Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[BrendaBear]

I have noticed that in my usual Lit haunts, every once in a while, someone will post a hot bondage pic and most people will either laugh because it was posted in jest, or just move on. Meanwhile, I am totally turned on by it and wanting to talk about it and explore why it is so sexy. @Chloe_Harper suggested I just start a thread dedicated to discussing and exploring more.

My perspective is, I have always been excited by restraints. I don’t have much experience with ropes, but a good friend suggested I would probably love that. It certainly looks sexy to me. I also am super turned on by furniture or contraptions specifically made for, or modified to hold someone (more than one at the same time is crazy hot too).

I have zero interest in pain and/or humiliation. I am only interested in where she wants to be tied up and restrained. As long as she is okay with what is done to her, I certainly am too.

And lastly, for myself, I mostly identify with the woman being restrained, and don’t care if it is by a man or a woman. And if it is woman or women restraining another woman, I find either role exciting.

So please, post any pics following Lit guidelines, no direct genitalia directly posted, only by links. And no arguing here. This is about exploring and sharing thoughts, not about trying to influence or change someone else’s opinion. There is no right or wrong here, just a different opinion.

Thanks, welcome, and I look forward to sharing my thoughts and sharing yours too.

 

[BrendaBear]

https://imagex1.sx.cdn.live/images/pinporn/2023/08/26/29938764.gif?width=460

Yesterday, my friend @cactusjack0584 posted this. I absolutely love this! To me, she isn’t unhappy, she willingly accepts the gag. He is taking care of her. I badly want to know what else happened.

 

[BrendaBear]

When I was young, my family visited Colonial Williamsburg and I saw these outside - although, this doesn’t look quite like what I remember, but anyway. Even then, I wanted to be locked in that thing.


https://i.pinimg.com/originals/9a/4a/68/9a4a683fc1b52bc1d942c89e5d9d662a.jpg

 

[BrendaBear]

Here is another gif posted elsewhere here that stopped me in my tracks.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/even-more-of-your-favorite-bdsm-pictures.1533168/post-100465419

Hopefully that link goes to the right image. The one I love has a woman tied to a bench and a woman sitting in a chair behind her, and a man sitting in another chair.

That photo confused me because I immediately identified with the tied woman, but also was turned on by being the woman in the chair, about to go play with the tied woman…. Anyone else have thoughts on any of these things they would like to share?

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Brenda!!!!! I so love love love that you are doing this! I cannot wait to watch this thread flourish and grow as you become unrestrained now, as tribute... this was one I was going to share in my thread, but I think would work here as well too. Would love to know your thoughts of course View attachment 2505065
She's still clothed, the tie is small but clearly skilled. She kneels in the corner, head bowed. Is that her usual spot of submission waiting for what comes next or has she been to anxious and this is where she is being told to wait? Or, perhaps, something else entirely.

 

[BrendaBear]

Brenda!!!!! I so love love love that you are doing this! I cannot wait to watch this thread flourish and grow as you become unrestrained now, as tribute... this was one I was going to share in my thread, but I think would work here as well too. Would love to know your thoughts of course View attachment 2505065
She's still clothed, the tie is small but clearly skilled. She kneels in the corner, head bowed. Is that her usual spot of submission waiting for what comes next or has she been to anxious and this is where she is being told to wait? Or, perhaps, something else entirely.

Thanks Chloe!!! I love this pic. She is clearly a subbie, because she is obeying commands to stay there.

She can’t get out of those ropes, but she doesn’t want to….

 

[SubMick]

I am a complete pain slut sub now however my journey started with Bondage and it still holds a lot of emotion for me, especially visually.

I love the pictures you've already displayed. Like yourself I normally see myself as the restrained however occassionally one jumps out with a female tied where I would love to be anywhere in the vacinity.

Although not interested in men, male on male bondage also appeals to me more than I'd expect, I think due to the vulnerability.

