Spitting

The talk about face-slapping and how it is a hard limit for quite a lot of people got me thinking to one of my less "mainstream" kinks of spitting.

My previous long-term girlfriend was quite open in many regards, pain/strap-on, whipping, CBT etc... However she would never spit at me.

I can understand that a lot of people wouldn't like it done to them, as it is probably quite high on the humiliation "scale".

So are many people "into it?" or is it just me thats perverted?

sbj said:

The talk about face-slapping and how it is a hard limit for quite a lot of people got me thinking to one of my less "mainstream" kinks of spitting.

My previous long-term girlfriend was quite open in many regards, pain/strap-on, whipping, CBT etc... However she would never spit at me.

I can understand that a lot of people wouldn't like it done to them, as it is probably quite high on the humiliation "scale".

So are many people "into it?" or is it just me thats perverted?

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It's not the perversion I don't like but it's not sanitary. I'm just not into things like that. Slobbering is one thing but spitting brings mucus up from the lower throat area and that just bothers me.

I'm also against face slapping. The head is an area of the body I don't like to hurt. Oh, I will fuck her mouth and hold her hair while doing it, but sudden jerking or blows to the head are not good.

Maybe if someone is younger and more limber, but the older we get the more brittle we get and the spine is very vulnerable in the area of the neck. Lots of nerves are running through that spine. I just don't want to go there.

I't not at all uncommon for others, I'm sure. I've seen some use spitting as a lube before anal sex. Now, if the woman wants me to slap her, I might do it. But, spitting on her is not something I can do.

sbj said:

The talk about face-slapping and how it is a hard limit for quite a lot of people got me thinking to one of my less "mainstream" kinks of spitting.

My previous long-term girlfriend was quite open in many regards, pain/strap-on, whipping, CBT etc... However she would never spit at me.

I can understand that a lot of people wouldn't like it done to them, as it is probably quite high on the humiliation "scale".

So are many people "into it?" or is it just me thats perverted?

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there is a great thread on spitting someplace....where is AA when you need him to do a search?

*sigh* i cant find it...i tried.

I find both unappealing on several levels but will only mention two. Face slapping is risky and can result in brain stem trauma and spitting, well spitting is just plain unhealthy. Saliva carries both HIV & Hepatitis in small amounts.

sbj said:

The talk about face-slapping and how it is a hard limit for quite a lot of people got me thinking to one of my less "mainstream" kinks of spitting.

My previous long-term girlfriend was quite open in many regards, pain/strap-on, whipping, CBT etc... However she would never spit at me.

I can understand that a lot of people wouldn't like it done to them, as it is probably quite high on the humiliation "scale".

So are many people "into it?" or is it just me thats perverted?

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These are a few of my favorite things...

to me, there is nothing more erotic than spitting.. in my mouth, on my chest, on my stomach, on my lips... what do you do when you kiss? you exchange saliva! and what happens with any other sexual exchange? bodily fluids!
as far as slapping goes... as long as i am not thrown into a case of severe whiplash.. i'm in! it is a power exchange.. and if you trust the person you are with.. it just reminds you of who is in charge. and in my case, it sometimes takes a little sting to remind me.. a "sting" i am happy to receive.. drives. me. crazy!
just my opinion.

Blushing Bottom said:

I find both unappealing on several levels but will only mention two. Face slapping is risky and can result in brain stem trauma and spitting, well spitting is just plain unhealthy. Saliva carries both HIV & Hepatitis in small amounts.

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My husband wanted me to tell you he loves your av BB!

Well you knew I did too right?

*smiles*

Hell, I think everyone does!

Anyway, I don't think face slapping is my thang nor spitting however my husband showed me a anal fucking film online a while back. I don't normally look at such things but I did this time.

It was quite hot and one thing that really flipped my switches was when the male stopped, spit in her ass and then fucked her some more.

Oh my! That was HOT!!! To me at least. It was the kind of hot that no one should even think of trying with me in RL because I'd hate to have to hurt someone and suspect I'd be fighting mad but boy was it smokin!

Fury

Thanks Fury for noticing my av I chose it carefully as I choose all form of communication.

Now regarding the clip you saw. I've seen that many times and yes it is smoking hot. One day I'll have it done to me and I'll PM you telling you all about it,

FurryFury said:

My husband wanted me to tell you he loves your av BB!

