My hands are shaking as I type this...

[TexasKatie]

Seems like you're coming out of your shell at quite an enticing rate! I love your second picture over on your ampics thread; can't wait to see the third! Sexiest "Texas Kevin" I've ever seen!

haha quite the resume lines I'm earning here. Best naughty personal ad, sexiest Texas Kevin lol

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

haha thanks...figured it was two birds, one sexy lil' stone...smack down the haters and doubters and have some naughty fun at the same time.

That is definitely two very female breasts in that photo, gloriously free of surgical enhancement. Thank you, Mother Nature!

Are you still looking for someone to provide you with guidance and direction, or have you satisfied this particular itch?

 

[melimelissa]

bump

I hope you find your
kingpin to look up to and
to enjoy: have fun

Méli

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-ARRe81wDgyA/Xz8EgQaV-tI/AAAAAAAATQM/Ac1i7RkK9k0RFojS2EF9se0tz9Ruftw6wCK8BGAsYHg/s0/2020-08-20.png

I know this is anonymous but I'm so nervous...please be kind to me. I've read Literotica stories for years (and silently lurked around the forums) and I know there are some intelligent, passionate, creative people here, so I'm hoping y'all can help me.

A little bit about me: 36 years old but always told I look much younger, girl next door type of looks, long brunette hair, pale skin, 5'9", curvy/athletic figure with 36C breasts...a bit shy but trying to come out of my shell (and my clothes, ha)...

As I mentioned, I've been reading stories here for awhile and find myself really turned on by ones that have elements of submission/reluctance by the female, and also exhibitionism.

I have three problems right now. The first is probably one we all have right now with this stupid pandemic: being bored and lonely, stuck in the house too much, and not being comfortable going out right now to meet new people in person...

Which leads to the second problem: I'm so sexually frustrated I could scream. Right before the pandemic started, I was in a long-distance relationship with a very conservative guy who, let's just say, wasn't meeting my needs even when he was in town. Now I'm finding myself even missing his missionary-in-the-dark, rush-off-to-take-a-shower, fall-asleep-immediately bedroom routine. Sad, right? I'm tired of playing by myself and wondered if I could find someone to help me.

And the third problem: Like a lot of people, I've been working multiple jobs to make ends meet, and I recently lost one of them. I'm okay, still keeping my head above water, but things are tight and I'm probably going to need a new computer before the end of the year. So I need entertainment that's free.

My roommate is going out of town for a few days and then when she's back will be at her office all day every other week (my work is from home). What I'd love to do is find some intelligent, confident man to introduce me to some online submissive/exhibitionist games. Tell me what you want me to wear or what kind of photos you'd like me to take. We could share fantasies over email or play over Skype and you tell me what to show you, how to touch myself, what you want to see.

I've lead a pretty vanilla, conservative life up to this point and I'm really nervous about posting this (as the subject says, my hands really are literally shaking as I type) but I'm also so turned on I can hardly breathe. There are a lot of things I think you could teach me, and the idea of turning over control to a stranger over the internet who directs me to expose myself to him and do naughty things is just exhilarating.

I have a little black mask that I was going to decorate for a masquerade costume (yet another party that got cancelled earlier this year, ugh) and would wear that to hide my face, but you can talk me into showing ~everything~ else. (I can't believe I just typed that...I'm blushing so hard right now...but also getting a little wet.)

I have a separate fantasy about being a prostitute, but no way really to safely explore that IRL. If that turns you on too, we could work out something where I perform online for you and you pay me with an Amazon gift card. Putting myself out there on a public cam site is far too scary but I could do it one-on-one for you. Honestly, I'm more looking for a sexual connection than financial reward, but if you want to help pay for groceries I won't turn you down...or if there's a specific little naughty something you'd like me to wear... If you're like me, and trapped at home, broke and lonely, please still consider sending me a message. Payment isn't a necessary element for this to turn me on at all.

A few requirements: You obviously need to be over 18 but no upper age range. I'm mostly interested in men but couples are fine too. I'm not willing to do anything that could expose my identity or get me in criminal trouble, but getting naked and naughty alone in my own bedroom is perfectly legal last time I checked. The most powerful sex organ is the brain, and I need mine stimulated in order to be truly turned on, so intelligent, thoughtful messages are most likely to get replies.

