Cock Talk

[Azuldrgon]

Azul said: “I don't like the thought of meeting someone just for a booty call.”
(I couldn’t “quote” your post because it was within mine)

Would it be a booty call if you have already been talking to them on Lit, though?
Would it not simply be a consummation of an already established personal connection?

The choice was friendship or sex.
If I was going to meet someone, as some would attest to, we would have a deeper connection than carnality.
Out of the nine Litsters I have met in person, I can count on less than one hand how many led to something sexual.
Even with those, it wasn't the intention. That's not how I am honestly.
The last Litster I met in person, it was at her wedding.

 

[MedicalMuse]

I haven’t, but I would in the right circumstances. I have in the past with other sites.


Both in the past. Now, I’d say friendship.

If something more resulted because it felt right, wonderful, but I don’t want the pressure of anyone expecting more. Better to enjoy the meet up and see where things go naturally.


In public to start, but more for comfort than safety. Less pressure that way.


Probably not? But maybe someone else from Lit if it made sense.


Sure.


There are quite a few, but @MedicalMuse @aussiegeekygal @Trekka are all at the top of my list

Name the place and time

@PrettyLilPussy19 I almost added you, but then figured it might freak you out. So instead, I’m just teasing you about it


Higher than we realize, but low as an overall percentage.


Depending on who was going, yes.


Friendship and fun. Anticipation, curiosity (sexual or otherwise), and flirting are great, but feeling obligated by anything sexual would ruin most of the fun for me.

 

[Endless_Night]

Meet anyone from Lit in person?
I have. Once.

For sex or friendship?
Shopping?

She sold lingerie. I have been know to purchase lingerie.

In public for safety?
Store.

Bring a friend for safety?
Someone was with me, but it wasn't a matter of safety.

Share recent full face and body pics first?
I did not.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?
I'd meet Hotwords.

Otherwise, there's a small handful of people I'd consider meeting, if the circumstance were right. Reasons? Varied.

I will say that like @LadyLascivious1, I wouldn't want to be in a position of feeling obligated for anything.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?
I would guess low, but that's based on my rather more reserved nature. The number is probably higher, but how much higher? No idea.

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?
No. That sounds like a lot of people. I don't do a lot of people.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Meat Up

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(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Have!

For sex or friendship?

For friendship and then just seeing where things go.

In public for safety?

Yes. At first lol

Bring a friend for safety?

Nope

Share recent full face and body pics first?

Yep

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?


Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

In person :
So many I’d love to spend time with. @LadyLascivious1, @cascadiabound, @aussiegeekygal, are tops and many more are welcome

I bet the number who have met specifically for sex is very high.

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go?

Oh god. That’s sounds like a high school reunion. But a fun one

Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

Curiosity and fascination.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I don't do a lot of people.

This statement accurate on so many levels that I can’t stop laughing

 

[Endless_Night]

This statement accurate on so many levels that I can’t stop laughing

Oh!!!

Ha ha. Umm . . . .

Celibacy suits me?

It really, really, really doesn't.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Meet anyone from Lit in person?
Yes. I met DrkSthrnGent when I was traveling for work. We've been online friends for years and it was lovely to meet in person. I had a great night out with him.

For sex or friendship?
Friendship.

In public for safety?
Yes, but also because I wanted to share an experience with someone.

Bring a friend for safety?
No. But I always tell a trusted friend exactly what I'm doing. Just in case. Raised by cops. Heard the horror stories. I engineer a head start on any dreaded investigation.

Share recent full face and body pics first?
We both shared publicly, so there was that trust. Enough of you know what I look like and would recognize me if you were expecting me to walk up to you. Same with him.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?
Apisto - friendship, but probably also some oral sex
LadyL - because we've been trying to make it happen for almost a year now but we get thwarted every freaking single time. We will have a blast laughing at "that one time..."
EndlessEnds - I wanna see her house so bad!
MindYaBitness - we live close enough to each other to make it happen.
Pmann - curiosity and a hell of a lot of laughs. You know I'm gonna dress the part, too.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?
This is relativistic morality my man. The definition of "high" and "low" totally depends on your frame of reference. It happens. I don't really think about the frequency of hookups, though. I just enjoy when I get to hear the stories.

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?
Hell yeah I would. Are you kidding? They used to happen, ya know? If I remember correctly, Sassy went to one.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'd meet Hotwords.

Oh yeah- add him to my list, too.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Meat Up

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(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Even google pic search only goes back to Tumblr. I'll fi d where that frame is from if it kills me!

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Not yet

For sex or friendship?