Well you knew I did too right?

*smiles*

Hell, I think everyone does!

Anyway, I don't think face slapping is my thang nor spitting however my husband showed me a anal fucking film online a while back. I don't normally look at such things but I did this time.

It was quite hot and one thing that really flipped my switches was when the male stopped, spit in her ass and then fucked her some more.

Oh my! That was HOT!!! To me at least. It was the kind of hot that no one should even think of trying with me in RL because I'd hate to have to hurt someone and suspect I'd be fighting mad but boy was it smokin!

Fury

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Hey FF

Not seen you for a while. You haven’t gone and deserted me have you. You are my kindred spirit on the other side of the pond. Any how enough grovelling.

sbj said:

The talk about face-slapping and how it is a hard limit for quite a lot of people got me thinking to one of my less "mainstream" kinks of spitting.

My previous long-term girlfriend was quite open in many regards, pain/strap-on, whipping, CBT etc... However she would never spit at me.

I can understand that a lot of people wouldn't like it done to them, as it is probably quite high on the humiliation "scale".

So are many people "into it?" or is it just me that’s perverted?

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Personally speaking… my lady has a sexual blank chequebook, anything she would want to try I would go with at least once (twice or more if I liked it). I love anal and am not a hypocrite, so if she wanted to try a strap on and take control I’d go with that.
The spitting thing I think has to be taken in context. Spitting on a cock, pussy, anus to excite or lube or as part of a kiss is one thing, but to spit as a form of humiliation is just not my thing but I wouldn’t be grossed out by it if it got her hot.

little trixie said:

to me, there is nothing more erotic than spitting.. in my mouth, on my chest, on my stomach, on my lips...

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Mmm…. Sound intriguing… put like that I’m game. Fancy showing me what you mean… I’m free Mon – Fri 24 / 7!
* licks FF’s pussy as a good bye kiss. *

Blushing Bottom said:

Thanks Fury for noticing my av I chose it carefully as I choose all form of communication.

Now regarding the clip you saw. I've seen that many times and yes it is smoking hot. One day I'll have it done to me and I'll PM you telling you all about it,

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Good morning BB
As has already been said… luv the AV!

I have done that to my lady during anal in the past, and I too have seen hot vids depicting this. It actually doesn’t serve as much of a lube, so from a practical point it doesn’t serve much use. That said I still do it and love to use my tongue on her as a prelim to penetration.

Master spits on my face, my body, in my mouth and i enjoy it.

While at college the other night I was talking with some of my friends there and there is this girl we call "satan". Actually kind of a shy girl, but she has tats and a lip ring and she seems more comfortable hanging around guys. Anyways, somehow oral sex cam up in the conversation and she told us that her boyfiend did a spiderman on her the other night which she gigled uncontrolably at all of us guys who just looked at her and said what?

So we made her talk....and this is what she said.

Her boyfriend was taking her form behind and as he was about to cum he pulled out and spit all over her back....but secretly he came in his hand....

He told her to come kiss him and she spun around on the edge of the bed to do so and he flung his wad from his palm onto her face...(insert spiderman image shooting his white web here)...

She said she was shocked at first not really knowing what happened, then she laughed thinking how funny it was.

Of course all us guys were laughing and saying no wayyyyy. Her face was beat red by the time she was done telling the tell and I knew she was telling the truth.

Anyways, hows that for spitting? Anyone spidersense tingling rotflmao!

Sptting can be pretty hot. I do it once in a while. I have something of the "mean big brother" in me; every once in a while I just want to hold someone down, give them J. Edgars, flick their ears, noogies, dangle gross loogies in their face.

RR You are gross LOL

I am ok about spitting, it has always ben on my fantasy list.

Although the first time I panicked slighty, I have no idea why. The panic not the spitting was a surprise.

Its another aspect of ownership. Not something we do often but it hits that button in my mind thats tells me that I really am owned.

I like it as anal lube, its such a bad thing and slighty disgusting; which is good

A slight detour: DVS do you always use lube when you use her ass, or do you find that sometimes you can use juices from her cunt instead. Just curious.

