MusicForTheDeaf
Stealer's Wheel
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Have you ever been homeless or know someone who has?
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How come you don't post in your own threads?Have you ever been homeless or know someone who has?
You had a van to live in. In your twenties, couldn't you find some kind of work just enough for food? (I don't expect you to answer if you don't want to)For a while when I was in my twenties. Lived in a van for about 2-1/2 years, bummed showers and sometimes meals from friends. It wasn't fun.
Back then, this might have been possible. Today, you will need to work 16-20 hours a day across 3 to 4 jobs just to afford rent for a tiny apartment like a studio.I was 30 when I graduated from a liberal arts college in NY. Left my husband and went to San Francisco alone with $3,000 cash. Not knowing anybody there, no job prospect or skills of any kind. I paid $400 rent for a small unfurnished room + $400 security deposit + $400 for the last month rent + some more $ for very basic essentials for survival---that left me with no more than $1500. I could've easily become homeless if I couldn't find a job before running out of $.
In retrospect, I wasn't really worried, much less panicky. It must be merely being young that gave me my invisible inner strength and good spirit. While being young life was full of wonderment, excitement and fun. Every encounter with someone or something was fresh and occupied my mind with alluring curiosity..
You had a van to live in. In your twenties, couldn't you find some kind of work just enough for food? (I don't expect you to answer if you don't want to)
Well, I earned enough to feed myself but I'd never turn down an invitation to dinner. But I was going through shit from PTSD from Nam, so I had trouble keeping a job until that got sorted out.You had a van to live in. In your twenties, couldn't you find some kind of work just enough for food? (I don't expect you to answer if you don't want to)