I am interested in exploring my submissive side, but don't enjoy being degraded or insulted. But I do want you to take charge. Be strong with me and I'll be sweet for you.

Looking forward to hearing from you, and your naughty ideas.

xoxo,
Katie

 

[TexasKatie]

Story published!

Happy Saturday!

I've had an absolutely ~lovely~ day (thank you to you-know-who for the delightful orgasm that you finally let me have, teehee) and hope y'all are having fun too. This has been an eye-opening but exciting little adventure and I appreciate everyone who's encouraged me. Thanks for making the new girl feel welcome.

I also have a story published and wanted to share it. Hope you enjoy! And yes, I really do have a dress just like the one in the story.

https://www.literotica.com/s/sex-wrapped-in-blue-silk

 

[TexasKatie]

an update...

I'm not taking the ad down but I'm not really actively looking anymore. Thank you to everyone who sent some lovely messages, and a big ol' "Bless Your Heart" (with the full implied meaning that true Southerners understand) to the meanies and trolls.

Under the perhaps misguided impression that this advice might help some guys with a future woman's ad, since the gender ratio is so sharply skewed against you, here ya go:

1. I made it very clear in my posts that I was not going to meet anyone in person, and was setting firm boundaries between this little bit of fun and my real personal life. Aggressive demands for information, suggestions that I solicit lesbians in my town to perform on cam with me, invitations to drive hundreds of miles to film porn with you, that I should engage in public acts that risk my arrest for indecent exposure -- all unappealing and unwanted, resulting in me ending the conversation. I'm not going to have sex with a stranger and let you watch, I'm not going to flash my tits or pussy to anyone in the grocery store near where I live, and I'm not going to strip naked and masturbate in some public park.

Those things might make titillating stories, but I'm not doing it in real life, it's never happening, and all you accomplished was wasting both of our times.

2. There is a wide, broad spectrum of interests in these kind of activities, and just because I find submission and exhibitionism arousing does not mean I will consent to every extreme demand you might send me. There's no submission without consent, and I'm not submitting to anyone I don't respect and don't find appealing.

You don't "own" me or any part of me, and starting right away with derogatory terms, referring to me as an animal or object instead of a person, also killed any potential interest. I was very clear that I did not like derogatory terms. I'm not going to be your cumslut or fucktoy. We'll never meet, and I don't even want to interact over a webcam with someone who calls me that. I'm also uninterested in being "controlled" 24-7. I owe you nothing.

3. When a woman writes an ad that is several hundred words long and includes specific turn-ons and turn-offs, you should actually read it in full before sending her a message. The vast majority of the problems above stem from guys not reading what I wrote, or maybe ignoring what I said, thinking they were a badass enough of a Dom wannabe to just order me around.

On a related note, a vague sentence or two giving me nothing more than the fact that you're a dude and you want to see me naked doesn't give me anything to go on.

Almost immediately after an ad goes live, the Lit inbox quickly approaches its 150 message capacity, requiring mass deletions on a daily basis. There just isn't time or energy to try to personally reply to hundreds of inquiries. If you want to stand out, write a few lines showing you actually read the ad and offering something more personal and specific other than the fact that you have a penis you'd like to wank.

4. Negativity is not sexy. Whining that you sent a message and didn't get a reply, or didn't get one quick enough, isn't a turn on. Again, it may not be fair but you're competing with literally hundreds of other guys. I am not your therapist and cannot help you feel better about your sexless marriage or whatever troubles you're facing. This goes double for sending nasty insults. Why would I ever want to waste my time communicating with someone who called me a slut and a whore?

5. Ending on a more positive note, here's who did get replies: people who wrote funny messages, sharing interesting ideas and fantasies, who encouraged me for taking this step and exploring my interests, who exhibited some sort of intellectual compatibility with well-crafted and grammatically correct writing.

OK that's enough, a bit more of a rant than I originally intended, but it's been a little frustrating. Hope y'all have a good day

 

[Rich_Johnson]

Bravo, Katie! I'm certain that some may read this and benefit. I have noticed a few threads from men requesting information such as this. Should I see another, I'll direct them here. One thing more to the fellows out there searching:

People are different and desire different things. No one is so amazing that they appeal to everyone. Rejection isn't the negative thing that everyone seems to make it out to be. I would rather face an early/immediate rejection than find out that my partner/playmate/whatever wasn't getting anything out of the relationship and had only been spending time with me under the pretense of being "nice." You're not unattractive if someone isn't attracted to you. You're not boring if someone isn't interested in you. You're not being insulted if someone isn't into you. Confidence isn't defined as always succeeding. Confidence is staying true to yourself despite the world around you. If you win, stay true; if you lose, stay true. You'll never make progress if you keep changing yourself; you'll be perpetually stuck at the beginning.