Insert KC's *innocent look* here

shy slave said:

A slight detour: DVS do you always use lube when you use her ass, or do you find that sometimes you can use juices from her cunt instead. Just curious.

Insert KC's *innocent look* here

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It depends on the woman. I always think it's the safest route to take by using lube. I enjoy "going to town" back there and so I know lube will work well for that. But, yes, a woman's sex juices can be used, too.

I just like to be safe, and if she's bound and gagged, it's up to me to know what's going on. I like to think all of those whimpers are good ones, and not have to think of the bad. Now, if she's not gagged, it might be sexy to tell her she's so fucking wet that her jucies have run down the crack of her ass and coated her ass...giving me a head start.

As for spitting, I just don't like spitting. It's not in me. Maybe I'm a prissy guy, I don't know. I've never cared for spitting and think it's gross when I see someone hock up a big green one and let it go. YUCK. OK, enough about that.

But, I can see how others would see it as sexy to just spit on their captive's asshole and take her like that. It's a small amount of lube, and if that's all either of them need, then, I see nothing wrong with it. If they both think it's OK, then it's SS&C I guess. Pain is a relevent thing. Sometimes it's a good thing.

DVS said:

It depends on the woman. I always think it's the safest route to take by using lube. I enjoy "going to town" back there and so I know lube will work well for that. But, yes, a woman's sex juices can be used, too.

I just like to be safe, and if she's bound and gagged, it's up to me to know what's going on. I like to think all of those whimpers are good ones, and not have to think of the bad. Now, if she's not gagged, it might be sexy to tell her she's so fucking wet that her jucies have run down the crack of her ass and coated her ass...giving me a head start.

As for spitting, I just don't like spitting. It's not in me. Maybe I'm a prissy guy, I don't know. I've never cared for spitting and think it's gross when I see someone hock up a big green one and let it go. YUCK. OK, enough about that.

But, I can see how others would see it as sexy to just spit on their captive's asshole and take her like that. It's a small amount of lube, and if that's all either of them need, then, I see nothing wrong with it. If they both think it's OK, then it's SS&C I guess. Pain is a relevent thing. Sometimes it's a good thing.

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Blushing Bottom said:

Thanks Fury for noticing my av I chose it carefully as I choose all form of communication.

Now regarding the clip you saw. I've seen that many times and yes it is smoking hot. One day I'll have it done to me and I'll PM you telling you all about it,

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*smiles*

And you choose very well indeed!

I'd love you to PM me!

I felt the spitting in this case was for debasment. I LOVE the idea of being degrated like that but I don't know that I would be into it in RL.

It's sort of like spanking was before we tried it. I told my husband how hot thinking about it got me but I never asked him to do it. I even told him I might turn around and hit him or go into a frenzy.

When he tried it the first time, it was a very soft sort of faux spanking and it did make me wild. I was so touched he was trying it for me. My body was so turned on just from that. He told me he had never seen me react so strongly during sex, to anything the way I did that. When he started spanking for real that was even better.

Next week we will go spend the night away from the kids in a "honeymoon suite" at a Victorian BnB. I'm bringing the yard stick among other things. The kids hate the sound of it but we won't be home to bother them! *grins*

So, maybe we will do spitting someday too. Ya never know! It might just be the best thing yet.

Fury

complicity said:

Hey FF

Not seen you for a while. You haven’t gone and deserted me have you. You are my kindred spirit on the other side of the pond. Any how enough grovelling.

Personally speaking… my lady has a sexual blank chequebook, anything she would want to try I would go with at least once (twice or more if I liked it). I love anal and am not a hypocrite, so if she wanted to try a strap on and take control I’d go with that.
The spitting thing I think has to be taken in context. Spitting on a cock, pussy, anus to excite or lube or as part of a kiss is one thing, but to spit as a form of humiliation is just not my thing but I wouldn’t be grossed out by it if it got her hot. Mmm…. <snip>

* licks FF’s pussy as a good bye kiss. *

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You do WHAT as a goodbye kiss? LOL! Only a dog might get away with that and here I thought you were a gentleman. Oh but now that I think about it a man can be a dog. *gets lost thinking about dogs.*

Okay well, um no, I haven't deserted you or anyone, ever. That's not the way my life works at all. Y'all have to desert me, that's in my rules somewhere.

I've just been busy and kind of sick.

