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Married men, how many of you (us) are living the straight married life with kids and a social group that would never guess that you once had sex with a buddy when you were younger?
What happened that led you to the experiences?
What did you do together?
How long did the “relationship” last?
How often do you think about what you did?
Did that experience make you fantasize about it still?
 
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Sure, everybody I know from "real life" would be shocked at my personal details.

My experience most responsive to your question arose over time. A friend and I talked about porn, then watched together, eventually got brave enough to j/o together.
He really loved oral, so eventually I helped him with that. I didn't really want to, but I was just being polite more or less. It's always nice to be able to do something another person enjoys, sex or otherwise. Anyway, after a while we both got accustomed to it.

Later we also tried frotting our cocks together with oil, and cumming that way. It doesn't matter what your sexuality is, that just feels damn good for anybody.

I wouldn't classify it as a "relationship", we're just friends who share some common hobby. I don't see it any differently from other friendships involving other hobbies.
 
Sure, everybody I know from "real life" would be shocked at my personal details.

My experience most responsive to your question arose over time. A friend and I talked about porn, then watched together, eventually got brave enough to j/o together.
He really loved oral, so eventually I helped him with that. I didn't really want to, but I was just being polite more or less. It's always nice to be able to do something another person enjoys, sex or otherwise. Anyway, after a while we both got accustomed to it.

Later we also tried frotting our cocks together with oil, and cumming that way. It doesn't matter what your sexuality is, that just feels damn good for anybody.

I wouldn't classify it as a "relationship", we're just friends who share some common hobby. I don't see it any differently from other friendships involving other hobbies.
Nice little adventure 😉
 
how many of you are living the straight married life with kids
I don't know... Me, I guess?

and a social group that would never guess
Oh.

Not me. I'm out (of the closet).

None of my sex with men was with "buddies." They were hookups.

Except for my boyfriend. Besides my wife, my longest LTR was with a man (4 years.)
 
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Sure, everybody I know from "real life" would be shocked at my personal details.

My experience most responsive to your question arose over time. A friend and I talked about porn, then watched together, eventually got brave enough to j/o together.
He really loved oral, so eventually I helped him with that. I didn't really want to, but I was just being polite more or less. It's always nice to be able to do something another person enjoys, sex or otherwise. Anyway, after a while we both got accustomed to it.

Later we also tried frotting our cocks together with oil, and cumming that way. It doesn't matter what your sexuality is, that just feels damn good for anybody.

I wouldn't classify it as a "relationship", we're just friends who share some common hobby. I don't see it any differently from other friendships involving other hobbies.
I want to frott two hard dicks.
I will be topless or naked.
A little nipple fun in your mouths or on your cocks.

Rubbing my breasts on your cum covered cocks and consuming all I can.
Sharing if you want a taste.

My fantasy
 
yes when I was young. I did learn how to jerk off with a friend. looking at his dads playboy he asked me if I ever jerked my cock. I told him no and then we both dropped our pants and looking at pictures and watching him I came with him. after that we got together almost every other day to play. we did jerk each other cock. once I let him put his cock in may ass. but most time we played with each others cock. once it was fun to hold both cocks together.
yes I think about it a lot now and I do miss playing like that
 
When I was a young teenager, my best friend Larry and I began jerking off together while watching his father's extensive collection of 8mm black and white stag films. As we watched, I would peek over to look at him masturbating, and I was struck by the immense disparity between our respective cock sizes. His erect cock was HUGE, while mine was, and still is, embarrassingly small. We once measured his cock as being over 8 1/2 inches long and THICK! while my inadequate penis, to this day still measures barely 3 inches and is quite thin FULLY ERECT! I would enviously watch him stroking his big, beautiful cock using both hands while I used my thumb and forefinger on mine. His cock compared favorably to those in the films we watched being sucked, and I wished that I could do to him what those girls were doing to their partners onscreen. Eventually, I asked for permission to be allowed suck his cock and he magnanimously agreed. We were delighted to have found our respective proper roles.
From that point onward, I served as his eager and willing personal Cocksucker and would give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he told me to, often 2 or more times that same day. With diligent practice and forceful persuasion on his part, I quickly became quite adept at sucking his cock, eventually managing to completely swallow it, taking it all the way down my throat and allowing him to vigorously fuck my throat until he ejaculated deep inside me! This immediately became our default method.
He wanted me to agree to let him tell our friends about our "arrangement" and to have me do to them what I was doing to him. He had taken numerous pictures of me, down on my knees, sucking his cock, using his father's Polaroid camera, and he wanted to take pictures of me doing the same them to add to his growing collection. Although I was tempted to agree, I was afraid that if I did, word would inevitably get out and I would be forever known as being the neighborhood cocksucker. I would routinely jerk off imagining that he had told them, in spite of my objections, while I imagined myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock and letting each of them hold my head and fuck my throat just as Larry did. I was certain that it was just a matter of time before he would tell everyone that I was a Cocksucker and I secretly looked forward to that eventuality. He never did tell them, but I often wish he had.
I continued being Larry's personal Cocksucker for more than 3 years until he moved to California to attend Stanford U. These early experiences form the basis of my sexual evolution and have motivated me in an attempt to recapture those exhilarating emotions of subjugation, humiliation and objectification that I grew to love.
I recently told my wife of many years about my early adventures. She was quite surprised, to say the least, but eventually attributed my same sex activities as merely youthful sexual experimentation, which I guess it was. I neglected to tell her that I'm still an insatiable Cocksucker and that I routinely meet with men to suck their cocks.
 
