A guy's pleasure, but guilt

[UtilityCurve]

Ugh. This is tough. Let me be brief.

I love anally penetrating my female partners. I love ejaculating inside them that way.

But every one of them, including those who encouraged me to ask to do it when I desired it, were upfront about the fact that there there was pain involved.

They said it was often over swiftly and they got pleasure not only from giving me pleasure but from their own bodies responding to anal penetration.

But since they never asked for it (even if they were willing to do it), I have felt, well, guilty or reluctant to ask.

Guys, I'm sure you have excellent first-person thoughts and experiences to share, but I really need to hear from the girls here. What do you want your guy to feel about this? 100% if anal is not your thing. It's certainly not every girl's. But for those who tolerate (or love!) offering it, can you tell me what is going through your mind as you do?

 

[Anythinggoesslutt]

Anal always hurts me. But, I still cum so hard from it knowing the guy I’m with likes it and is rock hard fucking my ass. It hurts but I want it.

 

[lily_wall_]

If I know I'm going to be with someone who's expecting anal then I open myself up a bit with butt plug before the meet. That eases the pain. And the reveal I'm wearing a butt plug and was thinking about him and preparing myself for him adds to his excitement, which in turn adds to my excitement

 

[secretthing]

If guys can manage to enjoy taking a dick in the ass, then girls can, too. And it doesn't necessarily have to hurt much! You've just got to go slow, use plenty of lube, and work her up to taking your dick. Start with fingers and work her until she's nice and relaxed and loose for you. Warm showers or baths help a lot to make things all nice and soft and pliant, at least for me. And there are plugs you can buy to help her work up to taking the full size of your cock!

 

[SweetCuriousDarling]

There's definitely some pain at first, but as long as he's mindful of my responses, once he's fully inside and we get going, the pain is short-lived. For me, the arousal comes from being able to give all of myself to him -- deny him no pleasure that can be derived from my person. Really, to deny *us* no experience that we can share together. It's incredibly intimate.

 

[strongnsensual]

SweetCuriousDarling, you are a treasure.

 

[FL30]

If guys can manage to enjoy taking a dick in the ass, then girls can, too. And it doesn't necessarily have to hurt much! You've just got to go slow, use plenty of lube, and work her up to taking your dick. Start with fingers and work her until she's nice and relaxed and loose for you. Warm showers or baths help a lot to make things all nice and soft and pliant, at least for me. And there are plugs you can buy to help her work up to taking the full size of your cock!

and if you think you have enough lube, you don't. lube, lube and then even more lube

 

[FL30]

my ex-wife loved anal. In fact, the first time we had sex, it was anal. She just flat out told me to, "fuck my ass."

 

[lovingpantyboy]

If I haven’t done it in a while or I’m not really expecting to do it, it can hurt a bit. But if we take it slow, maybe play with a finger or two, and use plenty of lube, it’s incredible and doesn’t hurt at all. It’s a different kind of pleasure, but my orgasms are so much more intense.

So no guilt needed with me, but work up to it

Slow and lots of lubrication is the key, no matter who’s receiving

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

Maybe you just need a smaller dick. While I have, my wife encouraged anal after a massage where I'd used a lot of lube and fingers before entry. And doing it from behind, she loved how my balls slapped against her pussy as she pushed back. It wasn't something we did often but we enjoyed the different closeness it brought.

 

[iamverylonely]

Women do not have a prostate! That's why men like it. It's an exit only for me. Too painful and frankly, gross.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

My husband and I have experimented with me wearing a butt plug but we never worked up to him actually sticking his cock up my ass. We might have if he was really into the idea of taking me like that, but he’s not so it’s not worth pushing through the pain.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I think a lot woman dont need full penetration. Theres tons of nerves around the opening and a gentle tease or finger running semi circles is a good start. My wife let me give her anal many years ago but I was gentle. However when I rub her clit, ill tease her ass at the same time and she says she loves it. The last time i did that my wife spurted out “oh yea fuck my ass! Shes a prude and never cusses. I didnt go in too deep, however it was pleasurable for her and it was just as hot doing that. I think sex needs to be enjoyable by all parties. If you really want to penetrate a tight ass, find some guy thats a bottom. If you can get over the taboo of same sex, its an incredible sensation. Ive had explosive orgasms in my buddies ass many many times. It feels better than pussy.
Theyll be nobody feeling guilty after, Just a guy being grateful.
Lately ive had the urge to be anally penetrated, if guys were honest, a lot of men would admit to wanting it. But like one poster said, a womans anatomy is different. Their G spot is in the other hole

 

[LMWM321]

Women do not have a prostate! That's why men like it. It's an exit only for me. Too painful and frankly, gross.

That's not necessarily true... There are men who've had a prostectomy due to prostate cancer who still enjoy receptive anal sex. ...And nor does it have to be gross. Yes, having anal with someone who has poop in their rectum is gross, but most people understand this and make sure they are "empty" up there before doing it. It's really no different than making sure there's no food in your mouth before giving head. My wife pegs me regularly and it is never messy. I'm only rarely invited to give her anal b/c I'm very girthy which would require too much prep/ stretching, etc.. But she loves anal penetration from a butt plug. ..She doesn't cum from it but it gets her very horny for PIV or receiving oral.

 

[strongnsensual]

Really, to deny *us* no experience that we can share together. It's incredibly intimate.

This really is one of the best parts of anal. The bodies joined in every possible way. Enmeshed in a way that, sadly, many people never get to experience. A gift of trust and acceptance, honored with patience, care, and consideration until I am left inside her to be absorbed into her body, permanently.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Women do not have a prostate! That's why men like it. It's an exit only for me. Too painful and frankly, gross.

HOw do you feel about stimulating a prostate.
On a man, obviously.

 

[tonyreid]

my ex wife loved anal sex in fact she would beg for it all the time ! She just loved the taboo nature I guess we used plenty of lube and took it slow to start with .Then she liked to be banged like a whore in heat

 

[Britva415]

Women do not have a prostate! That's why men like it.

Oh, right, the "male G spot?" Women have a real G spot, and it can be hit from inside the ass. Sure, the vagina is "in the way," but it kind of isn't, because it's hollow and flexible.

Source: Old girlfriend

 

[kevinbrighton]

my ex wife loved anal sex in fact she would beg for it all the time ! She just loved the taboo nature I guess we used plenty of lube and took it slow to start with .Then she liked to be banged like a whore in heat

And she's an "ex"!?

 

[tonyreid]

And she's an "ex"!?

yes but wife number 2 is even hotter kinkier and 11 years younger than me so all good lol

 

[kevinbrighton]

yes but wife number 2 is even hotter kinkier and 11 years younger than me so all good lol

I think I hate you

 

[tonyreid]

I think I hate you

so does my ex !! lol