How Do You View Yourself?

[Donotrustanybody]

As the baddest mfer alive

 

[Rj_1954]

I'm a pussycat...

 

[Rj_1954]

@dreamysub

Thank you for your
I do appreciate it...

 

[dreamysub]

@dreamysub

Thank you for your
I do appreciate it...

You are welcome!

 

[inadequate]

Trying not to see myself as my username anymore. It isn't easy.

 

[crazychemgirl]

A goofy mess who always seems to say the wrong thing

 

[AmberLGreen]

On Lit, I view myself as invisible. My real life is extremely stressful so this is a nice escape for me.

 

[Bry1313]

With my eyes

 

[Wand3rlust]

Sometimes I'm so visible.
Sometimes people look past me.

Both times, I feel I want the other to happen..

 

[Photog1rl]

Who in our society is not full of self-doubt or does not question their worth? I don't know if it is possible to not feel less than at a time when we are faced with continually changing definitions of perfection and unobtainable images of success. And who does not feel insecure in some aspect of their lives?

I view myself as a good communicator, an outspoken advocate, a great hostess and cook, the best parent I can be, an intelligent and positive person and someone who builds strong connections and deep friendships. I know that I care deeply for other people. I am also quick to be hurt, needy, insecure in friendships(seemingly more so online), lonely and a wee bit broken. I am thankful that I was not defined by my childhood trauma, that I have broken the cycle of violence and I'm grateful that I have learned skills that usually allow me to manage the PTSD I carry with me. I work every day at growing and changing and gluing myself back together.

Lit gives me a positive way to connect with others, an outlet to promote body positivity, and to show off but it has also highlighted my vulnerabilities and areas of weakness. Often I will hear how much people appreciate and want realness and how much more desirable a genuine person is. While I think for the most part that is true we are still holding each other to ideals that are not realistic or manageable. (I know I have) It is a strange mix of flawed humans trying to balance reality and expectation and it can drastically impact how you see yourself.

I am grateful that I know my value but that does not mean that I am always confident or never experience anxiety and self-doubt. We all focus on our flaws. It is what we are socially programmed to do and so very easy to embrace.

 

[Tigobitties98]

Easy answer: with a mirror.

Otherwise I'm a gregarious person who loves life, I'm difficult to provoke, but will quickly defend others, oh, and I will do almost anythjng for a laugh

 

[Lady2020]

Non-pretender

 

[Rj_1954]

Living a double life, maybe a triple

 

[Rj_1954]

A goofy mess who always seems to say the wrong thing

Nothing you say is wrong and I respect you for your honesty.
I'm the mess...

 

[Trubbycat]

I’m complicated.

 

[TattedPepper]

 

[Yesok1]

I've woken up anxious and don't want to wake her to talk!

 

[SassySheDevil]

Who in our society is not full of self-doubt or does not question their worth? I don't know if it is possible to not feel less than at a time when we are faced with continually changing definitions of perfection and unobtainable images of success. And who does not feel insecure in some aspect of their lives?

I view myself as a good communicator, an outspoken advocate, a great hostess and cook, the best parent I can be, an intelligent and positive person and someone who builds strong connections and deep friendships. I know that I care deeply for other people. I am also quick to be hurt, needy, insecure in friendships(seemingly more so online), lonely and a wee bit broken. I am thankful that I was not defined by my childhood trauma, that I have broken the cycle of violence and I'm grateful that I have learned skills that usually allow me to manage the PTSD I carry with me. I work every day at growing and changing and gluing myself back together.

Lit gives me a positive way to connect with others, an outlet to promote body positivity, and to show off but it has also highlighted my vulnerabilities and areas of weakness. Often I will hear how much people appreciate and want realness and how much more desirable a genuine person is. While I think for the most part that is true we are still holding each other to ideals that are not realistic or manageable. (I know I have) It is a strange mix of flawed humans trying to balance reality and expectation and it can drastically impact how you see yourself.

I am grateful that I know my value but that does not mean that I am always confident or never experience anxiety and self-doubt. We all focus on our flaws. It is what we are socially programmed to do and so very easy to embrace.

Beautifully spoken.

 

[Lady2020]

Old. Do not fuck with me.