34 [M4F] San Francisco by way of Toronto, Canada - Seeking Affair, April 24 to 29

imfromtoronto

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Hi,

[I'm sharing this post because I travel to San Francisco from Toronto often for work. I will be in the area again April 24 to 29. If what I say below resonates with you, let's talk and when I visit we can potentially meet up]

I want to have a physical, real-world, passionate, affair, and I want it soon. Does that come across as an incredibly selfish first line to a post where I should be instead attempting to seduce? Yes, and I'm doing that on purpose.

You see, I've had affairs before (one long term, several of a few months or less) and I've had flings before. All were wonderful women, and they ended for perfectly good and reasonable reasons. I've met some great people on various platforms, including Reddit.

I haven't, however, had a physical affair in about two years. I thought I could resist. I thought I could break out of my seemingly never-ending desire for passion and lust. But I simply can't.

I've now reconciled that I'm simply too addicted to that spark of lust, the fast heartbeat, and the thrill of sneaking around.

So who am I looking for?

The ideal person would be a San Francisco-area woman who knows what *she* wants. I respect that many may be considering to have an affair, but if you're looking for someone to talk through your feelings and to decide whether you should have an affair in the first place...I'm sorry but I'm not that person.

I want the woman who's made the decision that her home life is too boring, too unsatisfying, and wants to dive deeply into something devious and physical and full of fucking lust.

But that's not all. Aside from an affair and all the descriptors of passion what do I want?

I want to feel wanted. I want to want you, to *crave* you. I want to have the rush of excitement as we exchange messages until we meet. I want to flirt and kiss and romance you.
I want you to be the *true* object of my desire, and not my wife.

Yes, I'm not afraid of breaking that taboo. I want a woman who wants to be treated better than my wife, who wants me to tell her she's better, and wants me physically to the exclusion of my wife.

I want to meet up with you and enjoy the terribly sinful excitement and pleasures that come from two people having an affair and loving every moment.

But I also don't want a purely physical affair. I want the emotional aspect, too. I want to love you...and I mean that.

I'm so starved of an emotional relationship that no only do I want to worship you physically but I want to experience all the emotions that come with two people loving and caring for each other.

You're thinking to yourself, is this guy real? Is he insane? Yes to the former, maybe to the latter.

If you're thinking that any of this is making sense to you - message me.

One last thing - the stats. I'm 34, physically fit, tall-ish with curlyish brown hair and brown eyes.

I workout not out of vanity but because I desperately feel the need to continue accomplishing, despite the limitations of the pandemic. I have my own personal passions in movies, games, books, etc but I'm so open to learning about yours (ideally together, naked, after making love).

And with that I'll leave it to you.
 
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