How Do You Masturbate?

[CdKimMajick]

Depends. If I want to make myself really horny before I jerk off I wear my butt plug for a while. Then I take my dildo and fuck myself. Sometimes I can make myself cum without touching my cock.

Other times if I am in the mood for some videos I find some trans or femboy porn and slowly play with myself as I watch it wishing it was me getting fucked.

I also found some crossdresser books that I read and slowly rub myself til I get horny enough to jerk it.

I always clean my cum up with my fingers and lick it off.

 

[Ggnlee]

I masturbate solo using many techniques. I like using baby oil and having a slow stroke watching porn. Usually with an anal toy in me. When with the wife she picks my niples and talks dirty whilst I stroke.

Would love a wank buddy but would never know how to approach the subject with people I know.

 

[EdgySubMic]

Many years ago, before cell phones and cameras everywhere, I would go for naked walks in my neighborhood. These outings where always in the middle of the night. I would leave my house naked and hard. When I'm aroused, my inhibitions are almost non existent. I would walk as far as I could and still feel somewhat safe. I would jerk off as I walked, trying to hold off cumming too soon. When I couldn't hold back, I would have the most intense orgasms. The excitement of being outdoors, a few blocks from home and totally naked just made the experience so amazing.
After I cum, I lose all of my sexual bravado. I'm naked, outside, a few blocks from home and I'm like a little boy needing his mother's protection. I walk quickly to get back home, but it seems to take forever and I am afraid that I might get caught. Once I'm safely inside my house, I calm down and begin to plan for my next late night adventure.
The risk, the excitement, the release and the fear are almost addictive and I just have to do it again.

Sounds very familiar - including the "many years ago" bit.

I used to have access to a house about 3 km (2 miles) from very large area consisting of a mix of woods and open fields. Leaving naked from that house was not an option, as it was right at the center of a village on a somewhat busy road, but I did, a few times, get into my car wearing only the absolute minimum textile that I then took off before even starting to drive.

Anyway, my normal way of "working" was to drive to that area at night, wearing only a (mostly unbuttoned) shirt, old pants that were a bit too wide for me, and shoes – usually no socks. After parking my car, I'd set off for a circular hike, the planned length of which was a function of the time available. While hiking, I’d "wait" for my pants to drop down to my feet – which is why I'd not be wearing underwear, since I wanted my pants to fall at some random point and not get stuck in need of “help”. Once they’d have dropped, I had a self-imposed rule to fully undress and hide (or “hide”) my clothes and also shoes at that very location, before continuing the planned hike, getting hornier all the time. Whenever I felt like it, I’d “do my thing”; descend into “naked and afraid” mode; complete the tour to where I left my car – which could be at a very long distance; and then start the next round in order to recover my clothes – often being scared that I would not find them, as I might unknowingly walk right past them in the dark; or as some wildlife might have displaced them; or… I figured that in the worst case I'd just have to wait for sunlight to come back – but of course the very worst case would have been to not find them even then, or to be seen beforehand. The thrill of that risk was part of the kick and I never prepared a backup plan for it. As it was, I did always find my clothes, albeit occasionally with some panicked searching, after which I’d walk back to my car, still naked but feeling safe(r). The one precaution I did take, was to leave my car key in a safe location near my car, so in the worst case I’d still be able to drive home naked and try to figure out how to get inside unseen, using whatever was in the car as a cover. I never had a set of backup clothes with me – although I should have.

That house has been sold long ago. Where I live, this kind of thing would be very hard to pull off (pun intended ). There's only a small piece of woodland nearby and much of it is camera guarded.

Anyway, masturbation without prior approval is now a forbidden activity for me and I do my best to obey my owner in that respect.

(I’ll comment on actual techniques in a separate post.)

 

[EdgySubMic]

Anyway, my normal way of "working" was ...

I'll add the scariest bit that happened...

This was during some major football tournament – Europe, or World, I don't remember. I just remember that my home country team was playing that evening very late, so I was sure there'd be nobody out there in the woods. I'd also set out a bit earlier than usual because of that, and had planned a longer than usual tour.

I was already in the "naked and afraid" part of the hike, still being some 4 km (2.5 miles) away from my car. I wanted to use the opportunity to explore a road I'd never taken before, walk that one to its end and back, and then continue my planned hike to my car. Soon, I found myself walking in a semi-open area: wide open downhill fields to my right and a wood to my left, at a distance of some 50 meters (yards). It was a very moonlit night. Suddenly, a piece of blue-white fireworks shot through the sky, coming from dead ahead straight, horizontally shooting along the border of the wood next to me, and illuminating me brightly. Oh-almighty-shit! There must be some people dead ahead, at less than 100 meters, where the road turned into the wood. And, surely, they must have seen me coming – likely even before they launched that thing, but definitely later on. I quickly ran back to the next crossing and, being afraid that somebody might be following me, decided not to use the normal road in the direction of my car, but instead to use a small and steeply uphill wood path that I considered safer, but that did require an additional 1 km. When I felt sufficiently safe that I was not being followed (anymore?), I ended up "doing my thing" a second time that night. A happy ending of some sorts...

