As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[Biguy77578]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

I had male male sex a couple years before sex with a female. When available I preferred female but I wanted sex everyday and most days multiple times so when an opportunity presented itself male or female I tood it. I love women and love sex with either gender. In my 40's I was diagnosed as a sex addict. I'm 72 now and still desire both.

 

[SmokingFap]

I had male male sex a couple years before sex with a female. When available I preferred female but I wanted sex everyday and most days multiple times so when an opportunity presented itself male or female I tood it. I love women and love sex with either gender. In my 40's I was diagnosed as a sex addict. I'm 72 now and still desire both.

I am sorry for your addiction. We all enjoy sex, but I'm sure it makes life difficult to actually be addicted to it, just like anything else.

 

[cowboyup6977]

I’m married and bi my husband knows I prefer women when we play

 

[SmokingFap]

I’m married and bi my husband knows I prefer women when we play

Somehow, I don't imagine he complains.

 

[Phatfeet]

I had male male sex a couple years before sex with a female. When available I preferred female but I wanted sex everyday and most days multiple times so when an opportunity presented itself male or female I tood it. I love women and love sex with either gender. In my 40's I was diagnosed as a sex addict. I'm 72 now and still desire both.

Wow, that must have been kind of a cutting-edge diagnosis since it would have been back in the mid-1990’? Good for you for getting a diagnosis’s so profound.

As Smokingflap said, we often consider sex so pleasurable, but yet I am sure there is such a thing as too much of a good thing and at times it was almost unmanageable for you. I hope the diagnosis was not just a name given, but maybe some true help given to you over the rough spots.

I have read some wild but true stories of people with this diagnoses and while most were able to spiral out of it, they indeed had some wild stories in going through it. Suzy Favor comes to mind who ruined much of her former life and nearly destroyed her marriage and motherhood.

Sex is powerful, and while it can be immensely pleasurable, it can have a downside too. Wish you the best my friend, but I certainly enjoy who you are, and all your posts.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Im attracted to woman but prefer sex with men. I like the feel of a naked man against me and the feel of a hard throbbing cock in my mouth. I see a man and dont think… wow hes cute or hes got a nice butt. However if I see a hot looking woman imagine having sex with her but than my mind wonders to a recent sexual experience with a man. I would rather suck a cock than eat a pussy.

 

[SmokingFap]

I have not been doing bisexual sex for very long now, so it is hard for me to say.

I do not want to offend anyone in how they live their life, but I do not see myself enjoying a fully gay lifestyle to the end of my days exclusively. But having said that, because I am trying to be less reserved about what I do with a man, I try and consider myself as fully gay when I am with one, and not just bisexual.

Splitting hairs? Perhaps but it keeps me trying new things too, like kissing for example.

But it is liberating to be with another man just because sexually there is no guessing what he likes. Chances are, if I like something, he will like me doing it to him. That co-knowledge is liberating and exciting. So little rejection now, and that I admit it addicting.

I don't think it's at all offensive to share your personal feelings and experiences. I didn't see one iota of judgment in your post. But I'm sure everyone appreciates your consideration.

 

[Biguy77578]

Wow, that must have been kind of a cutting-edge diagnosis since it would have been back in the mid-1990’? Good for you for getting a diagnosis’s so profound.

As Smokingflap said, we often consider sex so pleasurable, but yet I am sure there is such a thing as too much of a good thing and at times it was almost unmanageable for you. I hope the diagnosis was not just a name given, but maybe some true help given to you over the rough spots.

I have read some wild but true stories of people with this diagnoses and while most were able to spiral out of it, they indeed had some wild stories in going through it. Suzy Favor comes to mind who ruined much of her former life and nearly destroyed her marriage and motherhood.

Sex is powerful, and while it can be immensely pleasurable, it can have a downside too. Wish you the best my friend, but I certainly enjoy who you are, and all your posts.

Thank you for your kind words. You are right on about it being mid 90's. My first wife and I were going to a couples marrage counselor who made the diagnosis. She had me buy a book on sex addiction and it discribed me perfectly.

I made the decision I liked who I was and didn't change and the wife and I divorced.

I remarried in '98 to a fine woman who understands my addiction and indulges my needs and we have a fantastic sex life.

 

[sticky6]

I'm bi but in my older age, I prefer men.

