Sex With Married Others

[aya_amano]

I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.

 

[zach20092]

I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.

Well lucky him!! But I agree.. if the twain are willing mate they should!

 

[RReggie]

I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.

yes that is true- when you find someone and are attracted like that then getting together should be natural as both are just expressing their sexuality in the most open and honest way. People have so many reasons to connect in this way and normally there are no regrets. Only regrets are the opportunities missed.

 

[bijedi]

The only thing more enjoyable than another man fucking my wife is having some other woman's husband fuck me.

I love watching another man enjoy my wife's married pussy and her getting off on another man's cock.

But nothing beats giving another man what he can't get from his wife.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Ive slept with married men

 

[fshnassman]

I've slept with married others. It's intoxicating for me. Knowing that I am lusted for and desired enough they want to fuck me instead of their spouse makes me feel like a king and it drives my sexual desires off the chart. Sure it feeds my ego some, but who doesn't want to be desired with such fire? Who doesn't want to be the object of someone's desires? Who doesn't want to please someone who wants you so bad and receive their excited pleasure in kind, knowing that it is uninhibited? You're both giving into fantasy and desire. Everything is on the table because you both want it. You want to feel their heat. Feel them cum because this fantasy is coming together. Let them feel you cum for the same reason. Fuck yeah. This is why.

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

I've slept with married others. It's intoxicating for me. Knowing that I am lusted for and desired enough they want to fuck me instead of their spouse makes me feel like a king and it drives my sexual desires off the chart. Sure it feeds my ego some, but who doesn't want to be desired with such fire? Who doesn't want to be the object of someone's desires? Who doesn't want to please someone who wants you so bad and receive their excited pleasure in kind, knowing that it is uninhibited? You're both giving into fantasy and desire. Everything is on the table because you both want it. You want to feel their heat. Feel them cum because this fantasy is coming together. Let them feel you cum for the same reason. Fuck yeah. This is why.

Well said

 

[Sct73]

Ive slept with married men

Hey I’m married. Just saying

 

[screwher]

Honestly, I think married men are the ideal lovers for my wife. Chances are they would be only interested in Mrs. Screwher for the sex. If my wife is his only sex partner outside his marriage then he’s probably clean. So he can fuck her bare. And most importantly, our marital bed would be their best bet to have their sex. Hopefully giving me the opportunity to watch. If he’s not comfortable with that, then I can listen out in the hallway.

 

[RReggie]

Well said

Yes I definitely agree. Having some choose you and want repeated encounters with you even while their husband is watching is all very exciting. For me I am always ready and make sure my performance is at my very best and improving with each time. At first I was worried about the husband there but soon found that this is what he wanted too. So both chose and wanted me so obviously this was beneficial to both. If she didn't enjoy me then I wouldn't have been invited back so many times over 4 yrs.

 

[HampshireBoy]

Nothing better than being inside another man's wife, especially in their own bed. Like an animal marking it's territory

I had a long term FWB attangement with a married woman, we only once got together at their place and at that point their marriage was on the rocks. We didn't know it at the time, but he was most likely getting his end away with someone else that night. I enjoyed fucking her in their bed, TBH she was a wonderful lover so it was good with her wherever, but I did get nervous doing the night and put the chain on their front door in case he came home and caught us. No idea what I would have done, as they lived in an upstairs flat with no fire escape

 

[RReggie]

I had a long term FWB attangement with a married woman, we only once got together at their place and at that point their marriage was on the rocks. We didn't know it at the time, but he was most likely getting his end away with someone else that night. I enjoyed fucking her in their bed, TBH she was a wonderful lover so it was good with her wherever, but I did get nervous doing the night and put the chain on their front door in case he came home and caught us. No idea what I would have done, as they lived in an upstairs flat with no fire escape

Yes that can be nerve wracking for sure. I am sure you enjoyed other locations better. Hotels worked well for me over the years. The good thing about the married couple was I would share a coffee with them first thing then her and I would head off to the bedroom. He would join us to watch but always gave us some time to start making love. He would often leave the room to answer the door and would say his wife was still sleeping or out at that time. At other times he joined us. We were very comfortable with each other and his wife and I loved fucking each other for over 4 yrs. I was married as well.

 

[strongnsensual]

when you meet someone online and have a meeting of the minds and share sexual thoughts and desires it develops into a special bond and the sex becomes all about the wants and desires of two people on one level- the sex is spectacular.

Sign. Me. Up.

 

[seekingAlpha]

Some of my most memorable and kinkiest submissives were married. They mostly came from very vanilla marriages where their husbands would not try to embrace their submission or their kinks.

