Nicolette (My Wife)

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Hello everyone,
I am not sure how to approach the topic, I don't even know that if I should share this online but this is my only outlet. I think I will start by introducing myself and my wife. I am Mark, 27 years old, my wife Nicolette she's 27 too and we have been married for almost 7 years now. She was my highschool sweetheart and we wanted to marry right after highschool but due to some family matters we were unable to do so. Though when things looked on the brighter side we got married readily. Nicolette is quite the gorgeous woman and bombshell. She's just as amazing from inside as she is from outside. I am not afraid to admit that she's entirely out of my league. She's the kind of woman every man would lust after.
Continuing with what I mean to tell you, this all started about half an year ago when my wife met Jason. She was out with her friends on her occasional 'girl's night out' and one of her friends introduced her to Jason. They both hit it off from the start based on their mutual interest of art. My wife is a keen drawing enthusiast and Jason is a great sketch artist so the conversation was inevitable. My wife told me about him when she came back and I completely ignored it. She met him a few times and Nicolette soon joined the classes after her work hours had been reduced. I was happy for her as she really enjoyed drawing and he seemed to enjoy it too. It's something she always wanted but could enevr get me along due to my little to almost no interest in it. She soon began to stay late and even have dinner at his house occasionally, though she would inform me everytime. He also joined her workplace in the time of a few weeks, though she did tell me that they rarely see each other and their works were completely different.
Nicolette once told me that he went to the same school as us. I tried to remember who she was talking about but I only had a fading memory of him as we didn't had much of an interaction except for a few occasions. From what I recall, he was a bully, douchebag back in school, he used to beat kids up for fun.
Recently this thing happened which started this whole thing rolling in my mind and I can't get over past it. They were going out with their colleagues for a business dinner and she innocently referred to their dinner as 'a date'. For that comment changed the way I looked and felt about them. To me, it was like she was really out on a date with her lover, the thought really excited me. She looks amazing all the time. She really outdid herself that night wearing this really sexy sheer mesh black glitter dress.The hem of the skirt ended a little above her knees and the top had a V-neck which showed off her marvelous deep cleavage. It was clear that she was dressed to impress. He came in to pick Nicolette up wearing a classy suit. Now Jason is a big, strong, handsomd man who's same age as the two of us, he's got a charming and rather dominant personality. He's the ideal, rolemodel kind of man, I think that I should admit it, I fear that he's much more the man than I ever will be. He really looked good that night. She came home at about 10 pm and by the time I was complete mess, I was dying to know what happened but she told me that it was kind of boring night. That was a sort of relief but I did secretly hoped that something had happened between them. They look fantastic together and they seem to know this. Maybe they didn't notice it but they really looked like a couple and seemed to fit in perfectly.
To my surprise, she nonchalantly admitted that he was really hot and attractive a few times and that she would have dated him if I wasn't in her life. That comment really pulled some strings in me. So the bottom like with all this is I really, honestly do think there is something to this. I know from watching them together there is a very strong mutual attraction and a fun and flirty nature to their demeanor with each other. They always were flirty even before their 'date". Now , well it does give me really dirty thoughts. Maybe something has already happened, maybe not, I am so confused, it's like a train of emotions for me. But as crazy as it may sound really want it to happen. When they are together around me I seem to enter in to some weird trance where I am just froze in once place, transfixed as things happen around me. Sort of like I am in completely other world, it's really hard to explain.. All I know is that as a "couple" they look great, maybe even sexy. I know my beautiful wife finds Jason attractive and that excites me.
I also thing from all the rumours back in school that Jason is much much more endowed than I am. That's another thing that fuels this fantasy I guess. I think that my wife knows how big he is but I am not sure.
So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak and attraction is there. I know that both have morals, maybe this is where I should interlude, I just don't know what to do! But I have seriously thought about it many times, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.
 