 

[KingDavid234]

I am bi-curious with not much bi sex experience. I prefer women, but I would totally love to be with a woman who gets extremely excited by seeing 2 men suck each other's cocks, and wants to play in all sorts of ways. I want to 69 with her while he fucks her from behind so that I can lick her clitoris and his cock and balls. I would really like to do double vaginal penetration. I would like to be fucking her while she and I both suck his cock and lick his balls until he shoots a nice load of hot, sweet cum for us both to share!

 

[PantyLover84]

I'm bi and still love women, but an older guy who's even slightly dom will always take preference every day/night of the week x

 

[E_C65]

I honestly have no leading preference anymore. Whilst I was younger I would have leaned towards women, probably because of the whole biological need to breed, but now I can appreciate any gender for the beauty that they have. Its about the whole package, their attitudes to life, mind AND body.

 

[luvslingerie200]

I'm bi but in my older age, I prefer men.

^^^^^^This^^^^^

 

[SmokingFap]

Seriously? I'm attracted to the person, not their junk. Being attracted to a cock without the rest of the body ( and attitude ) is just fetish and there's nothing wrong with that.
I've lived and had sex with people of various genders, but not so many that I could make a meaningful conclusion about each of their tribes.

Yes, seriously. And thank you for your input.

 

[Escierto]

Attraction is an interesting thing. I can honestly say that I have NEVER been attracted to the person initially. How could I? I don't know them well enough to be attracted to them as people. In fact, at first, I don't know them at all.

It usually comes down to something physical like their hair color or some other physical attribute. Sometimes it's something they said or wrote that is provocative. There will be some "hook" that draws your interest like listening to a new song. Your attention is caught and then you look closer.

If you are lucky, you will find someone you like on closer examination but more often than not, it's "meh". If you are really lucky, you will find someone you love.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Sissies / trans girls.

 

[Escierto]

In my girlfriend's case, it was something she wrote. On that site, you could see who visited your profile and she could see that I had visited a bunch of times without sending her a message.

TBH, I thought she was out of my league. Finally she sent me a message and she said it was the first and only time she messaged someone first. She said, "You don't have to say anything." That surprised me and I started chatting with her. I thought then and I think now, this is no ordinary girl.

 

[Belong2Her]

I'm bi and still love women, but an older guy who's even slightly dom will always take preference every day/night of the week x

Before my Mistress/Wife and i got married, i had some affairs with older Men. i loved if they were aggressive, demanding and dominant with me. Now as a submissive hubby to my Mistress/Wife, my experiences with Men are usually limited to Her Bulls who are younger, still dominant, and always at my Wife's discretion. i do misty the occasional licking of balls with traces gray on them though.

 

[Sunnyade]

I'm still attracted to both sexes although I mostly have MM. Maybe just through convenience, opportunity or just plain lust.

 

[SteveXR]

Recently bi but still primarily attracted to females. I like their complete package. Only attracted to a guys junk. No explanation for it. That’s just how it happened

I totally get that.

 

[kccasey]

SmokingFab, Interesting question. I have always considered myself to be heterosexual, but I had a fetish for transgendered girls. The idea of a girl with a cock is a total turn on. Plus, I began experimenting with anal sex at an early age, using household items on myself. I eventually bought a dildo and began using that and found that I really liked being fucked.

So fast forward, I met a girl at a bar, I approached her, she was nice and was very friendly. I became very turned on from fooling around in the booth. I realized she was a trans when she asked me in her male voice, are you into fantasies?
Well, that was my first experience with cock. I sucked her and she fucked me, it was everything I had been hoping for. Since that time, I have been with several other Trans girls, (always prostitutes), and find that I am most sexually attracted to cock.
I realize now that I have never been satisfied with women. I typically do not reach orgasm with women. Even the one I married. She no longer is interested in sex, and I am sure that is at least partially my fault. Since I have gotten older, I have a desire to have sex with men. I typically am not attracted to men, I love the look of women, but not the pussy, I prefer cock. So, I am looking for a friend with benefits'.

 

[load69]

I am bicurious. I love how women look but really want to suck a nice cock and feel it pump hot cum down my throat.

 

[saintcero]

I am bicurious. I love how women look but really want to suck a nice cock and feel it pump hot cum down my throat.

All I can say is that I have no regrets from my M2M fun.

 

[Bi19963]

Came out as Bi in November of 2023, married, to a woman, But I've known all my life I was more interested in guys. As I've gotten older I could totally see myself in a gay male relationship. So I definitely prefer the male gender.

 

[Swuchrow]

I have been bi since I was in my early 20s. I prefer women for the emotional and physical connection.

I prefer a hard cock when I feel the need to be submissive. The desire for a man is purely physical and the need to be dominated and used.