Cock Talk

[Apisto42]

Some French i remember...

Je suis désolé.

Actually means I'm sorry, but... it reminded me.

I've had prosecco. I'm sorry.

You should probably take a bunch of boobs pics then and post them on ampics.

Then you could be “Je suis désolé” tomorrow.

 

[Wand3rlust]

How many constitutes a 'bunch'?.

I only have two.

 

[hotoldrguy]

How many constitutes a 'bunch'?.

I only have two.

That qualifies

 

[Apisto42]

How many constitutes a 'bunch'?.

I only have two.

I suppose it depends on just how much Prosecco you’ve consumed so far as to how many you’re seeing.

 

[Endless_Night]

Can you turn them into PowerPoints? Because that might just push some “friends” over the edge.

WHAT A GREAT IDEA

(Friends is relative here, because why would you do that to a friend?)

I am known for being a bit perverse.

 

[Endless_Night]

I don't know if I should say better. I'd say different. Like any other orgasms they kan be good and they can be great. When sexting the brain gets more stimulated compared to the in-person experience were the whole body is involved. The brain is still in center but the signals comes from the outside instead from the inside

Interesting answer, and it echoes something I've long wondered about.

My particular kind of sex relies heavily on the mental and emotional connection established with a partner. My sexting (and associated avenues) arousal is general much higher than I achieve from physical, yet non submissive, sex.

Would that fervor really translate to in-person submissive sex? Or would all that external stimulation create a disconnect?

I have no plans to test that out, mind!

But I do rather wonder.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Is this really a thing? AFAF

 

[Mei5ter]

Sent would be a series of pictures, texts and audios. Detailing what he wanted to do to/for me.

Probably Skype. I think the transition from text, to audio, to video call can happen fairly seamlessly.

It's usually a progression for me, going from written and voice messages and photos to audio calls to video calls. It takes a while before I am comfortable/trusting enough for video calls. As for set limits, I won't show my face in a photo or video that includes nudity. That limit doesn't necessarily include video calls. When I first joined Lit, I couldn't imagine sharing a photo, much less having a video call with someone, so I have gone much further than I ever expected.

This is a general question, but these three replies make the point very nicely.

Is sexting just a starting point in a textual relationship? You begin there, but move on to other kinds of communication as you become more open and comfortable?

When does it stop being sexting?

Does anyone else still love online play which is just text, with no audios or pics or videos? Or would you always prefer sounds or images if you can have them?

 

[Wand3rlust]

This is a general question, but these three replies make the point very nicely.

Is sexting just a starting point in a textual relationship? You begin there, but move on to other kinds of communication as you become more open and comfortable?

When does it stop being sexting?

Does anyone else still love online play which is just text, with no audios or pics or videos? Or would you always prefer sounds or images if you can have them?

I like text. I communicate well in text. I can build a picture and create tension and anticipation. And I react in the same way. There is something about waiting for the next message to appear, to see what is going to happen next.
Audio, for me, is a natural progression from text.
I won't do videos. Not of that nature. I've only ever done 1. And it was for someone very special. But I wouldn't ever do it in a casual litlationship thing. Not that I have those anyway.

I think maybe the word (on lit at least) has evolved to mean communication of a sexual nature. I think context is important and words mean what people understand them to mean.

It's also personal to each litster. I know some people are very visual. Some aural. Some like it all.

 

[lavendersilk]

Is this really a thing? AFAF
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Not in my case. All the people with dicks could magically become dickless and it wouldn't matter much. It's the person attached to the dick that is more important than the dick itself.

Do people suffer from Pussypression?  Now Boobpression I completely understand.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Is this really a thing? AFAF
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Yes.

 

[ShaneoD]

Yes.

Someone might see a few pm's soon

 

[MedicalMuse]

This is a general question, but these three replies make the point very nicely.

Is sexting just a starting point in a textual relationship? You begin there, but move on to other kinds of communication as you become more open and comfortable?

Not always. Some should have just stayed that way

When does it stop being sexting?

When feelings get involved.

Does anyone else still love online play which is just text, with no audios or pics or videos?

Yep.

Or would you always prefer sounds or images if you can have them?

I only prefer one person in person.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Someone might see a few pm's soon

Not from you though.

 

[ShaneoD]

Not from you though.

You've got me by the balls here.....come to think of it some guys might be jealous

 

[MedicalMuse]

You've got me by the balls here.....come to think of it some guys might be jealous

Just enjoying squeezing your balls a little

 

[ShaneoD]

Just enjoying squeezing your balls a little

I'll just be here with my eyes closed enjoying the image of that

 

[MedicalMuse]

I'll just be here with my eyes closed enjoying the image of that

Im glad it brings you enjoyment

 

[Photog1rl]

Is sexting just a starting point in a textual relationship? You begin there, but move on to other kinds of communication as you become more open and comfortable?

It has been both. Just texting and also textung that turned into more.

When does it stop being sexting?

I think sexting is all of it. I guess its really cyber sex or eboning(I hate this term) but to me I would use it all interchangeably even though technically it’s not.

Does anyone else still love online play which is just text, with no audios or pics or videos? Or would you always prefer sounds or images if you can have them?

I am aural so I often prefer audio at some point. Listening to someone orgasm after texting is incredible. Bringing pleasure is heady. There is something fantastic about hearing(and seeing ) the climax of your interactions. I have also really enjoyed sharing audio recordings of my own play and climax.
Texting alone can work for me and doesn't feel lacking but when when audio is added it is inevitably better.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I’m pretty willing to try most things.

That's sort of your reputation.

 

[Lord Pmann]

That's sort of your reputation.

It is. But what’s funny is, I feel like I’m more vanilla compared to some of you demons.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

It is. But what’s funny is, I feel like I’m more vanilla compared to some of you demons.

I have absolutely no doubt about that.

 

[MedicalMuse]

It is. But what’s funny is, I feel like I’m more vanilla compared to some of you demons.

Other than the pony play, you mean?

 

[Mei5ter]

The connection you have with that person. They can be the most physically attractive person you’ve ever seen, but without the connection, nothing matters. You have to be in tune with each other and trust one another. Then you can be as vulnerable and raw with each other as possible.

The mind is the strongest aphrodisiac. So I think that you can definitely have better orgasms with someone you’re more connected with, whether that’s online or in person.

This. A thousand times.

Imagine you're having dinner with your partner, and you want to tell them all the ways you love them. Except you're doing it non-verbally. You can only express your feelings physically and through visible cues. I'm not saying you can't do a lot that way, but you're missing out on so much if you can't just say "I love you because..." or "When you do that..."

Sexting is where you describe the sex of your dreams, and can actually show your partner what's going on in your head, and just how much you love what they're doing, and how  they think. Other forms of online play are great too. But, as you say, the mind is the strongest aphrodisiac, and when someone sends that message which means that they're feeling about you exactly what you're feeling about them... well. That's the dream, isn't it?

Why would I settle for physical sex which didn't have that?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

This. A thousand times.

Imagine you're having dinner with your partner, and you want to tell them all the ways you love them. Except you're doing it non-verbally. You can only express your feelings physically and through visible cues.

You mean in ways other than letting her share your French fries without batting her hand away?