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Oh I can also sell all my shit and pack up and move..... can we put a tiny house on there..... hahahaha

Ugh...i may have too..but can't take a pay cut..... so I may also be trapped .....


Yet. As we minimize, we come to be able to get by on less income. Part of the purpose of the current situation is to pay off the rest of Wat's I-Want-isms and as much land as possible and to save for the next land bits, and some tiny houses. And a shop. Then we get to grow some/most of our food, shop at the Amish veggie stand, can, buy a side of beef, and hunt a bit. Out West, if you hang around enough, a deer will wander past within 200 yards or so.
 
Oh I can also sell all my shit and pack up and move..... can we put a tiny house on there..... hahahaha

Ugh...i may have too..but can't take a pay cut..... so I may also be trapped .....
I am sorry to read feel trapped. I remember that awful feeling both in my first marriage and then when they changed VP near my retirement. You are not trapped but fear the change that ultimately you will need to make. I did get divorced and took early retirement and felt so much better.

You have our support.
 
My direct manager is fucking oblivious to my concerns..... and on top I have old crazy parents...new with my dad is heart and carotid issues.... and a house that is falling down around me because I can't make enough money to fix it or can't find someone competent to do it.....

A piece if siding came off and I see plywood.... house wasn't wrapped is the new thing.... and i think I have a water hammer in my outside spigot....... looked up symptoms and this seems to be the consensus..oh and my shower knob is broken again.....fuck (sorry grey)

I need a hug...a real one

How much can one person fucking take


We lurves ya!!!
 
Is people pleasing really about putting aside your needs for other’s wants? I did that hoping my first marriage would work out. I learned from my second and best wife to put my needs first and discuss if we had a conflict. Amazingly we always made things work out so both of us were content or happy.
 
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