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Reminder to the regulars of the BH. You are all amazing people and I've seen amazing things here. But we cannot control how people behave/react to feedback. So when the trolls sneak in, let's not behave like this....


But like this...


And for those who can civilly educate them, please do. Opportunities to educate can create behaviour change. Love to all the braternity 💖💖💖
 

Reminder to the regulars of the BH. You are all amazing people and I've seen amazing things here. But we cannot control how people behave/react to feedback. So when the trolls sneak in, let's not behave like this....


But like this...


And for those who can civilly educate them, please do. Opportunities to educate can create behaviour change. Love to all the braternity 💖💖💖
Still clicked on the emojis
 
my degree is in american politics and law, what is yours in? assuming you meant to be contradictory, as i took your question to be.
And yet you don't know that privately owned boards can set their own, more restrictive rules on what can be posted?
 
i feel like we have all strived so hard since the beginning of the thread to be inclusive and create a fun and relaxing environment. its a shame some people have nothing better to do than cause drama for no reason. smh. we will get past this. i apologize for my part in bringing down the mood of the room.
 
And yet you don't know that privately owned boards can set their own, more restrictive rules on what can be posted?
thats exactly what were asking for...im not the perpetrator here, but i am in a dm with both topleasehim and laurel if you would like to be added to the escalation, which i am sure your responses here will also be reviewed.
 
i have to strongly disagree with you...freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences...there is a HUGE difference between playful banter amoung friends and someone coming into a thread for the sole purpose of inciting arguments and personally attacking people. that this is your initial reaction troubles me greatly. he was given the benefit of the doubt and nicely asked to change his behavior and he doubled down. how many people have him on ignore? this should be a clear red flag. i hope you will do the right thing, but if not, i have to ask the question if there is someone the situation can be escalated to. ignore is not the answer, its not even a block...they can still see messages and interact in the thread. the goal should be to create a safe and friendly environment for everyone. allowing this kind of behavior would be extremely disappointing.
I understand and appreciate you and your opinion, but to take it down to the clearest statement: being an asshole is not a violation of TOS.

As far as the Mods, I had modded forums and subreddits. It is an annoying headache and thankless yet necessary job. And @ToPleaseHim has always done a fair, evenhanded job. The Playground is the fun palace it is because of her work, and the other mods. Venture into the unmoderated boards and you see the difference. Or don't--I wouldn't suggest it.

As far as playful banter, I agree, but that is also subjective, especially asking a mod who doesn't play here to come in and read the whole of 900 pages from a few complaints. Read some of the stuff between @Fiestykitten and I and you could come to the conclusion that we hate each other. Context is king. (And the poor Kitten is falling in love with me).

Were you I, and you are not, but were you, I would tell myself to stick to the giants and ignore the windmills. My automatic reaction is to protect those I care about and places I enjoy. But there is only so much I can do, and playing into someone's games often just feeds them and makes everything else worse, like a bad dumpster fire. We like our dumpster fires to be joyful.

You have conviction, you have passion, but this is Lit, Jake.
 
I understand and appreciate you and your opinion, but to take it down to the clearest statement: being an asshole is not a violation of TOS.

As far as the Mods, I had modded forums and subreddits. It is an annoying headache and thankless yet necessary job. And @ToPleaseHim has always done a fair, evenhanded job. The Playground is the fun palace it is because of her work, and the other mods. Venture into the unmoderated boards and you see the difference. Or don't--I wouldn't suggest it.

As far as playful banter, I agree, but that is also subjective, especially asking a mod who doesn't play here to come in and read the whole of 900 pages from a few complaints. Read some of the stuff between @Fiestykitten and I and you could come to the conclusion that we hate each other. Context is king. (And the poor Kitten is falling in love with me).

Were you I, and you are not, but were you, I would tell myself to stick to the giants and ignore the windmills. My automatic reaction is to protect those I care about and places I enjoy. But there is only so much I can do, and playing into someone's games often just feeds them and makes everything else worse, like a bad dumpster fire. We like our dumpster fires to be joyful.

You have conviction, you have passion, but this is Lit, Jake.
Istg, you keep saying I’m going to fall in love with you!
Well, dear sir I think you are projecting your desires on me hoping that I will fall in love with you!!!
*sticks tongue out at you*
🤭🤭🤭
 
I understand and appreciate you and your opinion, but to take it down to the clearest statement: being an asshole is not a violation of TOS.

As far as the Mods, I had modded forums and subreddits. It is an annoying headache and thankless yet necessary job. And @ToPleaseHim has always done a fair, evenhanded job. The Playground is the fun palace it is because of her work, and the other mods. Venture into the unmoderated boards and you see the difference. Or don't--I wouldn't suggest it.

As far as playful banter, I agree, but that is also subjective, especially asking a mod who doesn't play here to come in and read the whole of 900 pages from a few complaints. Read some of the stuff between @Fiestykitten and I and you could come to the conclusion that we hate each other. Context is king. (And the poor Kitten is falling in love with me).

Were you I, and you are not, but were you, I would tell myself to stick to the giants and ignore the windmills. My automatic reaction is to protect those I care about and places I enjoy. But there is only so much I can do, and playing into someone's games often just feeds them and makes everything else worse, like a bad dumpster fire. We like our dumpster fires to be joyful.

You have conviction, you have passion, but this is Lit, Jake.
I find that very sad and has a great deal to do with the situation our country finds itself in. When its abundately clear what right is but its ignored and discounted and mocked ( not by you) we have already lost.
 
I find that very sad and has a great deal to do with the situation our country finds itself in. When its abundately clear what right is but its ignored and discounted and mocked ( not by you) we have already lost.
I fear the phrase "abundantly clear." And I would argue that the strength of freedom of speech is getting mocked, since only hearing that which I agree with isn't freedom, but here is neither the time nor place.
 
sorry the vibe has been killed guys...the only current recourse is to put him on ignore unfortunately. i hope everyone can put this unfortunate situation behind them and move on.
I think this is best Rafe, you fought for us and we saw that
We don't love you less because it was an unfavorable outcome.

But seriously, we can vibe and grind and kiss and twerk....
Or whatever brats do....
I'm a unicorn I prance.... And stuff....

Anyhow.... Let's do us....
🫶

To our best brats and our fuckest fuckers....
🍨🍪🍸🍹🍷
 
I fear the phrase "abundantly clear." And I would argue that the strength of freedom of speech is getting mocked, since only hearing that which I agree with isn't freedom, but here is neither the time nor place.
The first amendment is only protection from the government againt retribution from speaking out and being critical of the governement. What it is not is a license to say anything you want to anyone without consequences or repercusions.
 
isn’t decoding fun? 🤪


@Fiestykitten I think you were asking, too. I could be wrong but the thread was moving fast trying to catch up. ❤️💋

So NMK has nothing to do with me. It means Not My Kink

MLT and MTK are acronyms that @MischiefMakerAlways and I use for each other.

He calls me My Little Treasure and I call him My Treasure Keeper. We’ve shortened it to have a little code amongst ourselves and just for shorthand purposes.

But all of our favorite friends are starting to pick up on it!

We love you all! 💋💋

So that's my problem?
MLT
My little ?

MTK
not a clue
I forgot to quote or tag you in the post I quoted above! Decoding can be fun! 🤪 Acronyms described 🤪
 
I find that very sad and has a great deal to do with the situation our country finds itself in. When its abundately clear what right is but its ignored and discounted and mocked ( not by you) we have already lost.
And Mo agreed to stay out, regardless of why, so take the win and celebrate it.
 
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