Cock Talk

[MindYaBitness]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope, I've never drank. However, I also don't really need/want to relax before sex. I want to fully aware & engaged

What is your drink of choice?

Diet Coke, and when I'm feeling really dangerous, a RedBull w/Blackberry syrup from Dutch.

What kind of drunk are you?

I'm not sure I want to find out. One brother is an angry drunk, the other is super sweet & happy. I think it's best I don't show how big of a slut I can be I just don't go there.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

N/A

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

N/A, though whilst accidentally megadosed on so.e synthetic gummies, I did announce to a group that I intended to return to the hotel room & ride my spouse raw

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

N/A though, I did find out that some painkillers make it impossible to orgasm, does that count?

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I don't really experience social anxiety. As long as my outfit is appropriate & I feel put together, I'm pretty comfortable in any social situation.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

Zero. I'm game to try pretty much anything, if my partner's into it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Take my wife, please.



Every now and then I wander into the Fetish & Sexuality forum. I am surprised how many threads there are about a guy seeing his wife have sex with another man. Especially because, it seems, most of the interest is on the guy’s side of watching the sex and not the wife who would be getting the sex.

This topic interests me from a purely anthropological angle.

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

He has loved seeing me. But i really have no desire to see him. Though I have.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

Been there. Done that. With both sexes.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

I used to have a pretty strong bitchy side where I wanted to tie him up, make him watch. I don't really have that in me anymore.

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

my husband says he's not sure he can answer that now. It's been a while. He said probably just the thrill of seeing me get pleasured.

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

He didn't care all that much when it was another woman. He said it was too overwhelming.

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

He'd prefer the guy. Again for my pleasure.

(I realize not all of these questions apply to everyone, feel free to answer whatever works for you and anything I didn’t think of asking)

Couldn't resist this set.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?
No. I like to be sober and fully in the month.

What is your drink of choice?
Craft beer (dark/malty) or an Old Fashioned are my go-tos

What kind of drunk are you?
Very sloppy

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
Silly. Reserved. I rarely will go past a light buzz because I don't enjoy the feeling.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?
Got my tits out to win a beer skulling/chugging contest

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?
Yeah. I don't remember tbh.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?
I just do it scared.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?
None. I have learnt unless I want something when I'm sober I shouldn't do it drunk.

 

[Lmizzler]

The Alcohol Lick

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Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Not really. Occasionally but it isn't really a scheduled thing, just happens

What is your drink of choice?

I'm not picky but I'll generally go with a beer or whiskey/bourbon. Occasionally a mixed drink like an old fashion or moscow mule.

What kind of drunk are you?

I don't drink to get drunk. Never have and probably never will. I enjoy the relaxation that comes with just a little bit of alcohol but I have no desire to drink to excess.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Depends on the day. I've experienced all of the above but mostly horny and confident.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

N/A but like others have said, I think it would be the same either way.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

No, I don't drink enough to get to that point. I want to remember and enjoy the whole experience so that would just jeopardize it.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I'm pretty comfortable in most scenarios but a drink does generally help to relax a person who is feeling anxious or stressed. I've had a drink on occasion for that very reason when going to a social event that was outside my normal comfort zone(for example - a work networking event - which generally has alcohol at it anyway)

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

I'd be lying if I didn't say that alcohol doesn't lower your inhibitions. So even just a little can be enough to cause you to consider something you wouldn't normally. Pour me a bourbon and lets see what happens.

 

[hotwords229_A]

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

 

[Apisto42]

The Alcohol Lick

https://64.media.tumblr.com/4db8dbfdf35d7a5b70ac903ed98b2760/214c78ae01e2f6af-6a/s400x600/076aca5593a5d7de35f0a5e9bdbcecde7de917cb.gif

Best gif yet.

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope.

What is your drink of choice?

G&T or French 75 if I feel like going to trouble of making it.

What kind of drunk are you?

Laid back.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Depends on whether I’m day drinking, how many people I’m with and whether I like the people I’m with.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

It was all a long time ago and I’d rather not remember most of it.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

lol. Yes. It was awful.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

Remember that I’m a Prince of the Realm and I’m all that.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

None. I’d rather be sober and enjoy it.

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

I’d drink with the gif girl and become an alcoholic if she did to my cock what she’s doing to that bottle. Also, she’s got great tits.

 

[MindYaBitness]

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

https://i.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExdTRpZWttaHFhbWt3b2xubHBjb29qamt5d2phbTNpd21pcWk1eDNvYyZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/CQavtw1s4zjs4/giphy.gif

 

[Wand3rlust]

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

no.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

n/a but, if i had a partner and they did, then.... depending on some good discussion before I'd be down for that.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

see above.

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

From the discussions I've had, it's either a cuckold thing they get of on, or, a pride thing. 'Look at the woman I have, I'm not worthy yet she still goes home with me'
'Look at the woman I have, I'll share her with you, but she's ultimately mine and still goes home with me.'

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

n/a

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

I'm open to discussion.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

I can't remember... but no. I've not needed it.

What is your drink of choice?

depends. Gin, prosecco, cocktails...