 

[EdgySubMic]

(I’ll comment on actual techniques in a separate post.)

So here goes:

I very much prefer(ed) to be completely naked, but have done otherwise as well – when you gotta go, you gotta go...

I've used multiple techniques over time, hands on, carpet rubbing, electro, ... self-inflicted CBT until..., ... However, most of the time, I didn't want to deal with the resulting mess; nor have my mother see the stains during the period when she still did my laundry (long after I moved out to a small city apartment, with no washing machine of my own). For a long time in my life, outdoors was not much of an option either. Too complicated, too much preparation needed, ....

So, I developed a technique of my own that allows me to trap my semen inside my (long) foreskin. This actually started out before I was able to cum, when it was "only" a way to cause pain that felt very good. The added benefit is that I can't remain erect while using this method, which partly "kills" the orgasm – very appropriate for a submissive.

Anyway, as mentioned before, masturbation without prior approval is now a forbidden activity for me and I do my best to obey my owner in that respect.

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

Normally in bed, but when I was younger I would masturbate on the sofa after people had gone to bed. In those days I'd use sharpies or makeup brushes to feel the contractions of my pussy. Generally I prefer clit stimulation for masturbation. I still gravitate to filling my pussy with Sharpies but I also have rabbits and vibes. My favourite toy is my clit sucker. I can cum in under 3 minutes I reckon! If I know I'm going to squirt I'll go to the bathroom (easier clean up!). Sometimes I listen to audios, read stories or watch videos.

 

[Love_To_Be_Sleazy]

Totally naked, dim lit quiet room, usually in my recliner, slow dry stroke until my precum starts flowing then my precum becomes lube. I do not usually masturbate to porn , I just enjoy the feeling of my own hard cock in my hand exploring my body. I don't go for the gusto right away, I like taking my time . My record so far , non stop slow jerking single orgasm is about five hours. Off and on tease and denial edge goon sessions around 8 hours, with multiple orgasms that can go 10 to 12 hours or more

 

[slipprywenwet]

I have always been into being watched as I masturbate, and I'd go so far as to posit that living in Manhattan tends to breed exhibitionists and voyeurs as many of us have neighboring high rises surrounding our own and there are many, many windows to look in to, and to be seen from The idea of being watched has always excited me to no end! Well there always is an end, and although the cleanup can be a chore, it's always worth it!
https://vlix.io/video/9b8153e0047536c9f541/

Your video is 7 beautiful minutes... good fortune for NYC voyeurs

 

[NightBirdNYC]

Your video is 7 beautiful minutes... good fortune for NYC voyeurs

Thanks so much for the lovely compliment! And I’m always happy to share
https://vlix.io/video/c84d5239d1a12a4f7187/

 

[Vivian251]

That’s a fascinating question, and definitely an interesting way to dive into the different techniques! For me and my boyfriend, we have a bit of a routine that we enjoy,he’ll use a vibrating cock ring while I control the intensity with the remote. At the same time, I’ll use a vibrator on myself, and we love just watching each other, really getting into the moment. We usually end up holding each other close, which makes the experience even more intense, and we both finish at the same time. There’s just something about being that connected and in sync,it’s definitely a favorite for both of us!

 

[Oyster69]

I have a few things I enjoy. First, my nipples are very sensitive, and I love playing with them when I masturbate. I touch them gently at first, and then get more aggressive with them as I become more aroused, pulling, pinching, and twisting them. I also like to fuck my ass sometimes with my fingers or with a toy. My favorite toy has a suction cup base and vibrates. I like to ride it while I play with my nipples, jack my cock, and watch myself in a full-length mirror until I cum hard. I usually talk dirty to myself the whole time. I like to have someone watch me masturbate as well, and I enjoy watching, too.

Well, that got my cock hard and leaky!

 

[ShyCocksucker]

Wearing a babydoll nightie, panties, and stockings, using a pocket pussy (pussy on one end, mouth on the other), sucking my thick 8" dildo (for oral use only), watching porn (usually straight oral cumshot compilations, CEI, sissy hypno, trans, and/or BBC stuff)... I fill up the pocket pussy with my cum, set it aside, do something non-masturbatory while I wait, letting the load reach room temperature. Then I make out with the mouth end of the pocket pussy, letting my room temperature cum roll into my mouth and I savor the texture and taste (delicious!) before putting the dildo back in my mouth, keeping my cum there, putting the pocket pussy back to work, ejaculate, and if I'm in the mood, repeat the whole process. I did it five times in the span of a couple hours recently. Since I started eating my own cum a few months ago (finally very much over my earlier reluctance), I've become absolutely addicted. All my free time these days seems to be finding mostly BBC-themed JPEGs and GIFs and storing them in a file to watch as a slide show while I jack off. Porn has turned me into a totally cock-crazed sissy (while maintaining my lifelong facade of total masculinity by day).

