Cock Talk

[QuietCanadian]

Me too. Has anyone here used Teams? I know that @Wand3rlust mentioned using WhatsApp. I've liked using it for regular messaging, but, if I remember correctly, you have to give out your phone number. Anyone know more about that than me?

I use Teams for work and kind of like you mentioned above, not really conducive to this crossover. Sending someone a spreadsheet accidentally might kill the mood (or not, I don't know) but accidentally the other way, could be very career limiting.

If I think about it in a vacuum, it's similar to Skype, though I don't know about voice messages. I've never tried using that functionality. But video/voice call/text is all there.

I agree that the whole phone number thing for a lot of apps isn't great either (for privacy and the same crossover issues really), you don't need that with Teams as far as I can tell.

 

[Hodes101]

Skype is going away on March 5th!
Yeah, not good. Not switching to Teams. I teams to death with work. I am not using it for pleasure. Too much cross over.

Do you sext?
Sext, not often, but its not unknown. I certainly flirt and chat a lot with friends.

What app is best for sexting?
Well, until now, it's been Skype. I tried KIK for a while, hated it. Going to move to Google and see how that works out.

Do you use your phone, computer, tablet, laptop, or work computer to sext?
PC and Phone

Does your partner know about your sexting habits?
No. But sexting is better than having an affair no?

Do you have hard () limits for sexy social media interactions, or have you gone farther than you expected?
No, no limit. I did stuff when I was younger, I'm ashamed of what I look back on. Most things now are tame when compared to that.

What is the sexiest thing you were sent in a message?
Well that's in the eye of the beholder (me) and I keep that private.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Sending someone a spreadsheet accidentally might kill the mood (or not, I don't know) but accidentally the other way, could be very career limiting.

I’ve had this issue with pics in general.
I never use my phone or work (from home) computer for sexy stuff because I work with multimedia all the time. Sending the wrong pic or video, in either direction, could be catastrophic.
It’s kind of a pain in the ass.
I envy the guys who can just stick their phone down their pants and click a dick pic!

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I’ve had this issue with pics in general.
I never use my phone or work (from home) computer for sexy stuff because I work with multimedia all the time. Sending the wrong pic or video, in either direction, could be catastrophic.
It’s kind of a pain in the ass.
I envy the guys who can just stick their phone down their pants and click a dick pic!

Modern tech is making things trickier. My personal phone has a work profile on it. Supposedly, the two sides don't really "see" each other, except for critical operation functions. But I always pause a beat to make sure I'm on the "proper" profile.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I’ve had this issue with pics in general.
I never use my phone or work (from home) computer for sexy stuff because I work with multimedia all the time. Sending the wrong pic or video, in either direction, could be catastrophic.
It’s kind of a pain in the ass.
I envy the guys who can just stick their phone down their pants and click a dick pic!

I can help you with this. That way there's no proof on your phone.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’ve had this issue with pics in general.
I never use my phone or work (from home) computer for sexy stuff because I work with multimedia all the time. Sending the wrong pic or video, in either direction, could be catastrophic.
It’s kind of a pain in the ass.
I envy the guys who can just stick their phone down their pants and click a dick pic!

I plus go so fast and loose with this. I work on my phone and don't have a system for Aussie style selfies. I haven't had a fuck up (yet) and I'm aware of how insane I am because I could really do some damage by sending a nude to the wrong person

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Modern tech is making things trickier. My personal phone has a work profile on it. Supposedly, the two sides don't really "see" each other, except for critical operation functions. But I always pause a beat to make sure I'm on the "proper" profile.

Of course they see.

Nothing is private these days. Nothing.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Skype Wipe

https://64.media.tumblr.com/768c8521fd0e8cb82873a9e15c74f0ee/43e30ebcf10d7c78-28/s400x600/f7e87c5bfb409550c6b77ef95ebaf1edfcf2a827.gif

Skype is going away on March 5th!

Do you sext?

I have yes

What app is best for sexting?

I have used Skype and the regular phone

Do you use your phone, computer, tablet, laptop, or work computer to sext?

Phone.

Does your partner know about your sexting habits?

Nope lol

Do you have hard () limits for sexy social media interactions, or have you gone farther than you expected?

Yep and once. Never again lol

What is the sexiest thing you were sent in a message?

Someone sent me their amazing breasts today.

 

[MedicalMuse]

May I add two more questions?

What makes good sexting?

Engagement.

Can orgasms through masturbation and sexting be better than those with an in-person partner?

Sometimes.
In person is pretty amazing. Over text tends to engage my brain more.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Of course they see.

Nothing is private these days. Nothing.

I know they can't see, with our current configurations. I'm involved with the cyber security team where I work. And trust me, if they did see what I do with my phone, I'd have been fired long ago!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I know they can't see, with our current configurations. I'm involved with the cyber security team where I work. And trust me, if they did see what I do with my phone, I'd have been fired long ago!

I'm talking about Google

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I'm talking about Google

Oh, yeah, I'm fucked there.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Oh, yeah, I'm fucked there.

As are we all.

And the ramifications are far more nefarious

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

As are we all.

