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You know all you have to do is offer and you'll get dozens of volunteers!
I have one. Thanks.
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You know all you have to do is offer and you'll get dozens of volunteers!
I have one. Thanks.
There’s a lot of pic/gif posting in here, with some commentary on what we like or dislike, but very little discussion. Let’s try and change that, if only for a bit. I know MD would approve if she was still around.
Control.
A straightforward concept, something integral to BDSM, something we all ( obviously ) appreciate and opine on superficially. But, in that disparity of likes and dislikes, there is meaning. A reason one thing speaks to us, and another does not. Why you shudder thinking about rough fingers closing around your throat, or the implications behind each of those knots as they’re tied. Why you start drooling before the gag even touches your lips, why your heart rate picks up at the thought of cuffs being fastened, pulled tight, being locked into a chosen pose ( under or above ) until the end. Why you feel warm and squirm in your seat at the thought of that split second before an open hand/crop/paddle/cane/whip comes down and connects just as hard as you need it to, where you wanted it to. And why going about what you want and how you want it ( regardless of where you identify on the spectrum ), goes much deeper than just rough sex.
What is control to you? Why do you need it? How important is it for you? When and how did you figure it out?
Tell me. Tell each other. Tell the world.
After all, that’s why you’re here.
There’s a lot of pic/gif posting in here, with some commentary on what we like or dislike, but very little discussion. Let’s try and change that, if only for a bit. I know MD would approve if she was still around.
Control.
A straightforward concept, something integral to BDSM, something we all ( obviously ) appreciate and opine on superficially. But, in that disparity of likes and dislikes, there is meaning. A reason one thing speaks to us, and another does not. Why you shudder thinking about rough fingers closing around your throat, or the implications behind each of those knots as they’re tied. Why you start drooling before the gag even touches your lips, why your heart rate picks up at the thought of cuffs being fastened, pulled tight, being locked into a chosen pose ( under or above ) until the end. Why you feel warm and squirm in your seat at the thought of that split second before an open hand/crop/paddle/cane/whip comes down and connects just as hard as you need it to, where you wanted it to. And why going about what you want and how you want it ( regardless of where you identify on the spectrum ), goes much deeper than just rough sex.
What is control to you? Why do you need it? How important is it for you? When and how did you figure it out?
Tell me. Tell each other. Tell the world.
After all, that’s why you’re here.
There’s a lot of pic/gif posting in here, with some commentary on what we like or dislike, but very little discussion. Let’s try and change that, if only for a bit. I know MD would approve if she was still around.
Control.
A straightforward concept, something integral to BDSM, something we all ( obviously ) appreciate and opine on superficially. But, in that disparity of likes and dislikes, there is meaning. A reason one thing speaks to us, and another does not. Why you shudder thinking about rough fingers closing around your throat, or the implications behind each of those knots as they’re tied. Why you start drooling before the gag even touches your lips, why your heart rate picks up at the thought of cuffs being fastened, pulled tight, being locked into a chosen pose ( under or above ) until the end. Why you feel warm and squirm in your seat at the thought of that split second before an open hand/crop/paddle/cane/whip comes down and connects just as hard as you need it to, where you wanted it to. And why going about what you want and how you want it ( regardless of where you identify on the spectrum ), goes much deeper than just rough sex.
What is control to you? Why do you need it? How important is it for you? When and how did you figure it out?
Tell me. Tell each other. Tell the world.
After all, that’s why you’re here.