I have never gone that far as sharing my wife, though I too have fantasies about it. I’m responding mainly to tell you that you’re not alone in your feelings and desires. However, my experience in life tells me that you should have an open and honest conversation with your wife about this, and make her feel safe to share any all her feelings, as I think it would be better that you come to an understanding about this relationship dynamic rather than her feeling the need to possibly cheat on you. It sounds like you have a great relationship with your wife and I’m sure it will only grow stronger with your ability to share and embrace your honesty. I’m sure their are better and more experienced people on here who can share their real life experiences with you to help you along this path.

Cheers

KIK: kinkietwist
 
I think before you can figure out what to DO you need to figure out what you WANT. I understand this is a fantasy many men have and while I don't share it, reading your description of the situation as a whole definitely turns me on - I think more the chemistry between the two of them coupled with the "moral" restraints creates a delicious tension. But my thoughts for you reading this is that you probably would want to take some action and be involved in some way rather than 'letting nature take it's course.' If them being together is something you WANT but you also want to minimize the risk of losing her, then you're probably better off being an active participant in the process. Like if it happens on it's own (or already is) then you are out of the loop so you get all the risk and none of the reward! But if you're part of it and everyone is amenable, then it would be a much more relaxed 'affair' and might have amazing potential for all of you.
Then again, I'm sure it's a difficult/risky conversation to have. If she has similar thoughts (can't deny the attraction but loves you and doesn't want to lose you) then you could be her hero by opening the door to a more open relationship. On the other hand, it could send the message that you don't care enough about her to want her all for yourself - I know that's not your feelings, but it could be her perception.
Do you guys talk about sex openly? Are you at all 'kinky' or at least open to conversations without judgment? I'm thinking about ways to tiptoe up to the edge of the conversation and feel her out. Maybe watch some mild cuckold or at least threesome porn together? Tell her how you love seeing her worked up and can't help but wonder what it would be like if you could clone yourself so two guys could fuck her (with the obvious next step of opening it to another guy if she likes that path). It sounds like being an active participant (sharing her in a threesome) isn't exactly what you might want, but just as a way to more safely open up the conversation.
Good luck figuring it out!
 
As a husband with experience in this area I'm going to advise you to be pro active. I wouldn't let "nature take its course" without your involvement. An affair without you in the picture and you risk losing her to him. Tell your wife you can see the sexual attraction she has to him and that you approve. Tell her it arouses you and she has your blessing to start a sexual relationship with him. Just be sure that you are indeed 110% on board yourself.
 