Yes

In public for safety?

Likely, at first

Bring a friend for safety?

Probably not, though I'd give my best friend all the details & access to my phone's location. My mom did her grad work on serial killers, and I've been married to a cop for over 2 decades. A certain level of paranoia keeps you alive.

Share recent full face and body pics first?

Yes

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

The reasons would vary, and the list is pretty long. I'd love to meet Mizz, Bogey, CrazyChemGirl, Bry1313, Ladylascivious, Ausdiegeekygal, Lavender, NRJ and so many others. If they're half as cool in person as they are online, we're in for a good time.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

It's probably on par with any forum of a similar nature

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

Probably sexual curiosity. I'm a mid-late adapter by nature. I'd definitely go, but I'm going to sit back and take the temp of the room, see if I want to participate, or just be the water & lube girl.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Meat Up



(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Yes many. 1 is even here at my house for 2 weeks.

For sex or friendship?

Friendship

In public for safety?

I had to think about this. But yes. I think all were public. The exception is flying to Missouri to meet curvy angel, and New York to meet Fara. But I had talked, videod, and shared a million pictures. Then we did paired pics while I was there.

Bring a friend for safety?

Nope, but I always told someone.

Share recent full face and body pics first?

Yes.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

there are a few. So I won't dwindle it down to 1.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

Probably. (High number)

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

I guess I could say anything could happen. But I 100%can't fuck someone just to say I did.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Yes many. 1 is even here at my house for 2 weeks.

Friendship

I had to think about this. But yes. I think all were public. The exception is flying to Missouri to meet curvy angel, and New York to meet Fara. But I had talked, videod, and shared a million pictures. Then we did paired pics while I was there.

Nope, but I always told someone.

Yes.

there are a few. So I won't dwindle it down to 1.

Probably. (High number)

I guess I could say anything could happen. But I 100%can't fuck someone just to say I did.

One of these days, I hope we can do coffee.

 

[SassySheDevil]

One of these days, I hope we can do coffee.

I had to laugh. This very day was our carhartt convention down by you. I couldn't go this year because I can't walk that much.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I had to laugh. This very day was our carhartt convention down by you. I couldn't go this year because I can't walk that much.

I missed a carhartt convention. Damn....
One day, Sassy.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I almost added you, but then figured it might freak you out. So instead, I’m just teasing you about it

I’d freak out if I wasn’t on your list.

I'd meet Hotwords.

I wouldn't want to be in a position of feeling obligated for anything.

Oh, well, forget it then.

Apisto - friendship, but probably also some oral sex

He’s giving, I assume?

Oh yeah- add him to my list, too.

Glad to know I’m an afterthought.

Then we did paired pics while I was there.

Oh, this would have made a great extra question.
I wonder how many who meet for sex make sexy “paired” pics/gifs/videos for Lit.

Just throwing this out there, my camera and directorial skills are excellent for anyone wanting to make some . . . content.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Meat Up

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(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Yup

For sex or friendship?

Lunch

In public for safety?

Yup

Bring a friend for safety?

She only came along in my phone, but @Indie would've avenged me if anything happened to me

Share recent full face and body pics first?

Yup

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

@Indie for all the reasons

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

I have no idea but there's a few people's meetings I'm curious about

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go?

No, but Id watch the live stream

Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

Curiosity of what other people are doing

 

[SassySheDevil]

I missed a carhartt convention. Damn....
One day, Sassy.

The 4x4 swap meet.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Oh, this would have made a great extra question.
I wonder how many who meet for sex make sexy “paired” pics/gifs/videos for Lit.

Just throwing this out there, my camera and directorial skills are excellent for anyone wanting to make some . . . content.

Haha no sex was involved. But Fara and bad Amy were fun to do pictures with for lit.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Came very close a few times but no, I never actually have.

For sex or friendship?

yes and yes

In public for safety?

absolutely

Bring a friend for safety?

Nah

Share recent full face and body pics first?

I mean yeah, obviously. Doesnt have to be nudes or anything.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

A handful of peeps. They know who they are.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

Actually saw it through? I cant imagine its super high but not low either.

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

I'd totally want to get some, sure, but I don't trust NONE OF YOU FUCKERS with my goods or my heart. Is what it is.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Azul said: “I don't like the thought of meeting someone just for a booty call.”
(I couldn’t “quote” your post because it was within mine)

Would it be a booty call if you have already been talking to them on Lit, though?

Yes. No different than meeting the girl you met in the frozens ilse at the grocery.... Every week when you go shopping....
Or finally getting the barista after your coffee order...

