Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[naughty_stories]

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[AlexBailey]

I admit, I was a little "meh" until I saw this pic...

https://www.extremerestraints.com/cdn/shop/files/AD573_03_X.jpg?v=1732743010

Yeah... that's ... um... yep. I would love that.

Hmmm, yeah. I’d love that with a big old hook.

 

[naughty_stories]

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[AlexBailey]

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OMG!
I don’t know if I could handle that!
Maybe if it was on a dynamic line or a bungie… but I’d probably have to give it a try if the opportunity came.

 

[BrendaBear]

OMG!
I don’t know if I could handle that!
Maybe if it was on a dynamic line or a bungie… but I’d probably have to give it a try if the opportunity came.

Sounds like somebody would cum... won't be me. That totally isn't my kink.

 

[AlexBailey]

Sounds like somebody would cum... won't be me. That totally isn't my kink.

No, that really is too much for me. It would have to be at someone else’s insistence. It’s funny how that is, how the right person or situation can make something that would otherwise be a torture in to a sensual adventure.

I think I got some of my taste for that from getting picked on and confined in situations in my past. It’s empowering to be able to turn a crazy situation in your head so your body can enjoy it.

 

[BrendaBear]

Okay, enough of that.

But let’s talk gags.

Do you like to be gagged? What kind do you prefer? Why do you like it? How does it make you feel?

I have my own answers already… I would love to hear yours.

 

[Mav Unlimited]

Well well well what do we have here?

 

[HollyS]

Okay, enough of that.

But let’s talk gags.

Do you like to be gagged? What kind do you prefer? Why do you like it? How does it make you feel?

I have my own answers already… I would love to hear yours.

I like gags occassionally! We've talked about that before.

A regular ball gag is okay. I have had mixed experiences with ring gags. The plain metal ones turn on their sides pretty easily unless they are toooo tight for me. We had one that was a flanged plastic that did a good job of making me available. It wasn't super confortable, but I enjoyed its functionality, shall we say?

I think my favorite was a dildo gag. The dildo was about 4" long maybe, so it sat right at the back of my throat. Sooooo much drool with that one - even more than the ring gag!

If I could find a pink one made of good materials, I'd get a new one!

 

[HollyS]

Here are pics of the kinds I was talking about -

 

[BrendaBear]

I like gags occassionally! We've talked about that before.

A regular ball gag is okay. I have had mixed experiences with ring gags. The plain metal ones turn on their sides pretty easily unless they are toooo tight for me. We had one that was a flanged plastic that did a good job of making me available. It wasn't super confortable, but I enjoyed its functionality, shall we say?

I think my favorite was a dildo gag. The dildo was about 4" long maybe, so it sat right at the back of my throat. Sooooo much drool with that one - even more than the ring gag!

If I could find a pink one made of good materials, I'd get a new one!

Yeah - we have talked about this. But… anal hooks? Um… I would rather cover old ground again

After sharing my electric trimmer trick in the brat thread, I ended up doing another custom dildo gag for me. And am always so much happier with the results.

 

[HollyS]

Yeah - we have talked about this. But… anal hooks? Um… I would rather cover old ground again

After sharing my electric trimmer trick in the brat thread, I ended up doing another custom dildo gag for me. And am always so much happier with the results.

Oooooo, nice! What did you end up with this time?!?

And, um, what kind of glue works best? Just in case...

 

[BrendaBear]

Oooooo, nice! What did you end up with this time?!?

And, um, what kind of glue works best? Just in case...

The second one you posted - the pink one with a black dildo.... yeah, I think that is exactly the same one I have. The dildo I bought for it is a purple silicone, and I used crazy glue to attach them back together.

I think my throat is pretty damaged from years of living with a smoker, and a chronic cough from allergies.... whatever. My throat is jacked up. So, my gag isn't so long that it reaches my throat. It is comfortable. I can bite on it, suck on it, enjoy the feeling of it filling my mouth... I'm very happy with the results.

 

[HollyS]

The second one you posted - the pink one with a black dildo.... yeah, I think that is exactly the same one I have. The dildo I bought for it is a purple silicone, and I used crazy glue to attach them back together.

I think my throat is pretty damaged from years of living with a smoker, and a chronic cough from allergies.... whatever. My throat is jacked up. So, my gag isn't so long that it reaches my throat. It is comfortable. I can bite on it, suck on it, enjoy the feeling of it filling my mouth... I'm very happy with the results.

Yes! I was hoping something would stick to silicone. I have a silicone dildo that would be perfect, juuust stiff enough, but silky soft to the touch.

I'm sorry to hear about your throat. It's no fun when the body turns on you. I'm glad you made something that works for you!

 

[naughty_stories]

Apologies

 

[naughty_stories]

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[cowboyup6977]

Okay, enough of that.

But let’s talk gags.

Do you like to be gagged? What kind do you prefer? Why do you like it? How does it make you feel?

I have my own answers already… I would love to hear yours.

I hate gags I want to hear everything

 

[BrendaBear]

I hate gags I want to hear everything

Coolio! I kind of do too. But sounds like I'm not going to get much more commentary (other than gross pictures).

How about... naked vs lingerie vs totally clothed when restrained? At least, at the start...?

 

[cowboyup6977]

That’s up to whoever is in control

 

[UsuallyPresent]

depends on the relationship, imo - there’re places/times for each, depending on who you know & where ya go. Fully dressed in gym gear or the like would be expected for most public classes, for instance. I’ve seen a shibari class (non-credit) offered at a near by community college, lingerie or less’d get you out the door I’d expect.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

That’s up to whoever is in control

Oh, the sub then? It’s rather difficult to solo most bdsm, and all it takes is the sub not showing up to put brakes on activities.

 

[Dashabout]

Mines black and I made it
The 0 ring is my husbands metal cock ring

Great idea for the ones my husband has.

 

[Tallcajun]

Great thread, BrendaBear!! Wonderful to hear each ones perspective.

 

[Dashabout]

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Pilloried thanks to Proximus. An awesome piece of furniture.

 

[BrendaBear]

That’s up to whoever is in control

Of course... but... subbies can have opinions... we're allowed. For that matter, Dom/Domme's opinions are very interesting too.

I prefer lingerie, myself. Or fully clothed and it is being removed from me... or... yeah... I can keep coming up with "or"s..