Men who love SPH, would you trade up for a big dick given the chance?

Some very 'over-qualified' responders here! If you have 6", you aren't really "small" so SPH may not be a thing for you. As an owner/operator of a 'small' concern at nearly 4" I can say that, once I discovered how intense SPH can be, I'd not be inclined to go back to having 6" - which is where I started out before an undiagnosed hormone imbalance took effect in my 40s. A case of gradual diminishing returns. It may not be as fulfilling for my partner but I became very adept at tongue play. :D
 
Some very 'over-qualified' responders here! If you have 6", you aren't really "small" so SPH may not be a thing for you. As an owner/operator of a 'small' concern at nearly 4" I can say that, once I discovered how intense SPH can be, I'd not be inclined to go back to having 6" - which is where I started out before an undiagnosed hormone imbalance took effect in my 40s. A case of gradual diminishing returns. It may not be as fulfilling for my partner but I became very adept at tongue play. :D
4 is a nice size
 
I'm really into SPH myself and I have a penis on the smaller side (around 5" erect or just slightly less) . I don't have any hang ups about it and don't wish I was bigger.

Though I'll say one thing, my lady has a really big butt and I would probably benefit from having a couple of extra inches in length for penetration in certain positions better. Some positions my dick is simply way too short for.
I am into receiving mild SPH in the form of teasing, nothing overly mean. I am more than happy with my 4.5 inches hard. But I would certainly try for a brief period for the experience.
 
I'm into SPH, but if I could trade up to a big dick? I think I definitely would.

I do like SPH, I fantasize about it, read stories about it, and write stories about it! But if I had a big dick, I think it would be a blast as well. I used to be a cuck, by choice, but being a bull would be a lot of fun. With a big cock I would for sure try to sleep with some hotwives.

How about you? Would you stay small? Go big? Go even smaller? Would you pursue a different love life with your new cock?
I might pursue a love life with it. Ha.
 
Good to have permission, but will she help? There are some "stretching" exercises she might lend a hand with.
I could spend 24hrs a day doing stretching exercises and it's not going to help my cock grow. She's pulled sucked fucked and everything else to try, sadly she failed.
 
I could spend 24hrs a day doing stretching exercises and it's not going to help my cock grow. She's pulled sucked fucked and everything else to try, sadly she failed.
At least she is trying to help - winning! But perseverance counts so just keep trying! Either way it is a win. :giggle:
 
Id love to know what' it feels like to have a big swinging dick.
im not big but i do use a penis pump regular and after a short whilst with that its twice as thick. nice to feel it swinging a bit more and the heaviness of it mmmmmm
but i would like a big dick, if i could choose id say about 8 long and 6 around would be a good size.
 
im not big but i do use a penis pump regular and after a short whilst with that its twice as thick. nice to feel it swinging a bit more and the heaviness of it mmmmmm
but i would like a big dick, if i could choose id say about 8 long and 6 around would be a good size.
That’s an enormous size and would probably scare away lots of women. Nice to look at but I bet you wouldn’t want to live there. What are you now?
 
I’d trade up without doubt. I’m 5” on a good day. I privately like cuck porn/ hotwife etc, I’d never tell my wife, I doubt she’d try live out my fantasies even as a one off fucking a bigger guy.- so I’d trade up and live it.
 
This is a great question!

I'm of average cock size. As the saying goes, I've never had any complaints and never had trouble satisfying a woman (as far as I know) during intercourse.

I have heard from my wife that she and some of her friends have had issues before marriage with guys with big cocks hurting them. My wife has no desire for anything bigger than mine. Maybe it's the size of her vagina, but she acts like mine stretches her every time we have sex and claims I "hit bottom" and can go "too deep".

All of that said, I'm sure there are guys with big cocks who know how to use them without inflicting pain on their partners. And yes, I'd love to have a bigger cock. But, thinking about it, I say that mainly for those "locker room" moments. I know when I have seen a guy who had a bigger cock, I felt a little deficient. This is in spite of the fact that me and my average cock have done just fine with women. I think it's like seeing a body builder and being envious of the big muscles or an athlete and wishing to look like that. It really doesn't have much to do with sex. It's about self-image.

If I got my wish and had a bigger cock, I think my wife would like it less, not more. And that might mean less sex for me, so I'll stick with what God gave me and be happy.
 
Yes. I would have loved to have had a big cock. My dick is really small. All of my SPH fantasies are made of real humiliating, upsetting experiences. I have never made a woman cum with my penis, never really fucked a woman, never made her moan with joy and passion, never known what it is to be sexually desirable. That must be amazing. I've had to endure pity, tolerance, scorn, frustration, disappointment, humiliation, cheating. I have found intense erotic arousal in the fetish of 'small penis humiliation' and 'cuckoldry' but really, this is a desperate, lonely, onanistic, furtive, secretive expression of sexuality, jerking my tiny 3 inch dick in finger and thumb to fantasies and memories of shameful, painful rejection. I celebrate my fetish as my truth, my physical reality, my experience. But it is a poor consolation. I would prefer to be upstairs satisfying my wife, making her cum, filling her with my big cock than downstairs edging over femdom sph cuckold porn.
 
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