Leash trained

[Dreamliner]

 

[ZfrkS62]

Fuck off then if you're not going to educate

 

[masterslave00]

Collar and leash, the hook is often forgotten as a simple control device. The cool steel, warms with bodily contact, the ball, you cannot forget it is there.
https://64.media.tumblr.com/b3f3d4a543dac61aba26fb86ad53e980/43b7c74bd0776497-f4/s500x750/e2a8fba8f77710e302b92c936029eba0346417d4.gifv

Stiletto's, appropriate posture, shoulders back, tits up.......beautiful.

OMG...

 

[cascadiabound]

Expand.

What is the point?

Tension on the anal hook is not required to have it be very effective. I recommend an experiment. Get a hook, put it in yourself and take a walk around your house. I think that's the most effective education on it's use and how it makes a person feel.
Enjoy!

 

[13Fantasies]

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Exquisite

 

[ZfrkS62]

Tension on the anal hook is not required to have it be very effective. I recommend an experiment. Get a hook, put it in yourself and take a walk around your house. I think that's the most effective education on it's use and how it makes a person feel.
Enjoy!

So why bother with the leash then? That's where I'm lost.

 

[cascadiabound]

So why bother with the leash then? That's where I'm lost.

Imo the leash provides layers of sensation/emotional impact. Simply wearing a collar with leash attached makes some people feel deeply controlled/owned, even when the leash is loose. Here, the leash is attached to both collar and hook and is bouncing around against her back as she moves. Every single movement she makes she is feeling that leash, tugging on her collar, tugging/vibrating against the hook. She is getting a bunch of subtle and not so subtle sensations all of which enforce her submission, her obedience to her D.
Obviously YMMV.
Every one is different, everyone experiences these things differently and how these things impact the power dynamic between people.

Maybe someone else will come along and chime in a different perspective.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Imo the leash provides layers of sensation/emotional impact. Simply wearing a collar with leash attached makes some people feel deeply controlled/owned, even when the leash is loose. Here, the leash is attached to both collar and hook and is bouncing around against her back as she moves. Every single movement she makes she is feeling that leash, tugging on her collar, tugging/vibrating against the hook. She is getting a bunch of subtle and nit so subtle sensations all of which enforce her submission, her obedience to her D.
Obviously YMMV.
Every one is different, everyone experiences these things differently and how these things impact the power dynamic between people.

Maybe someone else will come along and chime in a different perspective.

I never would have considered any of that. Thank you.

 

[cascadiabound]

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There is no leash in this image (yet), but there is a lovely collar with an attachment ring ready and waiting.

But what I love the most about this image is the way he is dominating her with nothing more than his thumb pressed gently into her mouth.

The intimacy of having his thumb (or fingers) in my mouth... the way his invasion of my oral cavity exudes control and immediately pushes on my submissive buttons.

It's an erogenous zone
It's sexy as fuck
It implies his ownership of all other orifices
It reminds me viscerally that my mouth is his
.... to kiss
.... to fuck with his fingers, cock, toys
.... to gag and to train
.... to use for his pleasure and mine

I might have to start a new thread.
Oral fixations- fingers, thumbs and more

Put your thumb in my mouth. Call me your beloved slut. Guide me to my knees. Feed my oral fixation with your cock. Leash me and make me your obedient pet.

 

[Proximus]

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There is no leash in this image (yet), but there is a lovely collar with an attachment ring ready and waiting.

But what I love the most about this image is the way he is dominating her with nothing more than his thumb pressed gently into her mouth.

The intimacy of having his thumb (or fingers) in my mouth... the way his invasion of my oral cavity exudes control and immediately pushes on my submissive buttons.

It's an erogenous zone
It's sexy as fuck
It implies his ownership of all other orifices
It reminds me viscerally that my mouth is his
.... to kiss
.... to fuck with his fingers, cock, toys
.... to gag and to train
.... to use for his pleasure and mine

I might have to start a new thread.
Oral fixations- fingers, thumbs and more

Put your thumb in my mouth. Call me your beloved slut. Guide me to my knees. Feed my oral fixation with your cock. Leash me and make me your obedient pet.

I would 100% follow and contribute to that thread if you make it!

 

[cascadiabound]

Willingly on his leash.
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[cascadiabound]

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Exactly what she craves. Exactly what he needs.

 

[cascadiabound]

The posture collar. Wonder how many here on Lit have them?

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Idk, but here's another one.
They are very different to wear than a regular collar - even a rather wide collar.
They create such a visceral level of control. You can barely turn your head. You can't look down. Every breath and every swallow belongs to him. The way it reduces you to something so *little* - a pet so easily controlled- it is amazing and disconcerting.

