Cock Talk

[MindYaBitness]

Well, now I want a Vajazzling. I remember they were all the rage shortly after lockdown. Maybe something like this? Cute

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Has anyone ever shaved or waxed their partner? Would you want to? Would you want your partner to shave/wax you?

So many questionssssss.

Yes, but the ones you get in the Salon aren't in pre-set designs, or pre-glued. I got to be a vajazzled artíst!

 

[Mei5ter]

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Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?)

It's 1997. And it's staying that way.

I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

Yes, age is the reason you walked into the kitchen and forgot why.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

No. I've been flirty with people older and younger than me. If I like you and I'm attracted to you, that's the way it is. People are individuals, not demographics.

- What about in person?

Same. I'm not one of those men who wants a girlfriend half his age, thank you.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

Right. This is a complex question. Role-play and age play mean different things to different people.

I'm going to risk pissing everyone off by using BDSM as a comparison. At one end of the spectrum, maybe you like the physical sensation of a spanking once in a while. At the other end, BDSM is a label for a dynamic of care and love and power which expresses and underpins your whole relationship and connection.

Age play is similar, I think. At one end, maybe you've dug out the schoolgirl outfit for playtime because you wore the leather corset and thigh boots last night, felt like a change of pace, and the nurse costume was still in the laundry basket. It's sexy, it's a little bit naughty (as Matilda might have said), and you take the role off with the costume afterwards.

Then, you have play involving power exchange and power imbalance. Age play often serves as a proxy for that. It's familiar, and we've all experienced it. We're used to older figures having that authority and power over us, whether that's a parent, teacher, or boss. In the bedroom, that familiarity matters. We don't have to explain it to a partner, and it isn't hard to maintain in the heat of the moment. Just about everyone alive will have been told, at some stage, that they've been naughty and need to accept the consequences. Yes, you can express power exchange in other ways. But most of us have no first hand experience of being secret agents interrogated in locked rooms, or mediaeval princesses chained in dungeons and forced to reveal where their jewels are hidden. But we were all kids, and we all got told off. So...you've been very naughty and you're going over my lap for a spanking, and when you've apologised on your knees like a good girl we can play ravished princesses later.

Where was I? Oh yes. Age play. Well. It's also got a taboo aspect, and that makes it very difficult to talk about openly. (Being briefly serious, this discussion in Cock Talk has been amazingly non-judgemental, which is brilliant and thank you). The first D in DD/LG is a hugely difficult word for many, and if you're a man who admits to liking a partner to role-play cheerleader or schoolgirl in bed, I can assure you that you get plenty of flak for that too. All I'll say that for me, speaking entirely personally, it's simply that I like role-play, and that I have my normal share of the human desire to want things I'm told I shouldn't want, and do things I'm told I shouldn't do. And just as age play is familiar as a dynamic for power exchange, it's also about as familiar a taboo as you can get. And sharing playing at breaking a taboo of that strength with a sexual partner is an incredibly powerful thing to do together.

And at the far end, you have age play dynamics, like DD/LG, where age play expresses fundamentals about who you both are and how you connect. That is something I've started to understand only recently in my current Lit relationship, and, like any other relationship, that is something unique which we create between the two us. It is not something I ever expected to desire or feel. But it isn't role-play. It's intense, loving, complicated, powerful, impossibly hot...and it's how we connect. Neither of us looked for it. It found us.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

Not for me, no. Though I can see why, as others have said, it's easier to give up power to someone older.

 

[Neanderthal247]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

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Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

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So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

I want to see the answers to this question

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

70's and 80's bushes are my preference, it's my first memories of pussy. It was also seductive to me, looking at the hair come out, made you feel like you're closer to eat. Plus it soaks up the flavor of pussy juices, after eating her out, I'd suck the juices from the bush

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

Not all fellas

 

[summer_reine]

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Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

I don't often flirt but it seems to not make a lot of a difference though I definitely prefer the <my age type when it comes to idle fantasy.

- What about in person?

Of the people I have a mild crush on IRL, 1 is older, 1 is similar age and the rest are younger than me. Rawr

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

No, not my jam.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

There is an interesting dynamic going either way. Getting an older guy to submit seems more challenging intellectually, a younger guy more difficult emotionally (ego)

 

[Endless_Night]

It is not something I ever expected to desire or feel. But it isn't role-play. It's intense, loving, complicated, powerful, impossibly hot...and it's how we connect. Neither of us looked for it. It found us.

In my early years on Lit, someone said to me that I didn't really know what I liked. At the time, I was indignant and hair-flipped my way outta there. How dare'st they!

They were, of course, correct.

One taboo sexual desire drove me to Lit. If I'd been less wrapped up in my angst over trying to sort that situation the underlying logic in what they were saying would have been apparent.

What you're describing is how I came to DD/lg. Like so many, that first D squicked me away with its superficial connotations. But - the images posted held a certain allure. The ones that implied an air of safety, security, surrender. Like a nude girl curled up in a man's lap.

