Neanderthal247
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You on that Inspector Gadget type of cyber, goodness
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Apisto42
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I think that’s one of the hard bits (not that hard bit you dirty pervs) of having a relationship either in person or remotely. If it’s just a copy paste job, it’s not very exciting is it? We all want to be desired for ourselves, not just be another notch on the vibrator.I am not possessive generally speaking, but I am in submission. The emotional/mental build is an integral part of what lets me practice my kink, which requires me, a not very trusty person, to practice a lot of trust. It has to feel like what's happening is specific to me, personally.
(Whether it is or not is another matter.)
Apisto42
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There does seem to be more social rather than sexual threads in the PG. it’s been a long time since I checked the BDSM or Fetish boards, so no comment on those.
As others have mentioned, the threads that are actually more about specifics, the why of why people like getting fucked in a certain way. “How” is always educational, but “why” is so much more interesting.
PM’s that had me so turned on, I had to worry whether there was going to be a wet spot on my khakis when I got off the train on my way to work. Threads usually don’t get me that excited. More informative usually.
Depends on mood, but a good flirt orgy is always fun.
Enjoy the moment and recognize that there will ebbs and flows in your personal enjoyment of lit. These are the good ol’ days because we’re alive and living them right now. Romancing the past and expecting the future to be better just leads to dissatisfaction with the present.
Endless_Night
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This is true, and I also think there is an enormous range of how that works.
I've seen plenty of people that are happy to do what I'd call random play. Others, who hop from situation to situation. The multi-players. The deeply involved emotional relationships.
Most of those people want to be desired for what they have to offer, but the depth of the connection seems to vary enormously. As do the timings, from long-term to the ephemeral.
None of those are situationally wrong. People want what they want. The tricky part comes in when two vastly different types hook up.
MedicalMuse
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There were hard-core super sexy threats?
This one ranks
I used to have entirely too much fun and just about every thread I can be in. I’ve since toned down. I think some of it is just the feel of it has changed for me. It’s not as fun and inclusive and accepting as it once was or at least that’s my perception.
I like to keep my options open. If they happen to be an extra special orgy going on with a lot of people I very much enjoyed then yes. Jumping into an orgy with a bunch of random people that I don’t really know so well probably not.
Make it fun. Include people. Bring the flirt and stop getting after everybody who gets a little over the top in a thread. If somebody wants to be ho-Ing it up and getting it on with anybody they want, don’t shame them if it’s not for you scroll on.
MindYaBitness
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Lol, the phone is stuck to the underside, I don't actually use the magnifier, though the light has come in handy once or twice. I owned a salon, and have an aesthetician license. This leftover equipment came in handy, and just happens to be one of the ways I McGyver my phone so I don't drop it on myself!
Love_Is_Blonde
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You find the best gifs!
It’s not just you.
This one is one of my favorites. I know I’ve mention Racy Wild’s before but hers was awesome. I thought the truth or dare ones were exciting and they were active when I first joined, so that was quite a way to get acclimated to Lit.
There are some descriptions of fantasies that have caught my attention, and I find myself thinking about them for a long time afterwards. Or fantasies I’ve had, but someone talks about something similar but changes a minor detail, and it altered the entire dynamic, and was mind blowing to me. There are people who conduct themselves in ways that I admire or think is charming, and I can see why they have a following. Some people here have that magnetic personality and it is mesmerizing.
I’m not really looking for an online orgy so I’m pretty well behaved
. A little flirty fun here and there, but not too much. When I first discovered how titillating messing around online was, I had a VERY good time. This was before I found Lit though. Since I’ve been on Lit, I think I’ve been pretty good. (Except for the picture thread which is now deleted.) Use the ignore button more. If you don’t like someone, ignore them. Less drama and arguing, and passive aggressive vague posts. I’m not sure how to make that happen though.
Just jump in and start posting. If you don’t like lit the way it is, try to make it the way you want it to be. I think we just need to all just start a new thread.
Also, I encourage people to take Lit breaks. Stepping away for a bit is helpful. Then you can come back and be your sexy happy self again.
MischiefMakerAlways
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Depends for me. I get zero privacy anywhere in my house, so I have to surreptitious and opportunistic.
I don't have a setup, but that may change if I relocate.
We love you Sassy. If someone doesn't like you, then they're missing out.I do. That's why I love it here. Everyone just has fun. Answering questions like this is such a great way to get to know people.
SassySheDevil
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Honestly, I am grateful for those who do. I care less about the ones who don't, now more than I used to.
There are so many I'd love to meet and hang out with.
Thank you for always checking in on me.
Mei5ter
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If Lit is a bar, it feels like one where there's a singles night, a hen party, a large birthday celebration, and a meeting of the local amateur dramatic society all happening on the same night.
Nothing wrong with any of that. But nowadays I'm in the bar because I've popped in with my girlfriend. I have no interest in the singles, or getting caught up with the hen party shenanigans, or gatecrashing someone else's party. And I'm avoiding Lit am dram like the plague.
