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My wife jumped at the opportunity. There was a series of events on both our sides that got us laying our cards on the table. We both wanted her to have sex with other men. By the end of the conversation, we decide to enter a hotwife lifestyle. She would fuck other men. I remain faithful.
 
It's not something I ever considered too seriously before, but having been in the same relationship for a while now, it starts to sound more appealing. I think I would be OK if my SO was with another woman, as long as he didn't get her pregnant somehow and I was there with them when it happened. And if he asked me to service another man, and if it was someone I found attractive, I would be willing. I just don't think that is likely in his nature and there are a lot of "ifs" involved. So most likely I will have to make do with my fantasies involving other people and leave it at that.
 
I think most wives would be surprised at how many husbands would be in favor of this. I think age has a part in this, as when you are younger your ego gets in the way with a lot of things in life. I know I was a bit of the jealous type those early years with my wife.

Now, when I see a man checking out my wife I enjoy it, as who would want someone that no one else wanted? I would be very open to my wife having another lover, as long as it was not done behind my back.

Life is short, so why limit our pleasure?
 
My wife and I have talked about it many times over the course of several years.

She just could not bring herself to do it.

We’re in this together and so we have decided not to move forward. 🫤
 
Not anymore? Why?
I let my wife have sex with anyone she desired as long as she told me all about it and it was only one date per man. She did it a few times, and when she turned 40 she decided to stop. She still has a free pass, but chooses not to use it. Most of her sex was with guys in their 20's, except for one 654 year old man who was fantastic. He was her last one.
 
My wife jumped at the opportunity. There was a series of events on both our sides that got us laying our cards on the table. We both wanted her to have sex with other men. By the end of the conversation, we decide to enter a hotwife lifestyle. She would fuck other men. I remain faithful.
Can you share why it was decided that she would get to have sex with other men, but you can't fuck other men?
 
I would absolutely love to be a hotwife, but my husband has zero interest in that type of arrangement. Even back when we were swinging, he much preferred for us to do our own thing separately. He never really seemed interested in seeing me do anything with other men. The few times that we swapped with other couples in the same room, he never really looked in my direction.
 
We have been swingers and are presently open. My wife has chosen not to date for a while now. I wish she would, honestly, but that’s her decision. I’ve never seen the appeal though of my wife seeing other men (or women) but me not having the same option to see other women.
 
I've tried to get my wife into this without success. I, like many guys here, would love to have her fuck another guy as long as she came home and told me all about it. We've been married for 37 years and I want her to experience someone other then me. I told her that it's not cheating if I want her to do it. She did agree to plan a trip to Hedo in the the future, so I'm hoping this might get her to explore the Lifestyle. I've have her read numerous stories here on Lit and told her this is what I want for us, but she says that she's not interested. Maybe one day...
 
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