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Kajira Callista

Kajira Callista

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lately. I am forgetting to switch back to grown up me when I am around the Daddies in public settings. I love knowing that this is happening because I really am their lil girl.
They get kinda angry but I think they understand why it happens. Unfortunately when other men overhear my lil girl they are around me like bees to honey which is causing a whole 'nother set of problems.
I need to figure out a way to be able to separate the two me's and not forget.

Help?
 
mmm maybe you could put a rubber band around your wrist as a reminder and everytime you snap it lightly, rememeber why you are wearing it?
 
Perhaps you can have a name that is your lil girl name and another name is your adult name. When they call you by your lil girl name it could be in private and you are their lil girl.

But out in the world they call you by your adult name and hopefully that will trigger your adult behavior.
 
Kajira Callista said:
lately. I am forgetting to switch back to grown up me when I am around the Daddies in public settings. I love knowing that this is happening because I really am their lil girl.
They get kinda angry but I think they understand why it happens. Unfortunately when other men overhear my lil girl they are around me like bees to honey which is causing a whole 'nother set of problems.
I need to figure out a way to be able to separate the two me's and not forget.

Help?
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Surely if you are on the kind of environment where you are Daddy's girl openly, this is also the place where other Doms etc are expected to respect the fact you are taken. If you have a Daddy in this situation present, why is it your job to swat flies?

If you're not with a Daddy per se, or under the protection of a friend of his etc for the night, then I'm afraid you have to suck it up and either politely tell them to fuck off or switch on them to let them know exactly where they stand.

If you're the kind of person who can't snap out of a role in order to deal with your real life environment perhaps you to have a designated cock-blocker with you when you're out as daddy's girl.

Or you can just get on your knees be a good little slut, just sayin'
 
ecstaticsub said:
Perhaps you can have a name that is your lil girl name and another name is your adult name. When they call you by your lil girl name it could be in private and you are their lil girl.

But out in the world they call you by your adult name and hopefully that will trigger your adult behavior.
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I will have to discuss this. This might work.
 
CookingDom said:
Surely if you are on the kind of environment where you are Daddy's girl openly, this is also the place where other Doms etc are expected to respect the fact you are taken. If you have a Daddy in this situation present, why is it your job to swat flies?

If you're not with a Daddy per se, or under the protection of a friend of his etc for the night, then I'm afraid you have to suck it up and either politely tell them to fuck off or switch on them to let them know exactly where they stand.

If you're the kind of person who can't snap out of a role in order to deal with your real life environment perhaps you to have a designated cock-blocker with you when you're out as daddy's girl.

Or you can just get on your knees be a good little slut, just sayin'
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My Daddies do swat the flies but "in public settings" is not with other like minded people. When it happens it shouldnt be so I need to find a way to get myself not to forget before my Daddies find a way for me.
 
I may be over simplifying the situation but count the people around you. When there's just the three of you, you are safe. When there's more than the three of you, switch to adult you.
 
DVS said:
I may be over simplifying the situation but count the people around you. When there's just the three of you, you are safe. When there's more than the three of you, switch to adult you.
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I will try that Uncle DVS!
 
pretty much every person I know who plays as a little, or a pup, or even as a dominant when they are not in it lifestyle, ends up with a name for the persona.

Now's your chance to claim the name you always wanted when you were a little girl... or at least, the first time you were :cattail:
 
Stella_Omega said:
pretty much every person I know who plays as a little, or a pup, or even as a dominant when they are not in it lifestyle, ends up with a name for the persona.

Now's your chance to claim the name you always wanted when you were a little girl... or at least, the first time you were :cattail:
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But I like my name *pout*
 
In those situations, don't say to yourself, "Oh, I need to be an adult here." Sometimes, it's damn near impossible to pull yourself out of the "little" mindset. Just be a little girl pretending to be a grown-up. :cattail:

Works for me.
 
BiBunny said:
In those situations, don't say to yourself, "Oh, I need to be an adult here." Sometimes, it's damn near impossible to pull yourself out of the "little" mindset. Just be a little girl pretending to be a grown-up. :cattail:

Works for me.
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YAY I loveeeeeeeeeee that idea bunny *huggggggg* That would make my Daddies so proud! :D
 
BiBunny said:
In those situations, don't say to yourself, "Oh, I need to be an adult here." Sometimes, it's damn near impossible to pull yourself out of the "little" mindset. Just be a little girl pretending to be a grown-up. :cattail:

Works for me.
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That almost makes too much sense.
 
Pretend really, really hard, okay? Because witnessing adult men swarming around the adult woman who is acting like a little girl would make me a little bit nauseous...

and should embarrass them, too.
 
I've had this trouble, not being little - but being slave, and I think figuring it out is part of a very important stage when you have to take responsibility for your own sexuality even while you're fully engaged submissively.

I would suggest that the woman that you are knows what your Daddys want. That's what makes you such a good little girl. You need to do what they want, and behave appropriate to the setting, instead of losing your bearings in your own good feelings. . .
 
When growing up I was taught that inside you use your inside voice, out side...you can use your outside voice.

Its something I had to learn. What I learned was, I needed to be mindful of my surroundings.

If I was in a mood or was just being selfish, I didn't care how it effected others and did whatever I wanted.

Funny how that changed when I was hungry or needed something. And let me tell you, supper can be an effective bargining chip for moms when they want it to be.
 
Now I have a mental immage of the OP sitting in a corner on a little pink plastic stool while her daddies eat dinner at the "adults table" and she has to miss out because she was naughty while they were out earlier that day.
 
eastern sun said:
I've had this trouble, not being little - but being slave, and I think figuring it out is part of a very important stage when you have to take responsibility for your own sexuality even while you're fully engaged submissively.

I would suggest that the woman that you are knows what your Daddys want. That's what makes you such a good little girl. You need to do what they want, and behave appropriate to the setting, instead of losing your bearings in your own good feelings. . .
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lol true feeling good doesnt always mean being good :rolleyes:
 
Lady_In_Black said:
Now I have a mental immage of the OP sitting in a corner on a little pink plastic stool while her daddies eat dinner at the "adults table" and she has to miss out because she was naughty while they were out earlier that day.
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That is kinda hot...not the naughty but the whole stool thing n stuff
 
BiBunny said:
In those situations, don't say to yourself, "Oh, I need to be an adult here." Sometimes, it's damn near impossible to pull yourself out of the "little" mindset. Just be a little girl pretending to be a grown-up. :cattail:

Works for me.
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I always feel like I'm pretending to be an adult.
 
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