I mentioned this once to a partner, included my sense of discomfort. He, too, flinched at the D. We moved on conversationally, but, apparently he continued to think. Eventually he pressed to try. I was doubtful. Most. He continued to press. We did, and whoosh!

As you say, it was intense, complicated, powerful, insanely erotic, and added a depth to emotional intimacy that took sex to unimagined heights. It was heady. Overwhelming. And so very surprising.

Sometimes it is the way things happen. The right partner, the right connection, the right timing.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I bloody love this thread, and all it's contributors.

 

[69Explorer]

Okay, okay...

Here we go.

It had been a few weeks since we've seen each other. I got the whole weekend off from mum duty and went to stay at the librarian's place. He had things to do and places to be during the day, so I pretended to live in a very silent and very clean house. That was nice. I'm sure that played in to it.

The librarian is a very snuggly bedmate. We were both exhausted and naked after a marathon sex session earlier in the evening. At about 2am I feel fingers gently brushing my inner thigh. My groggy, horny self let them slowly wake me up over the course of 20 or so minutes. You know that half asleep dance that can happen? We got in to that. I got progressively more and more worked up to the point where I was ravenous.

I don't remember the exact sequence of events, but this all kind of started when I started touching myself. The librarian started touching himself. This is something I've always wanted to see and just hadn't yet. It was hot. I wanted to help. So I did. I started licking the top of his penis before covering the head with my mouth. I let my head move with the motion of his hands. At times I took over, but I was eager to let him lead so I could learn and really feel his body. It was great.

I could tell he was starting to climax and just rucked in. As he gasped that he was about to come I kinda grinned to myself, shrugged my shoulder with the understanding that I already knew that. I didn't take the whole load in my mouth- I pulled off as he ejaculated and ran my (very wet) tongue up his chest and neck. I wasn't sure how much cum made it into my mouth, but I dragged at least some up to neck (I could smell it when I snuggled back in).

That is all

Well.., all I can say.., as a fellow countryperson, you have done the nation proud !!

 

[69Explorer]

Yes, but the ones you get in the Salon aren't in pre-set designs, or pre-glued. I got to be a vajazzled artíst!

Shaved and waxed, yes & yes. Was trying to creat a the other day on gf's vaj area.. But now know why there was a reason I didn't take Art in HS......

 

[Bbl87]

In my early years on Lit, someone said to me that I didn't really know what I liked. At the time, I was indignant and hair-flipped my way outta there. How dare'st they!

They were, of course, correct.

One taboo sexual desire drove me to Lit. If I'd been less wrapped up in my angst over trying to sort that situation the underlying logic in what they were saying would have been apparent.

What you're describing is how I came to DD/lg. Like so many, that first D squicked me away with its superficial connotations. But - the images posted held a certain allure. The ones that implied an air of safety, security, surrender. Like a nude girl curled up in a man's lap.

I mentioned this once to a partner, included my sense of discomfort. He, too, flinched at the D. We moved on conversationally, but, apparently he continued to think. Eventually he pressed to try. I was doubtful. Most. He continued to press. We did, and whoosh!

As you say, it was intense, complicated, powerful, insanely erotic, and added a depth to emotional intimacy that took sex to unimagined heights. It was heady. Overwhelming. And so very surprising.

Sometimes it is the way things happen. The right partner, the right connection, the right timing.

I really think that, aside from some really good friendships here, is one of the biggest things I've taken from Lit: I don’t really know what I'm into or not. I've discovered some things, but still definitely very much in that process. In my case, since I can't really explore alot of those things at home Lit gives me a safe place to explore those things.

IRL, my experiences are pretty limited, and my wife doesn't really want to explore much outside of bondage (which is something she likes, I'm indifferent but very much willing to participate since she enjoys it). But I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge and experience.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Age Play
Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.
- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

If it's just flirting on the boards, I'm not concerned about age. For situations that are more involved, I would say that ten years either direction would be my limits. We're at roughly comparable places in life and are more likely to be looking for similar situations.

- What about in person?

The only time there was much of an age gap in "real life" for me was when I was 18 and dating someone who was 26. It was only a couple months, as I fairly quickly realized that being at very different places in life can make things complicated. I was in my senior year of high school and living with my parents and he was working a full-time job as a firefighter and living on his own. I'm not available in real life, but I think my age limits would be the same as here.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

The only large age split I've ever role played is one with a college student and her professor. The appeal there is partly the unequal power dynamic and partly the approval and attention of an older and wiser man.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

I am and, for me, it does. I would find it difficult to take a much younger man seriously as a Dom. When watching the trailers for the movie "Babygirl", I find it hard to believe that a 24 year old intern could have the gravitas to evoke feelings of submission from a 49 year old CEO. But that's just me. I might totally get it after watching the movie.

I might also be biased because the D/s dynamic that resonates the most with me is the DD/lg dynamic. When I first joined Lit, if someone had told me that I'd be calling someone Daddy in a few years, I would have told them that they're crazy. But then I started to read stories and threads and talk to different people. And I discovered that it's something I'm very drawn to. Talking about age though, for me, there's no component of age regression/age play.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I just realized this thread dropped off my notifications and all of a sudden know one of the reasons I’ve felt less engaged on Lit lately.