On the other hand, the singles, the party crowds, and the drama mob? They have no interest in stopping what they're doing for a drink and a chat with me. It's not what what they're in the Bar au Lit for.
So. If we're finding Lit less sexy, is it actually Lit changing...or is it us evolving in how we engage with it? Would you be finding it exciting and sexy if you were new here, and being a notch on someone's vibrator hadn't yet lost its novelty?
Nothing wrong with any of that. But nowadays I'm in the bar because I've popped in with my girlfriend. I have no interest in the singles, or getting caught up with the hen party shenanigans, or gatecrashing someone else's party. And I'm avoiding Lit am dram like the plague.
On the other hand, the singles, the party crowds, and the drama mob? They have no interest in stopping what they're doing for a drink and a chat with me. It's not what what they're in the Bar au Lit for.
So. If we're finding Lit less sexy, is it actually Lit changing...or is it us evolving in how we engage with it? Would you be finding it exciting and sexy if you were new here, and being a notch on someone's vibrator hadn't yet lost its novelty?
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SassySheDevil
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So you're saying you want wanderlust to fly over and show you in person? She can jump on the plane with @AWonkyDonkey. Travel buddies!For further clarity, in-person buttholes are way better than photographed ones.
Haha sorry wanderlust. I just made plans for you in March.
hotwords229_A
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That’s exactly what I’m saying.So you're saying you want wanderlust to fly over and show you in person? She can jump on the plane with @AWonkyDonkey. Travel buddies!
Haha sorry wanderlust. I just made plans for you in March.
SassySheDevil
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You better have something special planned for her then.That’s exactly what I’m saying.
hotwords229_A
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This is what sparked this topic. I stopped in the Fetish thread to see if anything interesting was happening and I saw a lot of interesting thread topics. Much, much more sexual than the Playground.
I kind of wish those type of threads were in the Playground with this group of people.
hotwords229_A
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What’s more special than butt stuff?You better have something special planned for her then.
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SassySheDevil
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I used to hang out there a lot when I was posting audio files. Can be a fun place.
Butt stuff, flowers, romantic dinner....What’s more special than but stuff?
Neanderthal247
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That section are more open sexually and a bit more serious, the Playground is more for shits and giggles. I can't say it's less sexy than before though, I think as people change and you aren't as close with people, it gets less sexy. I believe people are nostalgic from the time they first joined, the time they knew more people and when lit was more exciting to them. Lit does loses it's luster, but lucky for me, it's like a rebirth for me, I went from most hated troll, to the funniest guy on lit lol. I never felt I belong when I first joined, so now I have a good blend of old and new litsters I speak to. I still don't belong, but I am truly okay with it.
SassySheDevil
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I am going to have fun dreams tonight.
Goodnight!
Goodnight!
Wand3rlust
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yeah - @hotwords229_A - make an effort, dammit.
Mei5ter
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I'm not sure how you say "butt stuff" with flowers? A single rosebud maybe?
Wand3rlust
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AmberLGreen
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You seem to have a lot of pricks around your flower
Wand3rlust
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Comes with the territory....
hotwords229_A
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Is it just me or is Literotica falling short in the hardcore super sexy threads of late?
It’s just you. I think, as others have said, the Playground has tamed a bit lately and is in need of a few more sexually oriented threads.
What threads do you find the craziest, sexiest on Literotica?
I do like the “Show us your…” threads. Anything with nudity is always appreciated. I tend to miss almost all of them though.
What is a sexy memory you have of a moment on Lit where things got extra heated (in a good way) in a thread?
One of my all-time favorite Playground threads was There’s Nothing Sexy to See Here, Suz” threads. It had all the right ingredients, participants, and a host who kept it fun, silly and sexy.
Do you play it safe on Lit, or are you ready to jump into a Lit orgy at a moment’s notice?
I stand ready to jump in.
How can we sex up Literotica again?
Those great moments where suddenly everyone seemingly gets horny at once and the posts explode, the clothes come off and things get totally carried away are my favorites.
I don’t know how to make that happen, or why it happens, but we need more of those.
It’s just you. I think, as others have said, the Playground has tamed a bit lately and is in need of a few more sexually oriented threads.
What threads do you find the craziest, sexiest on Literotica?
I do like the “Show us your…” threads. Anything with nudity is always appreciated. I tend to miss almost all of them though.
What is a sexy memory you have of a moment on Lit where things got extra heated (in a good way) in a thread?
One of my all-time favorite Playground threads was There’s Nothing Sexy to See Here, Suz” threads. It had all the right ingredients, participants, and a host who kept it fun, silly and sexy.
Do you play it safe on Lit, or are you ready to jump into a Lit orgy at a moment’s notice?
I stand ready to jump in.
How can we sex up Literotica again?
Those great moments where suddenly everyone seemingly gets horny at once and the posts explode, the clothes come off and things get totally carried away are my favorites.
I don’t know how to make that happen, or why it happens, but we need more of those.