sharing

Hello everyone,
I am not sure how to approach the topic, I don't even know that if I should share this online but this is my only outlet. I think I will start by introducing myself and my wife. I am Mark, 27 years old, my wife Nicolette she's 27 too and we have been married for almost 7 years now. She was my highschool sweetheart and we wanted to marry right after highschool but due to some family matters we were unable to do so. Though when things looked on the brighter side we got married readily. Nicolette is quite the gorgeous woman and bombshell. She's just as amazing from inside as she is from outside. I am not afraid to admit that she's entirely out of my league. She's the kind of woman every man would lust after.
Continuing with what I mean to tell you, this all started about half an year ago when my wife met Jason. She was out with her friends on her occasional 'girl's night out' and one of her friends introduced her to Jason. They both hit it off from the start based on their mutual interest of art. My wife is a keen drawing enthusiast and Jason is a great sketch artist so the conversation was inevitable. My wife told me about him when she came back and I completely ignored it. She met him a few times and Nicolette soon joined the classes after her work hours had been reduced. I was happy for her as she really enjoyed drawing and he seemed to enjoy it too. It's something she always wanted but could enevr get me along due to my little to almost no interest in it. She soon began to stay late and even have dinner at his house occasionally, though she would inform me everytime. He also joined her workplace in the time of a few weeks, though she did tell me that they rarely see each other and their works were completely different.
Nicolette once told me that he went to the same school as us. I tried to remember who she was talking about but I only had a fading memory of him as we didn't had much of an interaction except for a few occasions. From what I recall, he was a bully, douchebag back in school, he used to beat kids up for fun.
Recently this thing happened which started this whole thing rolling in my mind and I can't get over past it. They were going out with their colleagues for a business dinner and she innocently referred to their dinner as 'a date'. For that comment changed the way I looked and felt about them. To me, it was like she was really out on a date with her lover, the thought really excited me. She looks amazing all the time. She really outdid herself that night wearing this really sexy sheer mesh black glitter dress.The hem of the skirt ended a little above her knees and the top had a V-neck which showed off her marvelous deep cleavage. It was clear that she was dressed to impress. He came in to pick Nicolette up wearing a classy suit. Now Jason is a big, strong, handsomd man who's same age as the two of us, he's got a charming and rather dominant personality. He's the ideal, rolemodel kind of man, I think that I should admit it, I fear that he's much more the man than I ever will be. He really looked good that night. She came home at about 10 pm and by the time I was complete mess, I was dying to know what happened but she told me that it was kind of boring night. That was a sort of relief but I did secretly hoped that something had happened between them. They look fantastic together and they seem to know this. Maybe they didn't notice it but they really looked like a couple and seemed to fit in perfectly.
To my surprise, she nonchalantly admitted that he was really hot and attractive a few times and that she would have dated him if I wasn't in her life. That comment really pulled some strings in me. So the bottom like with all this is I really, honestly do think there is something to this. I know from watching them together there is a very strong mutual attraction and a fun and flirty nature to their demeanor with each other. They always were flirty even before their 'date". Now , well it does give me really dirty thoughts. Maybe something has already happened, maybe not, I am so confused, it's like a train of emotions for me. But as crazy as it may sound really want it to happen. When they are together around me I seem to enter in to some weird trance where I am just froze in once place, transfixed as things happen around me. Sort of like I am in completely other world, it's really hard to explain.. All I know is that as a "couple" they look great, maybe even sexy. I know my beautiful wife finds Jason attractive and that excites me.
I also thing from all the rumours back in school that Jason is much much more endowed than I am. That's another thing that fuels this fantasy I guess. I think that my wife knows how big he is but I am not sure.
So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak and attraction is there. I know that both have morals, maybe this is where I should interlude, I just don't know what to do! But I have seriously thought about it many times, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.


Your fantasy is a very common one. The problem is, you are not in control and in my opinion to continue on this path will ruin your marriage. You have some deep down animosity towards this guy and anything that happens will only be met with jealousy and anger. His intentions I'm sure are not noble ones. Sharing is one thing, possession is another. If your wife falls into a romantic relationship with this guy it will eventually phase you out. This is the absolute wrong time to even suggest this event. You need to sit down with your wife and discuss how you feel about her hanging with this guy. It always starts out innocent until it's not. If she loves you she'll listen to your concerns and do something about it. Don't wait until you hear from her those infamous words " it's not you it's me". Sharing is hot but, it has to be enjoyed when both of you are on solid footing and your marriage is strong. I think sharing is an act of love, giving your partner something you can't give her, such as, the enjoyment of a bigger cock, or fulfilling a long time fantasy without coercion but doing things behind each others back can only result in mistrust and eventually breaking up your partnership with your wife. I believe from what you wrote that the seeds of mistrust have already been sewn. I think the best environment for sharing is when neither of you have any emotional ties to the person you want to share her with. If you think sharing her at this time is going to strengthen your marriage your wrong. If your afraid of him because he's a bully you better be prepared to fight for her. By no means am I belittlelling her cerebral capacity, she has a mind and needs to be part of the solution. You just don't decide to share her, after all she has some say in this, lots of discussion is needed between you two. My humble opinion.
 