 

[TexasKatie]

flipping around...

...lemme try to phrase this from a more positive approach...

...but I gotta start with a lil' all caps shouting...

READ THE POST AND HER PROFILE.

Note details, specific examples of things she says she likes or doesn't like, and note where you agree or where you believe you can find compromise. Be specific and sincere in writing to her about how you believe your needs and desires are a match.

Merely being someone with a penis is not enough. Saying you want to see her naked is not enough. We assume everyone sending a message wants that. And sorry but it's true: the over-40 and especially over-50 men are an overly populated group. "Hi, 52 year old dominant man in a sexless marriage who would love to see your hot bod" is going to be one of dozens of nearly identical messages.

Address her by the name she gives or what she requests to be called. Some women enjoy degrading nicknames, but many, many don't. Why kill off a potential connection before it starts? And is this ~really~ a dealbreaker for you? Would you really not want to get all hot and bothered with a feisty and sexy woman, exploring each other's fantasies, merely because she won't call you "Master" and doesn't want you to call her your "Cumslut"?

If something is a dealbreaker for you, set that forward up front. Don't waste anyone's time.

Flattery works. Compliment something specific about her ad, stories she's submitted, or any photos she's shared. It's not a guarantee but humans are egotistical creatures and enjoy praise.

Be patient. Remember, you're one of hundreds. It might take days or even weeks for her to respond. Do you want something to maybe happen or do you want to allow a hurt ego to fester because she didn't reply within minutes? People have jobs and real lives that limit their online time. Respect that.

Good luck to everyone finding your happiness!

 

[penandpenis]

...lemme try to phrase this from a more positive approach...

...but I gotta start with a lil' all caps shouting...

READ THE POST AND HER PROFILE.

Note details, specific examples of things she says she likes or doesn't like, and note where you agree or where you believe you can find compromise. Be specific and sincere in writing to her about how you believe your needs and desires are a match.

Merely being someone with a penis is not enough. Saying you want to see her naked is not enough. We assume everyone sending a message wants that. And sorry but it's true: the over-40 and especially over-50 men are an overly populated group. "Hi, 52 year old dominant man in a sexless marriage who would love to see your hot bod" is going to be one of dozens of nearly identical messages.

Address her by the name she gives or what she requests to be called. Some women enjoy degrading nicknames, but many, many don't. Why kill off a potential connection before it starts? And is this ~really~ a dealbreaker for you? Would you really not want to get all hot and bothered with a feisty and sexy woman, exploring each other's fantasies, merely because she won't call you "Master" and doesn't want you to call her your "Cumslut"?

If something is a dealbreaker for you, set that forward up front. Don't waste anyone's time.

Flattery works. Compliment something specific about her ad, stories she's submitted, or any photos she's shared. It's not a guarantee but humans are egotistical creatures and enjoy praise.

Be patient. Remember, you're one of hundreds. It might take days or even weeks for her to respond. Do you want something to maybe happen or do you want to allow a hurt ego to fester because she didn't reply within minutes? People have jobs and real lives that limit their online time. Respect that.

Good luck to everyone finding your happiness!

Well put, Katie. I'm impressed by your wherewithal to respond to the idiots that think they can send irrelevant messages or messages that assume knowledge of you before you've even started chatting. I will never understand why some idiots think that sort of approach will get them anywhere.

 

[NiceNastyMann]

Yes. The largest, most sensitive and aggravatingly mindless part of our sexual beings - our brain.

It betrays us. A scent, a feel on our wrist. Some fleeting glimpse we'll never be able to fully describe later.

The things a writer conveys to us in words. The dullest, least exciting medium in the world. Can excite us as no other can. Images evoked, smells and scents and scenes our primitive and of course our most modern brains devour. Chemical responses when it's so good, so right - adrenaline, and those god loving us endorphins. So much more powerful than any opioid - so far more addicting.