 

[hulmule]

Well, i get naked, and warm up coconut oil when i can.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

As an exhibitionist living in a high rise surrounded by others, I enjoy leaving my curtains open when I masturbate
https://vlix.io/video/c84d5239d1a12a4f7187/

 

[PersonalFavors]

Well, i get naked, and warm up coconut oil when i can.

I got a jar of coconut first press coconut oil as that was what a masseuse said she used. My first test was luckily in the shower. I dug out a small blob out on my fingertips which readily melted. It worked came so quick my dick wasn’t all the way hard yet.
So my question is what kind of soap washes coconut off. At first. Every thing was slick, then oily then tacky. The tile floor of the shower remained slippery until I washed it

 

[hulmule]

It good for your skin, but just regular soap does it... As the saying goes, its my bar of soap and i'll use it as fast as i want ... something that= my version lol

 

[PersonalFavors]

It good for your skin, but just regular soap does it... As the saying goes, its my bar of soap and i'll use it as fast as i want ... something that= my version lol

Yes it does eventually. But it takes more than one wash to get that tacky feeling off. I put lotion on after the shower helped.

 

[hulmule]

Yes it does eventually. But it takes more than one wash to get that tacky feeling off. I put lotion on after the shower helped.

Never had an issues, matter a fact i use it for lotion in the winter cause skins so dry

 

[wankerholic42]

I simply use baby oil, both on myself or another guy’s cock if I’m giving him a handjob. Nothing like a slurpy (the sound) and oily wank!

 

[SCRob95060]

Naked, sitting on the floor legs apart, mirror in front of my cock. I’m watching as I stroke and wait for my load to shoot the mirror

 

[SCRob95060]

Preferably with a friend, I believe in the buddy system

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

As an exhibitionist living in a high rise surrounded by others, I enjoy leaving my curtains open when I masturbate
https://vlix.io/video/c84d5239d1a12a4f7187/

So, you must the one I saw when I looked out my window the other night. No wonder the condo prices have been going up in my building recently. :devil

 

[NightBirdNYC]

Haha! The market is hot!

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

I'm a bisexual woman with a casual bf/fuckbuddy. He doesn't know how I masturbate or that I write erotica so it's kind of fun thinking about posting the details here. I get off in the middle of the day while I write & my flatmates aren't home, but not while I write for my jobs (freelance tech writer, not sexy stuff). I prefer to do it alone, I'm very much 'in my own head' when I do it. I only have sex a couple of times a week but I get myself off at least once a day (except when I'm mid-period). I like that I can 'multitask' while I'm alone & it's only about me.

My home's across the road from a sports field, & my largest bedroom window looks right into it (where people are always jogging, playing football etc). I like doing it with my curtains open (although nobody would be able to tell what I'm doing from out there).

I've never enjoyed fingering myself, I find devices work better & keep my hands clean & allow me to do other things (maybe it's because I have ADHD). I have a few different vibrators, but my faves are the 'wearable' ones (I'll add the Amazon page of the kind I use the most, although I bought mine from a physical shop). I'm usually fully dressed & lie face down on my bed with my laptop in front of me. I grind my cunt against a pillow. Often I'll switch off the pulsing action, & only have the clit vibration running, the motion of grinding allows me to control the thrusting penetration with my hips. If I really get into it I'll sometimes roll up my top so my nipples grind against the bedspread (my tits are small so I get away with going bra-less around the house).

The last time I was in a committed long-term relationship with a man (a few years ago) we lived next door to a nice old guy in his 70s who lived alone & didn't have any friends/family. Sometimes we'd fuck with the curtains open so the old man could watch. We got so used to it there wasn't any 'performance' but it felt amazing knowing there was an audience. A few times he (the old man) tried to convince me to let him have a go & it became uncomfortable telling him no all the time & my bf had a word with him to stop pestering me. We broke up a few years later, about issues that had nothing to do with our sex life (he wanted kids, I didn't, he's now married with a nearly-2-yo) & last year I went to the old neighbour's funeral (& he left us both a little money in his will, which we hadn't expected). I'm not interested in letting anyone else watch me fuck anymore, but I do really love having the curtains open when I'm getting myself off & being able to look up & watch people going about their everyday lives. Although no one knows I'm rolling my hips with a vibrator in my pussy under my leggings or shorts. It's very relaxing & when I'm writing erotica I hope it comes through in the prose. I've been thinking about writing a story about my ex lately, we'll see. Got a few stories on the burner already. Anyway - if there are any women (or people looking for something to get a woman or anything) you can find my fave vibe on Amazon (of course, every woman's different & this might not be the exact right one for her). But I really like this type & highly recommend it, especially for the 'smaller' ladies out there.

https://www.amazon.com/Generic-Butterfly-Masturbator-Vibrators-Remotecontrol/dp/B0D31JJRK4?th=1

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

PS: not plugging that vibe because I have anything to do with the sales of it or anything, it's not 'affiliated' or sponsored or whatever. I have no idea about the seller or if they're reliable (I got mine from a physical location that's unrelated to Amazon). It was just the easiest way for me to convey which type I find best for my particular wank.