Hello everyone,
I am not sure how to approach the topic, I don't even know that if I should share this online but this is my only outlet. I think I will start by introducing myself and my wife. I am Mark, 27 years old, my wife Nicolette she's 27 too and we have been married for almost 7 years now. She was my highschool sweetheart and we wanted to marry right after highschool but due to some family matters we were unable to do so. Though when things looked on the brighter side we got married readily. Nicolette is quite the gorgeous woman and bombshell. She's just as amazing from inside as she is from outside. I am not afraid to admit that she's entirely out of my league. She's the kind of woman every man would lust after.
Continuing with what I mean to tell you, this all started about half an year ago when my wife met Jason. She was out with her friends on her occasional 'girl's night out' and one of her friends introduced her to Jason. They both hit it off from the start based on their mutual interest of art. My wife is a keen drawing enthusiast and Jason is a great sketch artist so the conversation was inevitable. My wife told me about him when she came back and I completely ignored it. She met him a few times and Nicolette soon joined the classes after her work hours had been reduced. I was happy for her as she really enjoyed drawing and he seemed to enjoy it too. It's something she always wanted but could enevr get me along due to my little to almost no interest in it. She soon began to stay late and even have dinner at his house occasionally, though she would inform me everytime. He also joined her workplace in the time of a few weeks, though she did tell me that they rarely see each other and their works were completely different.
Nicolette once told me that he went to the same school as us. I tried to remember who she was talking about but I only had a fading memory of him as we didn't had much of an interaction except for a few occasions. From what I recall, he was a bully, douchebag back in school, he used to beat kids up for fun.
Recently this thing happened which started this whole thing rolling in my mind and I can't get over past it. They were going out with their colleagues for a business dinner and she innocently referred to their dinner as 'a date'. For that comment changed the way I looked and felt about them. To me, it was like she was really out on a date with her lover, the thought really excited me. She looks amazing all the time. She really outdid herself that night wearing this really sexy sheer mesh black glitter dress.The hem of the skirt ended a little above her knees and the top had a V-neck which showed off her marvelous deep cleavage. It was clear that she was dressed to impress. He came in to pick Nicolette up wearing a classy suit. Now Jason is a big, strong, handsomd man who's same age as the two of us, he's got a charming and rather dominant personality. He's the ideal, rolemodel kind of man, I think that I should admit it, I fear that he's much more the man than I ever will be. He really looked good that night. She came home at about 10 pm and by the time I was complete mess, I was dying to know what happened but she told me that it was kind of boring night. That was a sort of relief but I did secretly hoped that something had happened between them. They look fantastic together and they seem to know this. Maybe they didn't notice it but they really looked like a couple and seemed to fit in perfectly.
To my surprise, she nonchalantly admitted that he was really hot and attractive a few times and that she would have dated him if I wasn't in her life. That comment really pulled some strings in me. So the bottom like with all this is I really, honestly do think there is something to this. I know from watching them together there is a very strong mutual attraction and a fun and flirty nature to their demeanor with each other. They always were flirty even before their 'date". Now , well it does give me really dirty thoughts. Maybe something has already happened, maybe not, I am so confused, it's like a train of emotions for me. But as crazy as it may sound really want it to happen. When they are together around me I seem to enter in to some weird trance where I am just froze in once place, transfixed as things happen around me. Sort of like I am in completely other world, it's really hard to explain.. All I know is that as a "couple" they look great, maybe even sexy. I know my beautiful wife finds Jason attractive and that excites me.
I also thing from all the rumours back in school that Jason is much much more endowed than I am. That's another thing that fuels this fantasy I guess. I think that my wife knows how big he is but I am not sure.
So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak and attraction is there. I know that both have morals, maybe this is where I should interlude, I just don't know what to do! But I have seriously thought about it many times, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.

Check her panties after she gets home and hops into the shower. If she is fucking him bareback there should be some evidence. If she is really juicy, maybe just pussy juice.
 
Hey guys thank you for all the advice that you gave me and I have finally decided to discuss it with her tonight after she comes home from her Mom's. I hope that everything goes well and she takes my fantasies in consideration or rather she acts on it.
Though I am really glad for all the help you all gave, it really helped me to view the topic over again with much clearity and made me realize the importance of discussion of such topics.
Though the reason for this update is completely different, I had this dream last night which I think may be due to all the though running in my mind for a past few weeks. It was nothing too sexual, my wife had invited him for dinner with us everything went on smoothly except for some casual flirt between the two though what really excited me is when he was about to leave, he leaned in towards my wife and squeezed her tits through her top, it was a nice, long squeeze and he winked at me before leaving. My wife was clearly blushing as her breathes had somewhat become heavy, thats all i recall. I am actually really glad that my wife isn't home because I woke up all sweaty with a huge wet patch on my pants, I just realised that I had cum from my dream of my wife and Jason! It's like.. it's hard to explain but I have never felt anything stronger, it's almost of completely different magnitude. Though I do hope that everything goes well tonight. Wish me luck guys and thanks for the advice, I will try to update as soon as possible.
 