The words on an electronic screen. As erotic as those spoken to us, as lips pursed to our ear. The neural paths inflamed, our sexual needs engulfed... mere words. So much power.

 

[EdEc]

I'm not taking the ad down but I'm not really actively looking anymore. Thank you to everyone who sent some lovely messages, and a big ol' "Bless Your Heart" (with the full implied meaning that true Southerners understand) to the meanies and trolls.

Under the perhaps misguided impression that this advice might help some guys with a future woman's ad, since the gender ratio is so sharply skewed against you, here ya go:

1. I made it very clear in my posts that I was not going to meet anyone in person, and was setting firm boundaries between this little bit of fun and my real personal life. Aggressive demands for information, suggestions that I solicit lesbians in my town to perform on cam with me, invitations to drive hundreds of miles to film porn with you, that I should engage in public acts that risk my arrest for indecent exposure -- all unappealing and unwanted, resulting in me ending the conversation. I'm not going to have sex with a stranger and let you watch, I'm not going to flash my tits or pussy to anyone in the grocery store near where I live, and I'm not going to strip naked and masturbate in some public park.

Those things might make titillating stories, but I'm not doing it in real life, it's never happening, and all you accomplished was wasting both of our times.

2. There is a wide, broad spectrum of interests in these kind of activities, and just because I find submission and exhibitionism arousing does not mean I will consent to every extreme demand you might send me. There's no submission without consent, and I'm not submitting to anyone I don't respect and don't find appealing.

You don't "own" me or any part of me, and starting right away with derogatory terms, referring to me as an animal or object instead of a person, also killed any potential interest. I was very clear that I did not like derogatory terms. I'm not going to be your cumslut or fucktoy. We'll never meet, and I don't even want to interact over a webcam with someone who calls me that. I'm also uninterested in being "controlled" 24-7. I owe you nothing.

3. When a woman writes an ad that is several hundred words long and includes specific turn-ons and turn-offs, you should actually read it in full before sending her a message. The vast majority of the problems above stem from guys not reading what I wrote, or maybe ignoring what I said, thinking they were a badass enough of a Dom wannabe to just order me around.

On a related note, a vague sentence or two giving me nothing more than the fact that you're a dude and you want to see me naked doesn't give me anything to go on.

Almost immediately after an ad goes live, the Lit inbox quickly approaches its 150 message capacity, requiring mass deletions on a daily basis. There just isn't time or energy to try to personally reply to hundreds of inquiries. If you want to stand out, write a few lines showing you actually read the ad and offering something more personal and specific other than the fact that you have a penis you'd like to wank.

4. Negativity is not sexy. Whining that you sent a message and didn't get a reply, or didn't get one quick enough, isn't a turn on. Again, it may not be fair but you're competing with literally hundreds of other guys. I am not your therapist and cannot help you feel better about your sexless marriage or whatever troubles you're facing. This goes double for sending nasty insults. Why would I ever want to waste my time communicating with someone who called me a slut and a whore?

5. Ending on a more positive note, here's who did get replies: people who wrote funny messages, sharing interesting ideas and fantasies, who encouraged me for taking this step and exploring my interests, who exhibited some sort of intellectual compatibility with well-crafted and grammatically correct writing.

OK that's enough, a bit more of a rant than I originally intended, but it's been a little frustrating. Hope y'all have a good day

I've read this, Katie, and I understand that you must have been overwhelmed with private messages.
I'm happy to hear that someone made you cum! It's also nice that you have complete privacy while your roommate is at her office, you you can be as free as you wish while online seeking and achieving fulfillment.
E

 

[TexasKatie]

Update

Posting at the beginning but adding here too...

UPDATE...PLEASE READ: Hi y’all. Thanks so much to everyone who sent lovely messages that encouraged and aroused me. This has been a wild and exciting adventure so far. I’m not taking on any new “friends” at this time but so many of you wrote to me to say that you loved reading the ad and got hard just picturing me doing what I’ve described here that I’m going to leave it up.

I am enjoying myself very much and am grateful to this unusual website for helping me explore this naughty side of myself. I might post some more photos and updates if I get permission (yes, there’s someone I have to ask permission, mmm, so happy) and I’m also working on more stories that I hope you’ll enjoy.