I probably have ~40 pages to catch up on? Feel free to let me know the highlights of what I’ve missed in the last month!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I just realized this thread dropped off my notifications and all of a sudden know one of the reasons I’ve felt less engaged on Lit lately.

I probably have ~40 pages to catch up on? Feel free to let me know the highlights of what I’ve missed in the last month!

We missed you!
Over the last 40 pages every single Cock Talker went fully frontally nude.
Too bad you missed it.
Maybe next time?

 

[Apisto42]

We missed you!
Over the last 40 pages every single Cock Talker went fully frontally nude.
Too bad you missed it.
Maybe next time?

We should probably do a collage for @LadyLascivious1 so she doesn’t feel left out.

Attention everyone! Send me your full frontal nudes and I’ll put them together for you. I’m caring like that.

 

[Endless_Night]

I just realized this thread dropped off my notifications and all of a sudden know one of the reasons I’ve felt less engaged on Lit lately.

I probably have ~40 pages to catch up on? Feel free to let me know the highlights of what I’ve missed in the last month!

I had rather wondered at your absence.

Highlights? *cracks knuckles delicately*

@Lord Pmann tagged me in an attempt to get me to view an incarcerated appendage.
@Lord Pmann lured @Apisto42 into sending him an appendage pic by pretending to be a woman.

@Lord Pmann is an appendage.

@Apisto42 is a talented raconteur.
@aussiegeekygal did oral to fruition.

The very foundation of Literotica is rocked by that last item.


There's more, undoubtedly, but that's off the top of my head.

 

[Apisto42]

I had rather wondered at your absence.

Highlights? *cracks knuckles delicately*

@Lord Pmann tagged me in an attempt to get me to view an incarcerated appendage.
@Lord Pmann lured @Apisto42 into sending him an appendage pic by pretending to be a woman.

@Lord Pmann is an appendage.

@Apisto42 is a talented raconteur.
@aussiegeekygal did oral to fruition.

The very foundation of Literotica is rocked by that last item.


There's more, undoubtedly, but that's off the top of my head.

The incident happened years ago. I was slightly dumber back then than I am now is my only defense.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I also flashed my ass

 

[Qky75]

I also flashed my ass

I never tire of every opportunity to witness that

 

[jason28053]

I had rather wondered at your absence.

Highlights? *cracks knuckles delicately*

@Lord Pmann tagged me in an attempt to get me to view an incarcerated appendage.
@Lord Pmann lured @Apisto42 into sending him an appendage pic by pretending to be a woman.

@Lord Pmann is an appendage.

@Apisto42 is a talented raconteur.
@aussiegeekygal did oral to fruition.

The very foundation of Literotica is rocked by that last item.


There's more, undoubtedly, but that's off the top of my head.

Nailed it!!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I had rather wondered at your absence.

Highlights? *cracks knuckles delicately*

@Lord Pmann tagged me in an attempt to get me to view an incarcerated appendage.
@Lord Pmann lured @Apisto42 into sending him an appendage pic by pretending to be a woman.

@Lord Pmann is an appendage.

@Apisto42 is a talented raconteur.
@aussiegeekygal did oral to fruition.

The very foundation of Literotica is rocked by that last item.


There's more, undoubtedly, but that's off the top of my head.

This is an excellent summary and Apisto being catfished and sharing his junk with Pmann is hilarious to me! That’s worth going back to read the details

I think @Lord Pmann must have a thing for incarcerated meat because he tried to get me to look too. Maybe he has a secret desire to put little Pmann in one of those chastity cages?

We should probably do a collage for @LadyLascivious1 so she doesn’t feel left out.

Attention everyone! Send me your full frontal nudes and I’ll put them together for you. I’m caring like that.

I now expect at least a full frontal from you at the minimum

I also flashed my ass

It’s a very fine ass. But…a completed blow job, Aussie?! Look at you conquering your gag reflex

If you tell me you threw out your crocs and are now into pony play, I’ll know Pmann hacked your account.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

I bloody love this thread, and all it's contributors.

But who do you love the most?

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

It’s a very fine ass. But…a completed blow job, Aussie?! Look at you conquering your gag reflex

It's a whole new world now. Anything is possible if is Aussie is giving and enjoying blowies. Up is down, left is right. It's like a universal constant has been inverted

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

It's a whole new world now. Anything is possible if is Aussie is giving and enjoying blowies. Up is down, left is right. It's like a universal constant has been inverted

So that means you are @Wand3rlust favorite? I’m confused.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

So that means you are @Wand3rlust favorite? I’m confused.

I don't want to brag, but she's called me a wanker before and I'm pretty sure that's the highest compliment you can receive in Great Britain

 

[Wand3rlust]

So that means you are @Wand3rlust favoUrite? I’m confused.

FIFY

 

[Wand3rlust]

I don't want to brag, but she's called me a wanker before and I'm pretty sure that's the highest compliment you can receive in Great Britain

Dickhead.