What kind of drunk are you?

depends. Mostly the life and soul of the party.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

a  few drinks will make me none of those things. A  LOT of drinks will make me any number of those things. But only red wine makes me maudlin.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

from memory, sex outside a block of shared holiday balconies along side a quite well used path to get to the front of the apartments.
Also, probably some other thing I don't remember. I don't drink like that often. But every once in a while, my brain loses the ability to make new memories. Those aren't always fun mornings to wake up.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Yes. it's shit. (for me anyway)

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I dont  need alcohol. But I have enjoyed it. if there's music in the air and lots of loving everywhere.... anyway. If there's music and dancing I'm good.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

Hmm.. I'd like to think I'd go into almost everything sober enough to make the right decision.

 

[MedicalMuse]

The breast I could do.

https://64.media.tumblr.com/6dc94e372462f454d52e5165ea543e1d/c0a5fa5c88a083a9-d0/s540x810/cba74d6a31328c6d377b03fa3608101071580cfa.gif

I went through a scary time in my life where I thought I might never get to see Lily James’ boobs.
But I believed in myself, I worked hard at it and I made it. I’m basically an American hero.

Who did you or do you want to see naked?

Someone very particular

Was it worth it?

I never got to, and I really feel at this point it was probably much better for us both.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Take my wife, please.

https://64.media.tumblr.com/de305a6c94a9d76e23187688741e681a/1d1a89b0cc4d1286-8d/s1280x1920/e972f7f7403b1d2cc13502cb7cf39f73c14c102d.jpg

Every now and then I wander into the Fetish & Sexuality forum. I am surprised how many threads there are about a guy seeing his wife have sex with another man. Especially because, it seems, most of the interest is on the guy’s side of watching the sex and not the wife who would be getting the sex.

This topic interests me from a purely anthropological angle.

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

Wasn’t another man, but it was interesting at the time.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

Welll, there’s a story there.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

Nope. Been there done that. I think it leads to some rampant insecurity when you or your partner maybe feel like the grass is greener, yeah?

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

My dude has watched me have sex with both another man and another woman. And then all of us kind of together. I think it was really the novelty

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

He definitely liked the girl girl action.

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

I’m not entirely sure. Since it’s been done, I’m not sure if there is any appeal anymore.

(I realize not all of these questions apply to everyone, feel free to answer whatever works for you and anything I didn’t think of asking)

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

The Alcohol Lick

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She seems fun. I'd like to be friends with her

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Not always, but you did say generally soooooooo yeah

What is your drink of choice?

I'll always order a long island iced tea at a restaurant/bar. It tells me so much about the bartender.
At home? Margs or whiskey
At a gathering? Beer or wine

What kind of drunk are you?

The best

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

My research indicates that it enhances the mood that you are in as you imbibe. So it can be any of those things.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

I haven't but I worry that it's going to possibly occur as I approach the tender age of 28. <cough>

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

An orgy or public sex would take a few. It depends on what the drinks are? I'd want a buzz but not SO much that I'm out of it. I want to be present and remembering it

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

A  LOT of drinks will make me any number of those things.

Here's to #1,2, and 6. Maybe a little of #4

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Pour me a bourbon and lets see what happens.

*there's no bourbon emoji*

 

[Lmizzler]

*there's no bourbon emoji*

 

[SassySheDevil]

The Alcohol Lick



Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

No. I want to remember it and enjoy it.

What is your drink of choice?

I don't drink a lot since being a diabetic. But typically foo foo drinks.

What kind of drunk are you?

happy. Touchy feely, horny. Sad on occasion.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Same as above.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Sexual..i once had some pretty aggressive anal sex. That's really about it.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

oh I'm sure there's been once or twice. But I was nice and the next day told him it was fantastic lol

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I don't really take anything. I can have horrible anxiety and social situations. But I really don't take anything to relax me. Most occasions that I would want that relaxation require driving home.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

Again I don't think I would want to be drunk or need something to relax me.

 

[cactusjack0584]

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

I haven’t drank in almost 7 years

 

[MedicalMuse]

The Alcohol Lick

https://64.media.tumblr.com/4db8dbfdf35d7a5b70ac903ed98b2760/214c78ae01e2f6af-6a/s400x600/076aca5593a5d7de35f0a5e9bdbcecde7de917cb.gif

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope. Sex for me needs to be unmuddled.

What is your drink of choice?

Bourbon when I drink

What kind of drunk are you?

Indiscriminately affectionate

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Chatty and flirty.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Oh many of my sexual adventures have occurred while buzzed. I prefer not to mix alcohol and sex these days

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Oh goodness. No. The opposite. I can be super turned on and it’ll take forever to cum. That’s annoying. Sometimes.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I’m not socially anxious…

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

I am game for many things, no drinking necessary

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I can't even flirt in millennial

 

[hotwords229_A]

He definitely liked the girl girl action.

Hot damn!

Sexual..i once had some pretty aggressive anal sex. That's really about it.

I bet he was walking funny for a week!

 

[hotwords229_A]

Best gif yet.

She seems fun. I'd like to be friends with her

It really is one of the best gifs ever. She is basically a miracle.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I can't even flirt in millennial

I find that seductively winking, playing it cool while I introduce myself, and shaking my boobies, is usually sufficient

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It really is one of the best gifs ever. She is basically a miracle.

Uh, I think I'm the best gif...

https://i.ibb.co/3M0gF0P/1000017338.gif

 

[MindYaBitness]

Uh, I think I'm the best gif...

https://i.ibb.co/3M0gF0P/1000017338.gif

The only way this could be better is if your gold crocks were in frame

 

[deft]

Uh, I think I'm the best gif...

I love peek-a-boob!