I spent some time on Grindr as an experiment because I have always been curious about it. Some transgender friends of my girlfriend are on it and I wondered how it worked for transgender women and their admirers. (No, my girlfriend was not on Grindr - she said she has never used it preferring Tinder when she was looking.)
My observations about Grindr:
1. It’s about sex and hookups. I am not knocking hookups - my girlfriend and I originally got together for sex and then found love. Nevertheless on Grindr it’s sex 24x7. It gets a little depressing reading profile captions like “Want cock now” or “Fuck my ass” but each to his own.
2. Dick pics. Why do guys think that the ideal conversation opener is a dick pic? Really? That’s all you got? I don’t even know your name but there it is - your boner. Gee thanks! I have never seen one before!
3. Transphobia. Even the gay guys are fucking transphobic. They can’t seem to understand that a person can have a cock and still be a woman. This surprised me - I expected more open mindedness.
4. No one reads your profile. In my caption I said, no men trans only. So what do I get? Hordes of gay men who either can’t read or hope it’s a mistake or that I can be persuaded by that lovely dick pic.
5. Why does everyone think I am a top? I said in my profile that I am a bottom but 90% of the people messaging me were bottoms looking for tops. Do I look like a top? Is it just wishful thinking?
6. It was fun for a couple of weeks but I don’t miss it. Seen enough cocks.
My observations about Grindr:
1. It’s about sex and hookups. I am not knocking hookups - my girlfriend and I originally got together for sex and then found love. Nevertheless on Grindr it’s sex 24x7. It gets a little depressing reading profile captions like “Want cock now” or “Fuck my ass” but each to his own.
2. Dick pics. Why do guys think that the ideal conversation opener is a dick pic? Really? That’s all you got? I don’t even know your name but there it is - your boner. Gee thanks! I have never seen one before!
3. Transphobia. Even the gay guys are fucking transphobic. They can’t seem to understand that a person can have a cock and still be a woman. This surprised me - I expected more open mindedness.
4. No one reads your profile. In my caption I said, no men trans only. So what do I get? Hordes of gay men who either can’t read or hope it’s a mistake or that I can be persuaded by that lovely dick pic.
5. Why does everyone think I am a top? I said in my profile that I am a bottom but 90% of the people messaging me were bottoms looking for tops. Do I look like a top? Is it just wishful thinking?
6. It was fun for a couple of weeks but I don’t miss it. Seen enough cocks.