You know how it is.

I have seven gigs this week. Yikes!

Fury

RJMasters said:

While at college the other night I was talking with some of my friends there and there is this girl we call "satan". Actually kind of a shy girl, but she has tats and a lip ring and she seems more comfortable hanging around guys. Anyways, somehow oral sex cam up in the conversation and she told us that her boyfiend did a spiderman on her the other night which she gigled uncontrolably at all of us guys who just looked at her and said what?

So we made her talk....and this is what she said.

Her boyfriend was taking her form behind and as he was about to cum he pulled out and spit all over her back....but secretly he came in his hand....

He told her to come kiss him and she spun around on the edge of the bed to do so and he flung his wad from his palm onto her face...(insert spiderman image shooting his white web here)...

She said she was shocked at first not really knowing what happened, then she laughed thinking how funny it was.

Of course all us guys were laughing and saying no wayyyyy. Her face was beat red by the time she was done telling the tell and I knew she was telling the truth.

Anyways, hows that for spitting? Anyone spidersense tingling rotflmao!

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Great story RJ!

Thanks for sharing it with us!

Fury

We tried it without lube once except juices from our bodies. It hurt in a but not good way and I bled for a few days. That scared us both pretty badly. It took years to try it again.

I'm sooooo glad I did and this time we used lube.

It's was surprisingly FANTASTIC!!!

The only problem now is that I want to be fucked ALL the time like that. I am over eager. I sometimes don't wait to open that area up slowly and then it hurts but even then it's not all bad.

Fury

Blushing Bottom said:

Thanks Fury for noticing my av I chose it carefully as I choose all form of communication.

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Hi, BB.

I am always interested to hear how & why people chose their avs.

I had been past 100 posts for ages when Rebecca finally nagged me into putting one up. My first choice would be a photo of my face, for friendly get-to-know-up kinda reasons. But privacy issues preclude use of the face, so I chose a photo of one of my favorite flowers in my garden..... just because I like to look at it!

I have two questions about your av, BB. But they are sorta personal, so feel free to take the fifth.

Are you the girl in the picture?

And (since you described it as a "method of communication"), what are you trying to "say" by selecting this av?

Oh Alice you are a dear girl but to give up my secrets on the first request. What kind of girl do you think I am?

alice_underneath said:

Hi, BB.

I am always interested to hear how & why people chose their avs.

I had been past 100 posts for ages when Rebecca finally nagged me into putting one up. My first choice would be a photo of my face, for friendly get-to-know-up kinda reasons. But privacy issues preclude use of the face, so I chose a photo of one of my favorite flowers in my garden..... just because I like to look at it!

I have two questions about your av, BB. But they are sorta personal, so feel free to take the fifth.

Are you the girl in the picture?

And (since you described it as a "method of communication"), what are you trying to "say" by selecting this av?

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Blushing Bottom said:

Oh Alice you are a dear girl but to give up my secrets on the first request. What kind of girl do you think I am?

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Are you asking me to guess what the avatar says about you? If so, please tell me if you want an honest response, or a playful one.

Guess or don't guess dear Alice. It makes no monumental difference to me as you will judge as you wish and I don't care one way or the other what your judgement is.

alice_underneath said:

Are you asking me to guess what the avatar says about you? If so, please tell me if you want an honest response, or a playful one.

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Blushing Bottom said:

Guess or don't guess dear Alice. It makes no monumental difference to me as you will judge as you wish and I don't care one way or the other what your judgement is.

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I'm not trying to judge you, BB. This is a porn board, for god's sake!

I thought you were inviting this type of conversation when you wrote:

"Thanks Fury for noticing my av I chose it carefully as I choose all form of communication."

Since I was clearly mistaken, I'll drop the conversation now.

Alice

Blushing Bottom said:

I find both unappealing on several levels but will only mention two. Face slapping is risky and can result in brain stem trauma and spitting, well spitting is just plain unhealthy. Saliva carries both HIV & Hepatitis in small amounts.

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I guess kissing is also unhygenic.

Netzach said:

I guess kissing is also unhygenic.

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Well, if you use a dental dam it isn't.

Only if you're kissing an infected individual, but that goes witout saying no?

Netzach said:

I guess kissing is also unhygenic.

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