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sarah_rsl

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When most people talk about turn on's they might mention a good looking partner, sexy underwear, exotic location, threesome's whatever. I'm curious about things that turn one or two people find arousing but would just leave everybody else going wtf.

On another message board I mentioned that I had an ex boyfriend that loved it when i wore his boxers. Now I'm almost certain he wasn't a repressed Homo sexual even if he did try to bum me once. But i got to thinking apart from the usual fetishes like womens underwear of shoes or feet stuff like that, do people have turn on's that are particular to them.

In my own case I occasionally enjoyed having sex completly naked while my partner was still clothed with just his trousers undone. Now there isn't really any way I can make that sound erotic, but it used really do it for me, usually I didn't tell my partners my preference and would instead just manouver myself into situations where I'd end up having sex like that. which was complicated and rather fun.

So whats everybody else got?
 
There is not much to add other than what is weird to somebody else may be perfectly acceptable to another. I have kinky desires some may consider odd but as long as it is not encroaching on the rights of others and does not break the law, I do not see any problem with exploring other areas.
 
sarah_rsl said:
In my own case I occasionally enjoyed having sex completly naked while my partner was still clothed with just his trousers undone. Now there isn't really any way I can make that sound erotic, but it used really do it for me, usually I didn't tell my partners my preference and would instead just manouver myself into situations where I'd end up having sex like that. which was complicated and rather fun.
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For what it's worth, this is an honest-to-goodness porn genre, and it has a name: "CMNF" (clothed male, naked female)--see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clothed_male,_naked_female

Now, chances are good that the porn version won't be a whole lot like the real-life version that you enjoyed... But it's a good indication that you don't have such an unusual interest.

By the way, I've enjoyed the reverse situation (I, the female, was clothed while a guy got naked for me--or, in porn terms, "CFNM") a couple of times. (Enjoyed it in real life, that is... I've looked at a couple porn versions of it, but they didn't do it for me at all.)
 
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SigmaStigmata said:
There is not much to add other than what is weird to somebody else may be perfectly acceptable to another. I have kinky desires some may consider odd but as long as it is not encroaching on the rights of others and does not break the law, I do not see any problem with exploring other areas.
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Right I didn't neccessarily mean kinky. And I'm reassured by your determination to remain within the law in your sex life, good for you. I gave a few example in my original post.

In my own past I've got requests from guys like keeping my bra on during sex, wearing their underwear, sex after I've just worked out, one guy instead of taking my knickers off completly would only take one leg out and push them up the other so he could feel them while we shagged.

I don't know guy's how about a bit of subtley, it doesn't all have to be about gang bangs and anal sex.
 
sarah_rsl: All of those things seem within the normal range of what some may ask when having sex, assuredly, not all will fulfill such requests in which case cannot be done unless negotiations are conducted. Not always at a success, but is worth a try to break the same-old-same-old techniques that may render sex life dull.
 
Can't think of any.

sarah_rsl said:
When most people talk about turn on's they might mention a good looking partner, sexy underwear, exotic location, threesome's whatever. I'm curious about things that turn one or two people find arousing but would just leave everybody else going wtf.

On another message board I mentioned that I had an ex boyfriend that loved it when i wore his boxers. Now I'm almost certain he wasn't a repressed Homo sexual even if he did try to bum me once. But i got to thinking apart from the usual fetishes like womens underwear of shoes or feet stuff like that, do people have turn on's that are particular to them.

In my own case I occasionally enjoyed having sex completly naked while my partner was still clothed with just his trousers undone. Now there isn't really any way I can make that sound erotic, but it used really do it for me, usually I didn't tell my partners my preference and would instead just manouver myself into situations where I'd end up having sex like that. which was complicated and rather fun.

So whats everybody else got?
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I have no fetishes what-so-ever. Nope, not one kink. :cool:
 
There's a certain way that OLOTH wears her hair sometimes: A type of dual ponytail--not a pigtail, mind you--worn up back off the neck. They lays flat, and I've never really seen anything like them, but for some reason they just look soamazingly slutty that it never fails to get me riled. I call them "the devil tails," and I have yet to fully understand their effect on me.

Also: chicks in black stockings, thigh high. I don't really get it, but somehow it always gets me going.
 
sarah_rsl said:
I don't know guy's how about a bit of subtley, it doesn't all have to be about gang bangs and anal sex.
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Who is this addressed to?

I'm assuming that by "guys," you don't just mean "males" since you just enumerated a bunch of male partners who were into those "unusual"/"subtle" things... Are you addressing those of us who frequent this forum? If so, well, a sex forum is going to have a lot of threads about the most mainstream and obvious sexual deviations just because they're...well... mainstream and obvious, but a lot of people here also make reference to smaller or less widely-acknowledged things that get them hot. Me, I had a whole thread about face-licking a while back.
 
hiddenleaf said:
Who is this addressed to?

I'm assuming that by "guys," you don't just mean "males" since you just enumerated a bunch of male partners who were into those "unusual"/"subtle" things... Are you addressing those of us who frequent this forum? If so, well, a sex forum is going to have a lot of threads about the most mainstream and obvious sexual deviations just because they're...well... mainstream and obvious, but a lot of people here also make reference to smaller or less widely-acknowledged things that get them hot. Me, I had a whole thread about face-licking a while back.
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By guys I mean males. I was refering to all the usual male sexual fantasy stuff that tends to come straight from porn films.
 
piove_essa said:
Sooooo- all the ladies may as well fuck-off then? Nice.
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Jesus christ is it too much effort to read the fucking post?.

I was refering to guys steering the thread towards gang bangs, anal sex and what not. I was trying to ask for more subtle responses. At no time did I imply that I only wanted guys to contribute
 
sarah_rsl said:
Jesus christ is it too much effort to read the fucking post?.

I was refering to guys steering the thread towards gang bangs, anal sex and what not. I was trying to ask for more subtle responses. At no time did I imply that I only wanted guys to contribute
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are the ladies allowed to post on anal sex and group sex?

because...

well...

anal sex and group sex!!
 
dolf said:
are the ladies allowed to post on anal sex and group sex?

because...

well...

anal sex and group sex!!
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OK then (sorry you)- is this a kink- i am still trying to work out who i am more jealous of in Dolfs' AV.
 
sarah_rsl said:
Jesus christ is it too much effort to read the fucking post?.

I was refering to guys steering the thread towards gang bangs, anal sex and what not. I was trying to ask for more subtle responses. At no time did I imply that I only wanted guys to contribute
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Do women make you angry?
 
dolf said:
are the ladies allowed to post on anal sex and group sex?

because...

well...

anal sex and group sex!!
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Right okay if you consider anal sex and group sex to be unusual, and something that few other people apart from yourself would have any interest in.
 
sarah_rsl said:
Right okay if you consider anal sex and group sex to be unusual, and something that few other people apart from yourself would have any interest in.
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unusual is relative and cultural.

watersports isn't really unusual.
somnophilia isn't really unusual.
fun but hardly pushing the boundries.
 
Just a couple at random, walking in the woods, having sex while she's still wearing her knickers (just pulling them aside).

Again, there are so many, none of them straight out of porn clichés.
 
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