes strength to forgive, but I'm not quite sure I'm there yet
It takes strength to forgive, but

Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Daniel Nigro / Olivia Rodrigo
the grudge lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

 

[Strixaluco]

I love music and there's a few songs that remind me of a recently fucked up D/s dynamic I was in for a LONG time...
But here's the one that really resignates my feelings...

"The Grudge" by Olivia Rodrigo

I don't feel comfortable sharing the rest, how he is sooo narcissist, and gaslit me horribly recently...
But I learned about myself after that ended...
That's the important part

ETA:
I can't call it a "relationship", according to him . It was 3 years, he sent me cards and gifts... Dedicated a song, chatted and played together daily.. But it wasn't a "relationship", and apparently it was in my head that it's anything more than FWB..

Fuck all that!! He's blocked, and if he's reading this...
I'm stronger than you think...

Fuck him, that's totally a relationship. It's only a question of what kind of relationship.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Yeah, definitely not a romantic one... But I agree fully.. It was something to me, especially.

 

[Cruel_summer]

Reviving this a bit.

Someone tell me to stop thinking with my emotional brain and use more of the logical part

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Reviving this a bit.

Someone tell me to stop thinking with my emotional brain and use more of the logical part

It's so hard to think logically when your empathetic...

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Reviving this a bit.

Someone tell me to stop thinking with my emotional brain and use more of the logical part

Is this a romantic part of the brain or are you thinking with your clit?

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Hi!
I am new to this thread... I noticed it a few days ago, and I am glad for such a thread here.
Lit can be grat fun, but as all human interaction, sometimes can generate confusion, frustration, anger and sadness.

Happy to have another Bunny join us. Welcome!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Fuck him, that's totally a relationship. It's only a question of what kind of relationship.

Some relationships need to be literal ships and sail away. When you find the one that becomes a safe harbor, that's when you can disembark, build your home, and plant your garden—together.

 

[BongoGal]

Is this a romantic part of the brain or are you thinking with your clit?

Wow...."thinking with your clit". I've never heard that particular expression, but I kind of like it. Totally filthy.