Thanks y’all again so much and lots of naughty dreams to all of you.

xoxo,
Katie

 

[chimpers767]

UPDATE...PLEASE READ: Hi y’all. Thanks so much to everyone who sent lovely messages that encouraged and aroused me. This has been a wild and exciting adventure so far. I’m not taking on any new “friends” at this time but so many of you wrote to me to say that you loved reading the ad and got hard just picturing me doing what I’ve described here that I’m going to leave it up.

I am enjoying myself very much and am grateful to this unusual website for helping me explore this naughty side of myself. I might post some more photos and updates if I get permission (yes, there’s someone I have to ask permission, mmm, so happy) and I’m also working on more stories that I hope you’ll enjoy.

Thanks y’all again so much and lots of naughty dreams to all of you.

xoxo,
Katie

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I know this is anonymous but I'm so nervous...please be kind to me. I've read Literotica stories for years (and silently lurked around the forums) and I know there are some intelligent, passionate, creative people here, so I'm hoping y'all can help me.

A little bit about me: 36 years old but always told I look much younger, girl next door type of looks, long brunette hair, pale skin, 5'9", curvy/athletic figure with 36C breasts...a bit shy but trying to come out of my shell (and my clothes, ha)...

As I mentioned, I've been reading stories here for awhile and find myself really turned on by ones that have elements of submission/reluctance by the female, and also exhibitionism.

I have three problems right now. The first is probably one we all have right now with this stupid pandemic: being bored and lonely, stuck in the house too much, and not being comfortable going out right now to meet new people in person...

Which leads to the second problem: I'm so sexually frustrated I could scream. Right before the pandemic started, I was in a long-distance relationship with a very conservative guy who, let's just say, wasn't meeting my needs even when he was in town. Now I'm finding myself even missing his missionary-in-the-dark, rush-off-to-take-a-shower, fall-asleep-immediately bedroom routine. Sad, right? I'm tired of playing by myself and wondered if I could find someone to help me.

And the third problem: Like a lot of people, I've been working multiple jobs to make ends meet, and I recently lost one of them. I'm okay, still keeping my head above water, but things are tight and I'm probably going to need a new computer before the end of the year. So I need entertainment that's free.

My roommate is going out of town for a few days and then when she's back will be at her office all day every other week (my work is from home). What I'd love to do is find some intelligent, confident man to introduce me to some online submissive/exhibitionist games. Tell me what you want me to wear or what kind of photos you'd like me to take. We could share fantasies over email or play over Skype and you tell me what to show you, how to touch myself, what you want to see.

I've lead a pretty vanilla, conservative life up to this point and I'm really nervous about posting this (as the subject says, my hands really are literally shaking as I type) but I'm also so turned on I can hardly breathe. There are a lot of things I think you could teach me, and the idea of turning over control to a stranger over the internet who directs me to expose myself to him and do naughty things is just exhilarating.

I have a little black mask that I was going to decorate for a masquerade costume (yet another party that got cancelled earlier this year, ugh) and would wear that to hide my face, but you can talk me into showing ~everything~ else. (I can't believe I just typed that...I'm blushing so hard right now...but also getting a little wet.)

I have a separate fantasy about being a prostitute, but no way really to safely explore that IRL. If that turns you on too, we could work out something where I perform online for you and you pay me with an Amazon gift card. Putting myself out there on a public cam site is far too scary but I could do it one-on-one for you. Honestly, I'm more looking for a sexual connection than financial reward, but if you want to help pay for groceries I won't turn you down...or if there's a specific little naughty something you'd like me to wear... If you're like me, and trapped at home, broke and lonely, please still consider sending me a message. Payment isn't a necessary element for this to turn me on at all.

A few requirements: You obviously need to be over 18 but no upper age range. I'm mostly interested in men but couples are fine too. I'm not willing to do anything that could expose my identity or get me in criminal trouble, but getting naked and naughty alone in my own bedroom is perfectly legal last time I checked. The most powerful sex organ is the brain, and I need mine stimulated in order to be truly turned on, so intelligent, thoughtful messages are most likely to get replies.

I am interested in exploring my submissive side, but don't enjoy being degraded or insulted. But I do want you to take charge. Be strong with me and I'll be sweet for you.

Looking forward to hearing from you, and your naughty ideas.

xoxo,
Katie

Sending PM.