Are there unwritten rules to having an affair with someone at work? I have read some evil comments from both men and women and i wondered?
What happens when it ends? And it has to end, they all do. Does she/he get mad that it ended? I know what you are going to say, "depends on how it ended". Please tell me how a break up ends nicely? Isnt that the definition of a break up?? Why does he have to be a dick and show others the pictures that he took? Why does she have to be a bitch and try to claim sexual harassment? Cant 2 people have an work affair, get their jollies, and then move on without beating up the other person? When she says she is done, why does he have to continue to push her into yet another blowjob in the back warehouse? When he is done, why does she threaten to tell everyone from boss to wife?
Or is the answer not to even start one because you never know how the other person is going to behave?
Are there real life experiences out there that ended mutually? You both agreed that it should end for whatever reason and continued to keep what you had a secret. What do you all think about the person that "breaks the rules of secrecy "? When a guy decides to have sex with a coworker, an affair lets say, does he think that it is going to last 100 years? Really? Ok, you both got drunk at the weekend junket and had an incredible time in the sack. Yes, you have wanted her. Yes she has not been shy about her desires. Yes, you both are married. (I am not even going to address that one, lets just move past it and say you are and you cheated, period.) You have to know that she is not going to leave her husband, home, kids, and life to be with you. You also have to know that this cannot continue forever.
And you, ok, you have been attracted to him forever. When you first saw him you just smiled. And on that one Wednesday when you both worked a half day and ended up naked together, did you think he was going to leave his wife and life to be with you? Did you?
What do you think about the woman who threatens him with exposure if she doesnt get her way? What do you think about the man who threatens to expose her unless she continues?
Did they break any unwritten rules???
What happens when it ends? And it has to end, they all do. Does she/he get mad that it ended? I know what you are going to say, "depends on how it ended". Please tell me how a break up ends nicely? Isnt that the definition of a break up?? Why does he have to be a dick and show others the pictures that he took? Why does she have to be a bitch and try to claim sexual harassment? Cant 2 people have an work affair, get their jollies, and then move on without beating up the other person? When she says she is done, why does he have to continue to push her into yet another blowjob in the back warehouse? When he is done, why does she threaten to tell everyone from boss to wife?
Or is the answer not to even start one because you never know how the other person is going to behave?
Are there real life experiences out there that ended mutually? You both agreed that it should end for whatever reason and continued to keep what you had a secret. What do you all think about the person that "breaks the rules of secrecy "? When a guy decides to have sex with a coworker, an affair lets say, does he think that it is going to last 100 years? Really? Ok, you both got drunk at the weekend junket and had an incredible time in the sack. Yes, you have wanted her. Yes she has not been shy about her desires. Yes, you both are married. (I am not even going to address that one, lets just move past it and say you are and you cheated, period.) You have to know that she is not going to leave her husband, home, kids, and life to be with you. You also have to know that this cannot continue forever.
And you, ok, you have been attracted to him forever. When you first saw him you just smiled. And on that one Wednesday when you both worked a half day and ended up naked together, did you think he was going to leave his wife and life to be with you? Did you?
What do you think about the woman who threatens him with exposure if she doesnt get her way? What do you think about the man who threatens to expose her unless she continues?
Did they break any unwritten rules???