Bi-curious Yahoo Chat?

Is yahoo im any different than literotic chat? Does it need to access a social media account, my phone number, or anything with my info. I like to keep everything very discreet, but would love a way to chat, send pics, and watch live video of the person I'm talking to. I have hesitated to try things like Yahoo im, kik, and Skype, because of fear that I can be identified somehow.
 
You can create a fake account on yahoo and use that.


Is yahoo im any different than literotic chat? Does it need to access a social media account, my phone number, or anything with my info. I like to keep everything very discreet, but would love a way to chat, send pics, and watch live video of the person I'm talking to. I have hesitated to try things like Yahoo im, kik, and Skype, because of fear that I can be identified somehow.
 
Hello All

New to Lit as a member but long time reader

This thread seems to act (in a way) as a support group - and I don't mean that in a negative sense.

I'm 35, mwm, happily so and my wife and I have incredible often knock down, sweaty, screaming, bed shaking sex.

I have always had a high sex drive and up to about 2 years ago was not in the least bit interested in any m/m contact. I was a swinger for a time before marriage and even then the thought of doing anything with another guy was not an option.

I have (since about 3 years ago) gotten a bit more interested in doing some things with 'buddy'. I am very much turned on by the idea of having a friend with whom I can chat about sex (porn or wives) and jo with. I've since done this 2 times in person - and the experience was very rewarding.

I don't consider my self gay or bi, not that those labels are bad - they just don't describe me and I came to this conclusion after lots of soul searching. I have read some posts on Lit where some participants berate those (like me) who claim to be straight but are not "bi" or "gay" - i don't subscribe to that ideology (labels) and certainly don't like intimidation. I know what & who I am. I am not in the least bit interested in men emotionally or physically, but I do admit that I am turned on by the idea of hanging out naked with another married guy my age or older and spending the afternoon edging until we shoot. If the friend is someone I grow to trust completely - I admit - I am also open to the idea of swapping hand-jobs, frotting, and oral.

perhaps some of you are the same - but I am totally turned off by the idea of kissing, hugging, cuddling, making out, or anything femme, or rimming, or anal ... again, ok for others, but these just don't appeal to me.

was very difficult to find others who have similar characteristics - but I found this thread. Too bad so many of us are so far part.

I've come to conclude - as many of you have - that sexuality is a spectrum ... a sliding scale if you will. I'd like to believe that I, as many of you on here are, are just opened minded enough to enjoy things that are not strictly on one end.

thank you for reading.

Scott
 
ScottMtl, well said. In a similar spot and I too often think it would be great to have such a buddy to get together with.
 
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