Bramblethorn
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I agree that asinine assumptions were made here. Your own bathroom in your own home is about as private as one can expect to be. To assume that you left the door ajar is the same mentality that people have when saying a woman deserved to be raped because her skirt was too short.
He violated your privacy in a major way, in a way that is actually criminal, truth be told. It needs to be addressed in a not so gentle manner and he needs to know what he did was wrong on several levels. He's a big boy and should be treated as such.
+1. I also thought (and should've said) that HH's response was victim-blame-y and inappropriate.