 

[Slickflboy07]

That's right. I'm married now, & just looking sex (more & better). But the same was true when I was single... only difference being, it was easier to find. While there are certainly many men who particularly desire a married woman, I think there are more men who don't want the complications of fucking a married woman (like, how angry would her husband get).

Opinion on Married men with married women?

 

[GoodnessO]

Opinion on Married men with married women?

I suppose married people might prefer to cheat with a married person, because it's less likely to interfere with their marriage. But for me, I think its a lot easier if my lover is single, so we can go to his place. I also don't want to be a potential cause of a marriage breakup, & I'd prefer to not cheat with my "sister's" partner. Girls need to stick together.

 

[Slickflboy07]

I suppose married people might prefer to cheat with a married person, because it's less likely to interfere with their marriage. But for me, I think its a lot easier if my lover is single, so we can go to his place. I also don't want to be a potential cause of a marriage breakup, & I'd prefer to not cheat with my "sister's" partner. Girls need to stick together.

Interesting point!

 

[Waiter519123]

Ive slept with married men

I’ve slept with married women

 

[CockSparrow]

I’ve slept with married women

I've been to bed with married women but, as I recall, we didn't get much sleep.

 

[Waiter519123]

I've been to bed with married women but, as I recall, we didn't get much sleep.

No sleep don’t talk about personal life nor give any personal information out. Just remember the both of you are here to fuck and nothing else. After a good long night of fucking. You both part your ways and never contact after that.

 

[GoodnessO]

No sleep don’t talk about personal life nor give any personal information out. Just remember the both of you are here to fuck and nothing else. After a good long night of fucking. You both part your ways and never contact after that.

No, I'm looking for regular hookups. I don't want to be constantly out on the prowl.

 

[CMChristo]

I'm married. If I'm going to step out (and I have several times), I prefer my partner be married, too. Hopefully we both understand the constraints of an extramarital relationship and can manage expectations. But, it is unbelievably erotic!

 

[Nicenashguy615]

A married woman in play is one of God's greatest gifts. She chooses you, you don't choose her. Single women have agendas, married women just want to have sex, good sex. Married women love their husbands and their marriage, so I never disrespect or denigrate the husband. Give her what she needs, kiss her and send her home to her husband and family

No truer words! I’ve had many married women and they are phenomenal! And all they want is to feel desired and loved.

Sure it’s harsh to say single women have an agenda but that’s ALWAYS been my experience. There’s a reason the expression, ‘shoulda put a ring on it’ is so often used. It’s never the goal of men. Only women say that. I love my wife but if I’m being honest, you chain yourself for life to a person that is only interested in meeting your physical needs for maybe twenty years. Yet they expect you to meet their needs for life.

 

[Sgts19]

I traveled for work for many years. Nice hotels big expense account there were always a lot of good looking woman doing the same. Some picked me up some I picked up. Many were married, the rings gave it away but seldom did the married part come up.

Always wondered if my wife ever did with all my traveling. If I was a betting man I'd say the odds are high that she did which is fine with me. Sex is sex then move on. Do you think its more common than what we think? I know everyone on this site talks about sex and its on our minds so who knows

 

[Nicenashguy615]

I traveled for work for many years. Nice hotels big expense account there were always a lot of good looking woman doing the same. Some picked me up some I picked up. Many were married, the rings gave it away but seldom did the married part come up.

Always wondered if my wife ever did with all my traveling. If I was a betting man I'd say the odds are high that she did which is fine with me. Sex is sex then move on. Do you think its more common than what we think? I know everyone on this site talks about sex and its on our minds so who knows

I’ve heard a thousand times, always from women, that men are FAR more prone to cheating. Nothing could be further from the truth! I’ve slept with a dozen married women and most of them got that ball rolling. It was never me wearing them down.

And I worked thirty years in law enforcement so tons of women in the agency. Plus, that industry has no secrets so everyone knows their coworkers habits. Out of all those women, I am hard pressed to think of five who didn’t cheat. Everybody was fucking one another. And since everyone also dated and married from that same pool of people, scandals were fucking nonstop! Like a damn soap opera. Hell, I can think of one lady who used to soapbox preach constantly about the sanctity of marriage and how cheating was evil. She had a years long affair blow up when her husband (another cop) caught her on her back. It was ugly!

So yeah, everyone is more than capable of giving in to temptation. I applaud the ones who don’t but never pretend one gender is somehow above that. And after all, it’s just sex.