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When I was younger my oldest brother took my ass . It hurt but I got where I’d let him catch me with my underwear off or bent over after my shower . He’d take me again . Still today I remember how good it felt . He did that to me for over two years . He taught me to swallow him from time to time . I still love cock
 
I want to frott two hard dicks.
I will be topless or naked.
A little nipple fun in your mouths or on your cocks.

Rubbing my breasts on your cum covered cocks and consuming all I can.
Sharing if you want a taste.

My fantasy
What a wonderful image that has put in my head
 
Yes. I have been living the "straight married life" for almost 45 years now and love it. No one would guess that I had a homosexual relationship with a "buddy". However, my buddy was a much older man, my father's age, but we were truly friends.

What happened that led me to the experiences? He seduced me.
What did we do together? He was my personal cocksucker, and it would have been reciprocal, but he had ED.
How long did the “relationship” last? A couple of years until I got married.
How often do I think about what I did? Very often - as I get to recount my experiences here in the Literotica forums.
Did that experience make me fantasize about it still? Yes, because my wife has stopped being sexual.

I published an absolutely true story, except for the names, here on Literotica.com
Https://www.literotica.com/s/tribute-to-a-cocksucker
 
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I want to frott two hard dicks.
I will be topless or naked.
A little nipple fun in your mouths or on your cocks.

Rubbing my breasts on your cum covered cocks and consuming all I can.
Sharing if you want a taste.

My fantasy
Oh that's even better. We experienced doing this with a woman a few times, it was fantastic. I remember one instance just looking into her eyes the whole time, so mesmerizing! Our eyes stayed locked as my buddy's erection started to throb, and she and I both felt his load flowing out, down her hands and my cock.

She kept looking at me and just smiled. So sexy, I started cumming too, still gazing into her deep brown eyes. It felt exhilarating, letting her know that I was cumming from feeling another cock sliding and pulsing against mine. So exciting to be totally brazen and unashamed about this in front of a beautiful nude woman.
 
I want to frott two hard dicks.
I will be topless or naked.
A little nipple fun in your mouths or on your cocks.

Rubbing my breasts on your cum covered cocks and consuming all I can.
Sharing if you want a taste.

My fantasy
This is i i did as a young lad. It's burned into my memory, and I'd love to do it again. There was cum all over me.
 
This is i i did as a young lad. It's burned into my memory, and I'd love to do it again. There was cum all over me.
I love that young adults and college students are open enough to try all kinds of things.

I had one very brief same sex thing.
Neighbor across the street.
We kissed, played with each other's breasta. Didn't even get into each other's pants.

It strained our friendship forever.
 
I love that young adults and college students are open enough to try all kinds of things.

I had one very brief same sex thing.
Neighbor across the street.
We kissed, played with each other's breasta. Didn't even get into each other's pants.

It strained our friendship forever.
Open mindedness accounts for sooo many things. It's important to be that way.
 
Growing up in the 70's and 80's, we didn't have open-mindedness.
My ex is a transfer. She was wearing women's underwear when we married in 1986.

If open-mindedness were around, my life would be very different.

Good and bad, i am sure.
 
Married men, how many of you (us) are living the straight married life with kids and a social group that would never guess that you once had sex with a buddy when you were younger?
What happened that led you to the experiences?
What did you do together?
How long did the “relationship” last?
How often do you think about what you did?
Did that experience make you fantasize about it still?
I've always led a straight life, married with children, none of my work colleagues or friends would think I was bi-sexual.
Both my wives were aware of my "hobby". My first wife wasn't interested or curious about it just expected me to be discreet and clean. My second wife was interested and like the idea of seeing me in action but it never happened.
All my encounters were hook ups with random strangers, no long term relationships. Mostly mutual hand and blow jobs but I fucked a few in the arse. I was never the bottom, didn't appeal to me. When I think back I regret that and wish I'd been a little more liberal and tried it.
Started for me when i was about 30 with a guy I met and we started talking about porn which lead to mutual masturbation.
It's been a long while since I had an encounter but still have heaps of very happy memories of those magical moments.
 
Had a JO buddy wish I did more ! We stroked each other to completion! I think about it a lot now I wished I sucked his cock ! Looking to find a fwb married guy to explore with
We started with jerking. Then jerking each other, then cock sucking, suck with a couple fingers in each others assholes. We tried penetration, but we were ignorant as to how to get our dicks up our butts… no one know except my female lovers. They think its hot.
 
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