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irish_male

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So I think I need the group's help.

I adore, nay love the aesthetic, latex laden, corset wearing, knee high booted femme. I've had lovers who have indulged our shared interest and discussions have occurredd. There's a small catch, pain, rope-work, submission and so on have never been on the menu.

So my question is this, as simple as possible, what is a sexual attraction to a femdom aesthetic, minus the ball crushing and so on.

Is it just a form of role play? There is no role other than to the sexist fucker in the room.

If this is unclear - I love corset, boots, latex, but not the denial or any true bdsm elements. Just looking for some casual advice.

Thx. G
 
You can just be an apparel fetishist without being into the actions people think go with it.
 
some people are super turned on by other people wearing nothing, some by people wearing big floor length puffa coats, some by people wearing animal outfits (furries) and you, along with a bunch of people are turned on by women who wear fetish clothing associated with mainstream porns view of what bdsm is.

visual impact is a big thing and everyone likes what they like, even if they’re not into the associated activities.
 
Confused, you do know that wearing a corset has nothing to do with bdsm?

A corset it a part of apparel, worn by generations of women.

Not clear what "casual advice" you would be looking for!
 
So I think I need the group's help.

I adore, nay love the aesthetic, latex laden, corset wearing, knee high booted femme. I've had lovers who have indulged our shared interest and discussions have occurredd. There's a small catch, pain, rope-work, submission and so on have never been on the menu.

So my question is this, as simple as possible, what is a sexual attraction to a femdom aesthetic, minus the ball crushing and so on.

Is it just a form of role play? There is no role other than to the sexist fucker in the room.

If this is unclear - I love corset, boots, latex, but not the denial or any true bdsm elements. Just looking for some casual advice.

Thx. G

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