 

[BBW_Latina_Girlie]

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Exactly what she craves. Exactly what he needs.

The true feeling of belonging completely to him

 

[cindylamb]

This is such a fascinating thread to me. I spent three years with a man who made me wear a dog collar in the house (and sometimes when we went out). The rest of the time I had to wear a choker. I spent literally three years with something wrapped around my neck at all times except when I was in the shower. I escaped that relationship, but it is now difficult for me to come without a collar on. This thread was both hot to read and helped me conceptualize why I am the way I am.

 

[Trubbycat]

This is such a fascinating thread to me. I spent three years with a man who made me wear a dog collar in the house (and sometimes when we went out). The rest of the time I had to wear a choker. I spent literally three years with something wrapped around my neck at all times except when I was in the shower. I escaped that relationship, but it is now difficult for me to come without a collar on. This thread was both hot to read and helped me conceptualize why I am the way I am.

The way you phrased "escape" implies it wasn't entirely consensual. Hope you're okay.

 

[cascadiabound]

The way you phrased "escape" implies it wasn't entirely consensual. Hope you're okay.

I absolutely concur. I hope you are okay and you are able to find joy in kinky things with your consent in the future.

 

[cindylamb]

Thank you.

I am okay now. It wasn't consensual because I never felt like I had a choice. He did not love me or care about me. He used me, stole from me, and ultimately hurt me pretty bad. So I don't consider it a BDSM relationship because that mutual caring and carefulness wasn't there. He's gone now. I'm physically fine now and on the mend emotionally. I turned to writing to both try to understand my feelings and as a sexual outlet. That's what brought me here.

C

 

[masterslave00]

Thank you.

I am okay now. It wasn't consensual because I never felt like I had a choice. He did not love me or care about me. He used me, stole from me, and ultimately hurt me pretty bad. So I don't consider it a BDSM relationship because that mutual caring and carefulness wasn't there. He's gone now. I'm physically fine now and on the mend emotionally. I turned to writing to both try to understand my feelings and as a sexual outlet. That's what brought me here.

C

Good luck with everything and thanks for sharing!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you.

I am okay now. It wasn't consensual because I never felt like I had a choice. He did not love me or care about me. He used me, stole from me, and ultimately hurt me pretty bad. So I don't consider it a BDSM relationship because that mutual caring and carefulness wasn't there. He's gone now. I'm physically fine now and on the mend emotionally. I turned to writing to both try to understand my feelings and as a sexual outlet. That's what brought me here.

C

Glad you found this place. It has helped me process bad crap, helped me overcome terror and non consent violence. I've learned a lot. I've figured out a lot. I've found people to help me, listen to me and hold my hand while I unlearned and learned stuff.
There are a lot of resources around here and some really good people. There are asshats too - so definitely don't trust everyone. Good luck. Take care of you.

cb

 

[cindylamb]

I will cb.

Just knowing there are people like me who feel this way is the greatest feeling in the world. I thought there was something wrong with me.

C

 

[Playwithmee]

I will cb.

Just knowing there are people like me who feel this way is the greatest feeling in the world. I thought there was something wrong with me.

C

Absolutely not. It’s just understanding your feelings that will make you complete

 

[cascadiabound]

I will cb.

Just knowing there are people like me who feel this way is the greatest feeling in the world. I thought there was something wrong with me.

C

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's okay to enjoy whatever you enjoy as long as everyone stays safe sane and consensual.
10 years ago I never would have imagined that I would want, crave, and enjoy the things I now know about myself. It's a journey.

 

[melimelissa]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's okay to enjoy whatever you enjoy as long as everyone stays safe sane and consensual.
10 years ago I never would have imagined that I would want, crave, and enjoy the things I now know about myself. It's a journey.

Why do people get so cross,
And so uptight and rude,
When there is pleasure to be had
When I am collared , nude.

I let the words waft over me:
It's easy when I'm kneeling,
And sucking daddy, so he'll be
Pleasured by the feeling...

Of his command and duty done,
Delivered with no loss,
Save all the cum (that tasted yum)
While others got so cross!

Sighs

Méli

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[cascadiabound]

Why do people get so cross,
And so uptight and rude,
When there is pleasure to be had
When I am collared , nude.

I let the words waft over me:
It's easy when I'm kneeling,
And sucking daddy, so he'll be
Pleasured by the feeling...

Of his command and duty done,
Delivered with no loss,
Save all the cum (that tasted yum)
While others got so cross!

Sighs

Méli

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Idk why you quoted my post for this poem and image. Leaves me confused tbh.