And the ramifications are far more nefarious

I've honestly thought of ditching a standard OS, going to a Linux version, maybe using Proton, and getting everything behind my own firewalls and locally managed cloud. Or am I overly paranoid?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I've honestly thought of ditching a standard OS, going to a Linux version, maybe using Proton, and getting everything behind my own firewalls and locally managed cloud. Or am I overly paranoid?

If you own a phone it doesn't really matter

We're pawns in the cyber warfare that's going on. Just stay educated. Information is power

 

[MindYaBitness]

I've honestly thought of ditching a standard OS, going to a Linux version, maybe using Proton, and getting everything behind my own firewalls and locally managed cloud. Or am I overly paranoid?

You mean having a separate dropbox isn't enough?
*runs away crying in tech unsaavyness!

 

[Endless_Night]

As one who just figured out to create a Skype account, several of the more recent posts read like blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

#techidiot

 

[hotwords229_A]

I plus go so fast and loose with this. I work on my phone and don't have a system for Aussie style selfies. I haven't had a fuck up (yet) and I'm aware of how insane I am because I could really do some damage by sending a nude to the wrong person

The safest thing you can do is send me all your pics and I will forward them to whomever you say.
Can’t be too careful!

Now that I say that, we could all do this. I’m going to open a business that stores naked pics and sends them to the correct recipients so the sender has plausible deniability.

#futurebillionaire

if they did see what I do with my phone, I'd have been fired long ago!

Or that’s exactly what they want you to think.

 

[Cogan]

May I add two more questions?

I missed this questions before, so I'll answer separate here.

What makes good sexting?

The connection is important. Without that it's just sexy texting. It works and is masturbation fuel, but good or great sexting is next level.

Can orgasms through masturbation and sexting be better than those with an in-person partner?

I don't know if I should say better. I'd say different. Like any other orgasms they kan be good and they can be great. When sexting the brain gets more stimulated compared to the in-person experience were the whole body is involved. The brain is still in center but the signals comes from the outside instead from the inside

 

[Apisto42]

Skype Wipe

https://64.media.tumblr.com/768c8521fd0e8cb82873a9e15c74f0ee/43e30ebcf10d7c78-28/s400x600/f7e87c5bfb409550c6b77ef95ebaf1edfcf2a827.gif

Skype is going away on March 5th!

Huh. The two times I used it were fun.

Do you sext?

I have. Very little any more. Timing issues. As in very little private time.

What app is best for sexting?

For the last decade it’s mostly just been pm on here. Before that I used yahoo messenger going back to the late 90’s.

Do you use your phone, computer, tablet, laptop, or work computer to sext?

Phone.

Does your partner know about your sexting habits?

Lol

Do you have hard () limits for sexy social media interactions, or have you gone farther than you expected?

It was a linear progression with exponential gains at unexpected times.

What is the sexiest thing you were sent in a message?

Listening to her spank herself until she came. That was really fucking hot.

 

[Mei5ter]

Skype Wipe

https://64.media.tumblr.com/768c8521fd0e8cb82873a9e15c74f0ee/43e30ebcf10d7c78-28/s400x600/f7e87c5bfb409550c6b77ef95ebaf1edfcf2a827.gif

Skype is going away on March 5th!

Do you sext?
What app is best for sexting?

Depends what you're actually doing, I guess? Sext is a portmanteau word (sex+texting) which implies text messaging - just the written word and no more. Is it still sexting if you're exchanging images/audio/video, or using an app for voice or video chatting?

Do you use your phone, computer, tablet, laptop, or work computer to sext?
Does your partner know about your sexting habits?
Do you have hard () limits for sexy social media interactions, or have you gone farther than you expected?

Lit is sexy social media, which is a different thing from messaging someone directly.

I'll talk about sex publicly in the threads with pretty much anyone. There should be a big difference between sexting and talking about sex, but both are actually pretty intimate things to do, and that line can get blurred. Keeping things public is cleaner.

I did stretch a few of my limits about what I'll share when I first joined Lit. But I have learned that not everyone here is as nice or as trustworthy as you'd hope. So my hard limits now include my actual name, any pictures of me, my voice, or any interactions off Lit. Those are the safeguards that give me the freedom to be open about other things here.

What is the sexiest thing you were sent in a message?

That's a mountain range with multiple summits, and where new and unexplored heights are discovered daily

 

[Endless_Night]

It was a linear progression with exponential gains at unexpected times.

How formal. I am imaging you in white tie and dinner jacket.

 

[Endless_Night]

Turns out you can take multiple videos of your latest projects on Skype and send them to friends, thereby boring them senseless!!!

I am desolate that this goes away in May.


(Oh, and you're welcome. )

 

[Apisto42]

Turns out you can take multiple videos of your latest projects on Skype and send them to friends, thereby boring them senseless!!!

I am desolate that this goes away in May.


(Oh, and you're welcome. )

Can you turn them into PowerPoints? Because that might just push some “friends” over the edge. (Friends is relative here, because why would you do that to a friend?)

 

[Wand3rlust]

Turns out you can take multiple videos of your latest projects on Skype and send them to friends, thereby boring them senseless!!!

I am desolate that this goes away in May.


(Oh, and you're welcome. )

Some French i remember...

Je suis désolé.

Actually means I'm sorry, but... it reminded me.

I've had prosecco. I'm sorry.