I once spent a night with a Mistress who used the entire time for bondage. No other connection except tieing me up and appreciating her work.
I accepted the plan just to spend the night with her. I thought it would be a slow uneventful night for me but as it went on I found a lot of internal pleasure and it became a very intense personnal night.
I felt completed rested the next day.

 

[BrendaBear]

I am a complete pain slut sub now however my journey started with Bondage and it still holds a lot of emotion for me, especially visually.

I love the pictures you've already displayed. Like yourself I normally see myself as the restrained however occasionally one jumps out with a female tied where I would love to be anywhere in the vicinity.

Interesting thought… I am not a good spectator… I would have to be restrained or I would be in there, giving attention to her.

Although not interested in men, male on male bondage also appeals to me more than I'd expect, I think due to the vulnerability.

Interesting. It doesn’t do anything for me, considering my fascination with restraints, I don’t know why not.

I once spent a night with a Mistress who used the entire time for bondage. No other connection except tieing me up and appreciating her work.
I accepted the plan just to spend the night with her. I thought it would be a slow uneventful night for me but as it went on I found a lot of internal pleasure and it became a very intense personnal night.
I felt completed rested the next day.

How cool! That is what my friend suggested to me, I have never experienced it, but she assured me it would do wonders for me.

 

[cowboyup6977]

Here is another gif posted elsewhere here that stopped me in my tracks.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/even-more-of-your-favorite-bdsm-pictures.1533168/post-100465419

Hopefully that link goes to the right image. The one I love has a woman tied to a bench and a woman sitting in a chair behind her, and a man sitting in another chair.

That photo confused me because I immediately identified with the tied woman, but also was turned on by being the woman in the chair, about to go play with the tied woman…. Anyone else have thoughts on any of these things they would like to share?

Been in both situations
Either works for me

 

[SubMick]

Interesting thought… I am not a good spectator… I would have to be restrained or I would be in there, giving attention to her.


Interesting. It doesn’t do anything for me, considering my fascination with restraints, I don’t know why not.


How cool! That is what my friend suggested to me, I have never experienced it, but she assured me it would do wonders for me.

I am sure there are many volunteers here to help you with that experience

 

[BrendaBear]

Been in both situations
Either works for me

Oh my… would you care to share how either made you feel?

 

[cowboyup6977]

Not on here will have too many men messaging me and I prefer women

 

[BrendaBear]

Not on here will have too many men messaging me and I prefer women

Me too.

Although… having a man claim me, own me… that has a huge attraction to me.

 

[cowboyup6977]

My husband does that already I’m somewhat submissive to him
But a switch with the right woman

 

[BrendaBear]

My husband does that already I’m somewhat submissive to him
But a switch with the right woman

Yes!!! Yeppers!


https://media1.tenor.com/m/dV_TJCh7sOAAAAAC/jaime-french-jamie-french.gif

 

[Dashabout]

I'm looking forward to see this thread gain popularity. Not into the heavy pain aspect but the restraints, Shibari and some of the bondage set ups garner my attention for some reason.

 

[Cunninglady]

Been in both situations
Either works for me

Details please!

 

[BrendaBear]

I'm looking forward to see this thread gain popularity. Not into the heavy pain aspect but the restraints, Shibari and some of the bondage set ups garner my attention for some reason.

I am not into pain at all.

 

[Cunninglady]

I am not into pain at all.

I've never understood the pain kink either. That will totally kill a mood for me.

 

[BrendaBear]

I've never understood the pain kink either. That will totally kill a mood for me.

Me too. But dangle some leather cuffs in front of me? I’m giggling like a school girl…

 

[cowboyup6977]

I've never understood the pain kink either. That will totally kill a mood for me.

Not even a little nipple biting

 

[Cunninglady]

Not even a little nipple biting

A nibble to make it perky, but nothing that will cause sharp pain.

 

[Cunninglady]

I'd be happy to nibble on yours though.

 

[cowboyup6977]

I'd be happy to nibble on yours though.

 

[Cunninglady]

Maybe we can get @brendabein some cuffs and you can nibble one and I the other!