Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

Hate yucking your yum, but that left one is risking dislocating your shoulders if you’d come off the block. While photogenic as hell, it’s not a position I’d put most anyone in, and if I did there’d be other mitigation applied - rope from cuffs to thighs to reduce strain if she falls, or people in reach to grab if she starts to go. The right one is damn uncomfortable, but much less risky.

If you want to play with restraints, great, more power to ya, and hope you get some great thrills outta it. Please be careful, tho - we only have one BrendBear, after all.
Not yucking my yum at all. Safety first! After all, this is a modified torture technique, so I'd hope anyone participating would be cognizant of the risks. I just chose the pics for the visual appeal. I picked very different positions just for variety.

I've experienced the first type sans block. The second one was new to me.
 
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That pic is sexy, but… seems bulky and almost as much hindrance to her Master or Mistress. So she gets led someplace, she can’t be easily bent over a table, bench or even someone’s knees for…activities.

The style that holds her arms near her shoulders instead of in front would seem so much more enjoyable by all involved.

Just my thoughts….
Just a simple leather 0 ring collar works for me
 
Mines black and I made it
The 0 ring is my husbands metal cock ring
How cool!!! I haven't learned out to make stuff out of leather. That would be really cool!

I do have a pink dog collar I bought for my dog and quickly realized it isn't really right for her (90 pound Pitbull scaredy dog), but it fits me perfect. :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
 
Once you see the other side it’s impossible to go back and be happy
I know I couldn’t
I've been married twice. The first one we explored sexually, a whole lot. After that fell apart, I married someone who was like a soul mate. It was amazing, but alas, no bondage of any kind there. So after lung cancer ended that, my true spirit is free again and ... yeah.... I'm not going back. I denied myself my own nature for way too long.
 
This is one of my all time favorite pics I’ve found on lit. 🥰

Again, being belted and bound but still mobile and able to be leashed and provide oral pleasures while someone manipulates me by tugging at my harness…or maybe have a Dom who wants to fit me with one of those hooks…. 😋🤪

I love the craftsmanship. If I had a better outlet for my kinks I’d be making gear like this for anyone who would appreciate the feeling of it.

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This is one of my all time favorite pics I’ve found on lit. 🥰

Again, being belted and bound but still mobile and able to be leashed and provide oral pleasures while someone manipulates me by tugging at my harness…or maybe have a Dom who wants to fit me with one of those hooks…. 😋🤪

I love the craftsmanship. If I had a better outlet for my kinks I’d be making gear like this for anyone who would appreciate the feeling of it.

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Yeah - I get that, for sure. And I could totally see you wearing something like that. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
 
I loved your kink workshop story. When my brain runs with the concept I picture a kinky Santa’s workshop with a bunch of bondage elves making peoples wishes come true. 🤶🥰
That's awesome! Mrs Claus wearing a low cut, red velvet mini-dress, fishnets, heels, maybe carrying around a red riding crop to keep the naughty elves in line?
 
I've been married twice. The first one we explored sexually, a whole lot. After that fell apart, I married someone who was like a soul mate. It was amazing, but alas, no bondage of any kind there. So after lung cancer ended that, my true spirit is free again and ... yeah.... I'm not going back. I denied myself my own nature for way too long.
I’m sorry you went through that
 
I saw this on line and thought it looked interesting.
https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/open-wide-padded-thigh-sling-position-aid
Or
https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/frisky-8-piece-restraint-set

https://www.extremerestraints.com/p...gh-and-wrist-cuffs-with-bondage-chest-harness

All of these appeal to me. They showcase woman models but i picture myself in these restraints. I like a more comfortable leather type restraint instead of any kind of metal shackle. The other aspect i find in these restraints is it exposes my vulnerable more sensitive areas of my body where i can be subjected to various stimuli. For some reason I also liked the sensation of having my thighs pushed apart and pressure against them. Its probably why I love the feel of an elastic band on a thigh high and how it grips them so snug. I want my cock to be exposed and even my sphincter for teasing and pleasurable stimulation. I also like having the ability to have my mouth in a position it can be used to still orally pleasure the person restraining me. My body shivers at the thought of being exposed and vulnerable restrained and person there man or woman teasing and tormenting me with various gadgets and implements making me suffer and ache with pleasure. Taking as long as necessary until im begging for release.
 
I saw this on line and thought it looked interesting.
https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/open-wide-padded-thigh-sling-position-aid
Or
https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/frisky-8-piece-restraint-set

https://www.extremerestraints.com/p...gh-and-wrist-cuffs-with-bondage-chest-harness

All of these appeal to me. They showcase woman models but i picture myself in these restraints. I like a more comfortable leather type restraint instead of any kind of metal shackle. The other aspect i find in these restraints is it exposes my vulnerable more sensitive areas of my body where i can be subjected to various stimuli. For some reason I also liked the sensation of having my thighs pushed apart and pressure against them. Its probably why I love the feel of an elastic band on a thigh high and how it grips them so snug. I want my cock to be exposed and even my sphincter for teasing and pleasurable stimulation. I also like having the ability to have my mouth in a position it can be used to still orally pleasure the person restraining me. My body shivers at the thought of being exposed and vulnerable restrained and person there man or woman teasing and tormenting me with various gadgets and implements making me suffer and ache with pleasure. Taking as long as necessary until im begging for release.
I admit, I was a little "meh" until I saw this pic...

https://www.extremerestraints.com/cdn/shop/files/AD573_03_X.jpg?v=1732743010

Yeah... that's ... um... yep. I would love that. 🥰 🥰 🥰
 
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