Would it not simply be a consummation of an already established personal connection?

Also. Yes.

I don't make the rules ...
Just my opinion
Prince charming

 

[Photog1rl]

Meat Up

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(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Yes, five folks.

For sex or friendship?

Friendship

In public for safety?

In public for safety and for what we were doing.

Bring a friend for safety?

Nope. I felt very safe and comfortable meeting with them but I did tell some folks where I’d be/what I was doing because it seemed like the smart thing to do.

Share recent full face and body pics first?

No, we’d seen each other on Lit to whatever degree we had and did a brief description of what we were wearing or looked like before meeting.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

I have enjoyed everyone I’ve met so far and there are a lot of folks I’d like to meet. All of them would be for friendship even if I have or had something more with them.
There was one person that I would have met for more but thankfully that never came to be and I learned my lesson on keeping Lit a fantasy and not to think of it as a possible reality.

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?

I actually think that the number that have met for sex is low. I think many folks on here enjoy the escape and fantasy of Lit. For most married folks it seems like Lit is way to have some level of intamacy that is missing at home but I don’t think most folks are looking to physically cheat on their partners and would not meet for sex. (This may be naive)

If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

I would absolutely go. I love meeting people so this would be fantastic. Being able to talk in person with people that I’ve only known by their user names would be so fun! I would go just to meet people and to talk and hang out in a sex positive environment-not to have sex.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

There are quite a few, but @MedicalMuse @aussiegeekygal @Trekka are all at the top of my list

@PrettyLilPussy19 I almost added you, but then figured it might freak you out. So instead, I’m just teasing you about it

Not at all freaked out! Just honored to be invited to this particular gathering of sexy gals.

 

[StillRain]

That’s the sign post up ahead, you are about to enter The Mankini Zone

https://www.picclickimg.com/k4QAAOSw0thhPAre/Borat-Mankini-Kost%C3%BCm-Gr%C3%BCner-Badeanzug-Herren-Bademode-Tanga.webp

We all agree that the bikini is the best invention in modern times, the smaller the better.
However, when it comes to the male body, not so much.

What is the male equivalent to the bikini—G-string, Mankini, Speedo or loincloth?

The budgie smuggler.

What “sexy” male fashion would you like to see make a comeback?

I’m not sure it ever left but long sleeve shirts rolled up a little instead of short sleeve shirts.

What “sexy” male fashion do you wish would go away?
Man bun, pro or anti?

Gold chains.

Backwards baseball hat, for or against?

FOR.

Douche beard, soul patch, mustache, goatee, unibomber beard, or clean shaven?

Facial hair makes me MOIST. Moustaches, beards, stubble… mmm hmm…

What “look” do you prefer us guys would lose and/or acquire?

Arms so big/muscly you can’t put your arms down by your side. No.

Men going bald who keep that old man U ring…. Do yourself a solid and shave that thing.

 

[StillRain]

Meat Up

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(I wrote a bunch of these questions and realized they were too confusingly written with all the ‘Did you/Would you’ words—so I’m just going to put ideas down and let you answer however you will).

Meet anyone from Lit in person?

Yes, I’ve met a few Litsters.

For sex or friendship?

Both.

In public for safety?

Both. Public and public then to private.

Bring a friend for safety?

Never.

Share recent full face and body pics first?

Face always, body not always.

Who would you most like to meet from Lit (in person) and for what reason?

Do you think the number of Listers who have met and fucked is a high number or low number?
If there was a Literotica in person group meet up, would you go? Would you go with the intention of sex, or curiosity, or sexual curiosity?

I think I have met everyone I’ve have really itched to meet except maybe @Mo_Bandy for a drink and a laugh.

I think the number who have met and fucked is stupid low. You guys are all talk and mostly married and here without partner knowledge, so…there is that.

I would totally go to a group meet up for shits and giggles.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Yes, I’ve met a few Litsters.


Both.

Both. Public and public then to private.

Never.

Face always, body not always.

I think I have met everyone I’ve have really itched to meet except maybe @Mo_Bandy for a drink and a laugh.

I think the number who have met and fucked is stupid low. You guys are all talk and mostly married and here without partner knowledge, so…there is that.

I would totally go to a group meet up for shits and giggles.

Thanks and maybe someday but I have still never met anyone from Lit in person. Usually a timing thing or really I am too afraid I would be a let down.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Also, even though I have never met anyone from Lit, I cannot imagine it being somewhere other than a public place. Especially if it was the first time. Seems like a drink or coffee would make the most sense but I have probably just seen too many episodes of Datelines.