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Hey guys thank you for all the advice that you gave me and I have finally decided to discuss it with her tonight after she comes home from her Mom's. I hope that everything goes well and she takes my fantasies in consideration or rather she acts on it.
Though I am really glad for all the help you all gave, it really helped me to view the topic over again with much clearity and made me realize the importance of discussion of such topics.
Though the reason for this update is completely different, I had this dream last night which I think may be due to all the though running in my mind for a past few weeks. It was nothing too sexual, my wife had invited him for dinner with us everything went on smoothly except for some casual flirt between the two though what really excited me is when he was about to leave, he leaned in towards my wife and squeezed her tits through her top, it was a nice, long squeeze and he winked at me before leaving. My wife was clearly blushing as her breathes had somewhat become heavy, thats all i recall. I am actually really glad that my wife isn't home because I woke up all sweaty with a huge wet patch on my pants, I just realised that I had cum from my dream of my wife and Jason! It's like.. it's hard to explain but I have never felt anything stronger, it's almost of completely different magnitude. Though I do hope that everything goes well tonight. Wish me luck guys and thanks for the advice, I will try to update as soon as possible.

BIG MISTAKE!! Your not ready. Let me know when she wants to be with him instead of you because that's the direction your going. You're making this all about you and your fantasy.
 
only 1 choice sadly

All you can do is close out joint accounts, take your money and put it into your own account.

Get rid of ALL joint accounts and credit cards. Takes longer then the stories on here would have you think.

Once that's done you get a divorce lawyer.

Your done, you've been replaced. It sucks majorly but at least you have the ability to say shes only cheated on you with one person.

you got married to soon. And apparently are one of the classic examples of "good looking women marry their highschool boyfriend or college boyfriend at graduation so they don't have to worry about being single till mister good looking comes along."

MY personal solution would involve shovels
 
BIG MISTAKE!! Your not ready. Let me know when she wants to be with him instead of you because that's the direction your going. You're making this all about you and your fantasy.

I don't know man, I think I am ready because we have had this conversation a few times in the past to be honest. And she did admit that she finds the idea hot.
 
I don't know man, I think I am ready because we have had this conversation a few times in the past to be honest. And she did admit that she finds the idea hot.

@ IM12: The idea may be hot, the reality may be somewhat different! Best of luck as you move forward.
 
Hey guys thanks for all the feedback and the advice, I thought it over and over in my head, like a simulation running non-stop for like hundred times and i have carefully registered all the effects our life and marriage would have if we do started living out the fantasy. Jason is a changed man now, he's not previously what he used to be but this isn't about him anymore, hell my wife doesn't even like him, you should read what I wrote later in this post for that. I know that we still have a long time ahead of us, that's were I am having mixed emotions you know, I feel like it's now or never, but also that we should explore our marriage first, it's hard to describe and my avatar is not my wife. I completely agree that no fantasy is worth my marriage that's why I have thought it over and over until I was assured.
So my wife came early in the evening, we had a nice chat about what she did at her mom's and after a nice dinner we both relaxed on the couch cuddling each other. I could barely make proper words but I took a deep breathe and kissed her on the cheek and told her about the dream I had. I told her everything that I told you guys and she was intently listening the whole thing. After I finished, she leaned in closer to me, out her arms around me and whispered in my ear 'Did that turn you on?' and that sentence, it's still ringing in my ears, I quickly replied yes. Just after that the conversation took a serious note and she said that she had considered about my fantasy( I told her a few years after our marriage about it), especially when I started to make it obvious a few years ago, she's been thinking about it since. She did confess that she is really turned on by it too, but she thinks that Jason isn't the man for that! We also discussed the implications that it would induce in our marriage and social life so as to say. Nicolette told me that she never liked Jason and she would never do it with him, though she confessed that umm she did like another guy! I was practically sweating by this time. I eagerly asked her about this man, she told me that he's Tyson! I think I almost fainted out, Tyson of all men, he's like he's been our best friend for years!! He's like the nicest guy we have ever known! She went on to explain that she is pretty much turned on by him and she always had a fantasy for black guys! I was so shocked, I had could barely speak! My head is still spinning around the fact that she like Tyson! She relaxed me by kissing me and caressing my face, she told me that she would do it only if it's fine with me! She said that she loves me more than anything and it's just a fantasy nothing more, it would never harm our marriage or the love she has for me! I was like practically in tears when she said that guys.
We had discussed every aspect of the fantasy for almost 4-5 hours and we agreed that we shouldn't do it just yet we should prepare for it beforehand.
That's about it, we had dinner and went to bed after that, I am so relieved by that conversation, I slept like a kid after a long time. We have planned to discuss on it more later today and also about Tyson. Though I am glad for all the advice guys! I will try to update later after we have our conversation again, be well until then guys and be happy!
 
