Cock Talk

He asked if I wanted to try a move my sister raves about; lying on your back with your head hanging off the mattress
Clearly cherry picking a response here(I clicked on cock talk and a response to your post just jumped out at me🤭)

When the person and timing is right this is my absolute favorite position for a blow job.
I love that you are on this journey and I am looking forward to reading all about it. Your openness is inspiring.
 
Normally, I’d argue that the person giving the BJ is in control, but this position is the exception.
I have to assume a smaller/average size cock is preferable in this case? Seems like an enormous one would destroy the esophagus. It also seems like it would be a more claustrophobic position, even though your body is open on the bed, your mouth and throat are full and your eyes are covered in balls.
It just also seems extremely uncomfortable for the “person with the throat”.
I’ve never tried this position with someone who has a bigger than average cock, so I can’t speak to that from experience. I can say that, for me, this is the position in which I can take a cock the deepest with the least amount of difficulty. So I assume that would still hold true for a larger than average cock. And any man for whom I am getting in that position will already have been advised that I am not the queen of deep throating, so they will know that they have to start slow.

When the person and timing is right this is my absolute favorite position for a blow job.
Mine too.
 
What makes a particular cock more visually appealing?
This one is uncircumcised and I love watching his foreskin move. The head of his cock swells into this crimson bulb that looks like a love heart. His pubes are fire red. It's attached to a wonderful human. It's not just visual. It's everything. I'm experiencing my lover through his penis. He's so attuned to it and I can learn a lot about him through the way his body responds to my interactions with his cock.
 
This one is uncircumcised and I love watching his foreskin move. The head of his cock swells into this crimson bulb that looks like a love heart. His pubes are fire red. It's attached to a wonderful human. It's not just visual. It's everything. I'm experiencing my lover through his penis. He's so attuned to it and I can learn a lot about him through the way his body responds to my interactions with his cock.
That's brilliant, and dare I say, likely a more evolved human. Most men don't have nuance to their cock, it's less scalpel and more club.

Interesting explanation, thanks.
 
Oh, let's talk about this...!

Everyone-; thoughts?
I am wondering if by club @MischiefMakerAlways means a tool to pound with 😜
Seriously though having a partner that knows themselves well and can show you, by touching himself, what he likes while you can watch his body react. Watching the intake of breath, formation of goosebumps, gentle swell, or pulse can be a transformative learning experience. It is rare to be with someone who knows their body this way and is willing to share it so openly.
 
I think @Peter_Out is on to something about how a penis can exist on a spectrum of club <> scalpel within the same person. I've heard (more than once) from lovers that I bring out a part of them that would fall further along the scalpel side. With other lovers they're a little "clubbier".

I know that I show up differently with different lovers as a baseline, and then during sex I can move along a spectrum too.

I'm a sucker for guys who are willing to let me watch them touch themselves. Those who have physical (and ideally, visceral) reactions when I explore their bodies. Who allow me to play them like an instrument, hell, like a symphony orchestra!! Percussion is just as important as melody and there's room for all elements of clubbing and scalpeling here 😁
 
I feel like you're talking about @Lord Pmann

First off, my dick is precise, like a scalpel. It's shiny. Hard. Very sharp on the sides.

Second, how precise does one need to be? I mean, the dick is just kind of getting rubbed around the insides. It's not like it's worried about hitting an artery. The G-spot is a smushy place.

Third, I believe we should allow Ms. @EvaLane have sex with me so she may report back to whether my dick is like a club or a scalpel.

Also, I don't think any guy here is gonna take offense if you describe our dicks as a club.
 
I think @Peter_Out is on to something about how a penis can exist on a spectrum of club <> scalpel within the same person. I've heard (more than once) from lovers that I bring out a part of them that would fall further along the scalpel side. With other lovers they're a little "clubbier".

I know that I show up differently with different lovers as a baseline, and then during sex I can move along a spectrum too.

I'm a sucker for guys who are willing to let me watch them touch themselves. Those who have physical (and ideally, visceral) reactions when I explore their bodies. Who allow me to play them like an instrument, hell, like a symphony orchestra!! Percussion is just as important as melody and there's room for all elements of clubbing and scalpeling here 😁
I can only speak for me, but touching myself for a partner and letting her explore is such a turn on and it’s something that I haven’t really experienced since college.
 
I feel like you're talking about @Lord Pmann

Third, I believe we should allow Ms. @EvaLane have sex with me so she may report back to whether my dick is like a club or a scalpel.

It’s a shame written consent doesn’t hold up in court - because you all saw that, right?

Official permission granted to spill the beans about his ding-a-ling.

And if we’re letting a jury of my peers decide who I fuck, I might finally get some action for once, so please! Start deliberating 🤗☺️
 
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