Did anything make you cry today?

[cactusjack0584]

You know I've seen this thread several times in my visits here and could never honestly post here, but today I can. It was a song I heard this morning.

Music is a powerful shaper of our moods sometimes. It has the ability to make the things buried deep down just spring to the surface. Sometimes good sometimes bad. and thanks for stopping in, sorry it’s under these circumstances.

Yea a couple things but, I don't think it matters

If it makes you cry, then it indeed matters. I’m sorry that there are things making you sad. The best I can offer is a kind word and a

Got a message the weekend saying that the person who is the biggest inspiration in my life is terminally ill , today after a chat with him we have come up with a plan to celebrate him and what he's done for me before it's too late

Well I’m glad you get to celebrate someone who means so much to you!!! But I can understand how conflicting it is to celebrate but also be sad.

Lovely mood swings

Sometimes like a bungee jumper…
Big down… then up…

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

He doesn't know it, but my favorite person made me cry a little bit of happy tears now because everything about him makes me love him!!

 

[cactusjack0584]

He doesn't know it, but my favorite person made me cry a little bit of happy tears now because everything about him makes me love him!!

I love hearing about happy tears!!!!
That’s absolutely awesome!!!!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Therapy assessment phone call. She asked some really tough questions but she also validated how I felt about my answers. Was very emotional

 

[cactusjack0584]

Therapy assessment phone call. She asked some really tough questions but she also validated how I felt about my answers. Was very emotional

I’m glad you’re attempting to get help. Therapy really does help. And being emotional is healthy sometimes. I hope it actually is pushing you to a better place, truly I do.

 

[PMarky2]

The realization that my depression, anxiety, etc., has damaged some relationships I really value, and I need to get back on an even keel.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Currently crying over someone I had gotten close to. He really tore me down just now when I didn’t sexually please him. And no, this is not a kink we agreed on. I asked for space and he kept sending insults.

So he gets my tears today and tomorrow I will erase him.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

 

[cactusjack0584]

The realization that my depression, anxiety, etc., has damaged some relationships I really value, and I need to get back on an even keel.

You have to get “you” back before you can repair any damages the other version caused. My unwarranted advice work on yourself before trying to do anything else. But don’t worry you got this!

Currently crying over someone I had gotten close to. He really tore me down just now when I didn’t sexually please him. And no, this is not a kink we agreed on. I asked for space and he kept sending insults.

So he gets my tears today and tomorrow I will erase him.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

Humans are crazy beings. I’m sorry that that happened and you were in that position. But it seems like you’re ready to move forward, which is all you really can do. And all I can offer is a

 

[MissRadiant]

Cried happy tears, bc finding a therapist that helps you in many ways and putting myself/mental health is not easy.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Therapy assessment phone call. She asked some really tough questions but she also validated how I felt about my answers. Was very emotional

Cried happy tears, bc finding a therapist that helps you in many ways and putting myself/mental health is not easy.

Proud of you ladies

 

[cactusjack0584]

Cried happy tears, bc finding a therapist that helps you in many ways and putting myself/mental health is not easy.

It is not but it’s worth it. Because you are worth it! Biggest

 

[PMarky2]

You have to get “you” back before you can repair any damages the other version caused. My unwarranted advice work on yourself before trying to do anything else. But don’t worry you got this!

Humans are crazy beings. I’m sorry that that happened and you were in that position. But it seems like you’re ready to move forward, which is all you really can do. And all I can offer is a

Yes, I need to deal with the junk in my head, and then the other problems should sort themselves out. I probably should have found a therapist/counsellor a couple of years ago, but being both British and Gen X I tend to ignore the problems I can ignore, and deal with what problems I cannot ignore with unhealthy coping mechanisms!

 

[Neanderthal247]

I don't cry! Lol

 

[cactusjack0584]

Yes, I need to deal with the junk in my head, and then the other problems should sort themselves out. I probably should have found a therapist/counsellor a couple of years ago, but being both British and Gen X I tend to ignore the problems I can ignore, and deal with what problems I cannot ignore with unhealthy coping mechanisms!

I did the same way of coping for decades. Then one day decided I should try and get my shit together. I am still very very very much a work in progress. But I am working, which sounds like something you’re doing too. You can do it! I’m sure of it!

 

[PMarky2]

I did the same way of coping for decades. Then one day decided I should try and get my shit together. I am still very very very much a work in progress. But I am working, which sounds like something you’re doing too. You can do it! I’m sure of it!

Given I work among academics - lots of high IQs and fragile psyches - you need to be stark staring bonkers or commit a HR violation for anyone to say anything. My best friend's widow applied the first nudge, and the second came from a friend who works as an aircraft mechanic, so well away from the college crazies. Those are the folks who notice.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Currently crying over someone I had gotten close to. He really tore me down just now when I didn’t sexually please him. And no, this is not a kink we agreed on. I asked for space and he kept sending insults.

So he gets my tears today and tomorrow I will erase him.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

I really wish I could take you out for ice cream. That helps me.

 

[FreckledSprite]

I really wish I could take you out for ice cream. That helps me.

You’re fluent in Grieving Girl

Thank you. It’s the thought that counts.

 

[Neanderthal247]

Currently crying over someone I had gotten close to. He really tore me down just now when I didn’t sexually please him. And no, this is not a kink we agreed on. I asked for space and he kept sending insults.

So he gets my tears today and tomorrow I will erase him.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

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I have to admit, when I'm hurt I pretend to be very happy, just because I know it makes them mad lol.


Tomorrow you'll be better than ever

 

[FistfulOfMyHair]

Ted Lasso got me twice today.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Currently crying over someone I had gotten close to. He really tore me down just now when I didn’t sexually please him. And no, this is not a kink we agreed on. I asked for space and he kept sending insults.

So he gets my tears today and tomorrow I will erase him.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

Dedicate this to ‘em

 

[cactusjack0584]

Given I work among academics - lots of high IQs and fragile psyches - you need to be stark staring bonkers or commit a HR violation for anyone to say anything. My best friend's widow applied the first nudge, and the second came from a friend who works as an aircraft mechanic, so well away from the college crazies. Those are the folks who notice.

It’s nice when people notice. It can at the very least make you feel like they care.

Ted Lasso got me twice today.

TV shows/movies can also hit the right button sometimes. It happens to us all.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Dedicate this to ‘em

This is actually perfect

 

[Bloodandglitter]

Yep just a few this morning...

 

[cactusjack0584]

Yep just a few this morning...

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope the rest of your day got better.

 

[Bloodandglitter]

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope the rest of your day got better.

Thank you . It's gotten better, thank you!