Hey guys thanks for all the feedback and the advice, I thought it over and over in my head, like a simulation running non-stop for like hundred times and i have carefully registered all the effects our life and marriage would have if we do started living out the fantasy. Jason is a changed man now, he's not previously what he used to be but this isn't about him anymore, hell my wife doesn't even like him, you should read what I wrote later in this post for that. I know that we still have a long time ahead of us, that's were I am having mixed emotions you know, I feel like it's now or never, but also that we should explore our marriage first, it's hard to describe and my avatar is not my wife. I completely agree that no fantasy is worth my marriage that's why I have thought it over and over until I was assured.
So my wife came early in the evening, we had a nice chat about what she did at her mom's and after a nice dinner we both relaxed on the couch cuddling each other. I could barely make proper words but I took a deep breathe and kissed her on the cheek and told her about the dream I had. I told her everything that I told you guys and she was intently listening the whole thing. After I finished, she leaned in closer to me, out her arms around me and whispered in my ear 'Did that turn you on?' and that sentence, it's still ringing in my ears, I quickly replied yes. Just after that the conversation took a serious note and she said that she had considered about my fantasy( I told her a few years after our marriage about it), especially when I started to make it obvious a few years ago, she's been thinking about it since. She did confess that she is really turned on by it too, but she thinks that Jason isn't the man for that! We also discussed the implications that it would induce in our marriage and social life so as to say. Nicolette told me that she never liked Jason and she would never do it with him, though she confessed that umm she did like another guy! I was practically sweating by this time. I eagerly asked her about this man, she told me that he's Tyson! I think I almost fainted out, Tyson of all men, he's like he's been our best friend for years!! He's like the nicest guy we have ever known! She went on to explain that she is pretty much turned on by him and she always had a fantasy for black guys! I was so shocked, I had could barely speak! My head is still spinning around the fact that she like Tyson! She relaxed me by kissing me and caressing my face, she told me that she would do it only if it's fine with me! She said that she loves me more than anything and it's just a fantasy nothing more, it would never harm our marriage or the love she has for me! I was like practically in tears when she said that guys.
We had discussed every aspect of the fantasy for almost 4-5 hours and we agreed that we shouldn't do it just yet we should prepare for it beforehand.
That's about it, we had dinner and went to bed after that, I am so relieved by that conversation, I slept like a kid after a long time. We have planned to discuss on it more later today and also about Tyson. Though I am glad for all the advice guys! I will try to update later after we have our conversation again, be well until then guys and be happy!

That's much better. Now your up front with each other and the fantasy has become one with both of you. Now it's about you enjoying her fantasy. Now keep discussing and maybe do some roundabout planning. Invite Tyson over to your home for a barb-b-q or something where you can spend some time with each other. Make Tyson feel comfortable with you guys. Have Nicolette dress in something sexy and flirt him up. I'm sure behind her back he'll compliment her up and down. If he flirts back make him feel comfortable, he'll probably try to apologize to you for being attracted to your wife, just tell him she love the attention and go from there and have fun. I wish you could share her with me LOL
 
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