men, do you want to see your wife with another man?

GoldStarBiker said:

I gave my wife full permission to have side lovers and dates but she won't take me up on the offer

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paul466 said:

A few months back I posted about my wife videoing her fucking another man while she was with me on a business trip. That happened about four years ago. Since then we've talked and fantasized about her fucking someone else again but with me watching in person. But we haven't done it. Well last Saturday night as we were in some heavy foreplay she stopped me and said she wanted to tell me something. She asked me if I remembered the salesman that visits her office every six weeks or so...she had told me that he was very flirty toward her whenever he visited, I told her that yes I remember him. Well she said he was at her office the previous Thursday , he normally takes my wife and a couple of other people in her office out to lunch when he visits. He is from out of state and stays in a hotel while in town, he is married with kids, about 44 yrs old. This visit my wife was the only one in the office that could break away for lunch with him. As I said he is always flirty with my wife and she admits that it is a turn on so as they got in his car to go to lunch she said she caught him several times stealing glances at her legs...she had on a thigh length skirt which when sitting did showcase her tanned legs...their eyes met as she caught him sneaking a peek. He apologized and said he couldn't help himself. He told her that her legs and thighs were turning him on. She told me that it turned her on for him to be checking her out. Anyway they get to the restaurant and get a table sitting across from each other . They make small talk and he keeps telling her how pretty and sexy she is and he keeps looking at her tits because it's cold in the restaurant and her big nipples are hard and poking thru. She said the hunger in his eyes as he looked at her was making her wet. He half jokingly and half seriously told her that he'd love to get her in his hotel room for some real "customer relations". When he said that she told me that she almost came in her panties. She told him that she was tempted but she was trying to be a good girl. After they finished eating, they made their way to his car, by this time she said she was incredibly turned on thinking about his hotel room remark and she was also turned on knowing that I would be soo turned on by this too. When she got into the car she purposely let her dress climb up very high on her thighs so that he would get a clear view of her legs and her white sheer panties. He climbed in the car and immediately noticed the view she was giving him. He leaned over and placed a hand on her upper thigh very close to her panty clad pussy. She leaned over and kissed him deeply ...they began to make out heavily and he slid his hand up to her pussy and began to rub her thru her panties, she said she was soaking wet. She reached over and felt his hard cock thru his pants...she said he was very long and thick. She was running her hand along the length of his manhood as he slid her panties to the side and inserted his middle finger into her. I was going wild as she was relating this to me !! Anyway they were going at it I his car...he told her he wanted to fuck her right now and she said she came so close to fucking him right there in his car but she pulled herself together and stopped everything. She explained that she couldn't without talking to me. She told him that I wanted her to fuck another man, but she had promised that I would be there to watch. He was dissapointed but said for us to come to his room that night. As it turned out we had prior plans ...dammit! But we talked about it and she emailed him and asked would he be interested in fucking her with me watching the next time he is in town in July . He said hell yeah !!! So I'll be relating that story when it happens ! By the way after she told me this we fucked like wild animals !!

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rijubhai said:

It was one of my deepest fantasies to see my wife get fucked by another man. My fascination with the concept of wife-sharing began way back when I was a teenager (before I was even married!). I was curious about the psychological ramifications it entailed and how a couple could justify the breaking of a marital bond. More importantly, I was interested with the wife's participation because she was the core "component" of cuckolding and it was her feelings, emotions that orchestrated everything.

Culturally, I was raised and instilled with the belief that the role a woman played in a marriage was to be faithful and devoted to her husband; the idea of her straying or harbouring illicit thoughts was deemed to be bordering on blasphemy! So, it was strange that my contemplations about a wife (my future wife?) being naughty behind her husband's back actually turned me on!

Watching films like Unlawful Entry (where I wished the wife would fuck the demented cop) and select 'wife-themed' 70's porn added fuel to my curious fire and the fetish (if it can be called that) stayed in the back of my mind until I was married.

Of course, when you are madly in love with your wife, in the Honeymoon stage of the marriage, the thought of sharing is unthinkable. A few years later, I was still deeply in love with her, though the 'lust-filled possessive' phase had petered out into a mutual romantic understanding. Suffice to say, my feelings about wife-sharing had returned.

Sadly, and perhaps fortunately, there was the stark realization that my wife was not sympathetic to my fantasies. She drew a line and I toed it; any more broaching of the subject was strictly out of the question and futile. Frustrated, I had to make do with my fantasies.

There were countless times where I dreamed and fantasized about my wife fucking men that were interesting enough to be compatible mates for her. These hypothetical lovers included my brother, her brother-in-law, our neighbour, a couple of eccentrics in their 50s who were widowed themselves and were close friends of my father, the plumber, the electrician... etc. In a nutshell, anyone who I felt could be good enough to satisfy my wife and giver her multiple orgasms and for my own fantasy-fuelled orgasms.

A few more years later, something happened that I did not expect. Late one night, having found her mobile phone lying on the sofa in the living room while she slept upstairs, I decided to be nosy and check her text messages. The wind was sucked from my lungs when I discovered she was having a "long distance SMS affair" with a former boyfriend (he lived in another country) and it had be going on for a few weeks. The reality came crashing down around me and my feelings were torn to shreds when I learned that she had professed her love for him. If there was a cuckold in me, he was emphatically banished because the feelings of betrayal and jealousy were overwhelming; there was no way I was going to lose my wife and there was no way the coward in me would get the opportunity to rejoice.

Fast forward a few more years, after some soul-searching and re-bonding we have recovered from that ordeal and our marriage is stronger than ever. My fears and doubts have long since been dispelled and in their stead resides complete trust and contentment. I have learned a few things over the continuing course of our marriage and one of them is that my wife will always be beside me come what may. The one issue that previously fed my fears about her text affair was the possibility of her leaving me. Deep down we both knew this would never be the case, especially after I had learned from her that her affair was just harmless (yet foolish) fun that escalated beyond flirtation and the "love" she had for him was of fondness, not romantic. That love, she reserved for me and only me.

Despite all this, I sit here typing with a familiar feeling. Yes, my wife-sharing fantasies have returned, though they are remarkably distinct from my earlier cravings. I'd have thought that harbouring such thoughts would be detrimental, but I no longer feel jealousy, possessiveness and fear at the thought of my wife being with her lover or any other man for that matter; I state this with utmost sincerity and clarity. There is just no negative reaction any more, on the contrary, I feel deep satisfaction and at peace with the notion of my wife being pleasured by somebody other than me.

The feeling I would experience has a name and it's called compersion; without implicit trust it just wouldn't happen. I am no cuckold because I derive no pleasure from being humiliated. However, I can readily identify myself as being a Candaulist and a Troilist. It would be extremely pleasurable for me to expose my wife to another man or even watch this voyeuristic incident turn into a flirtatious or sexual one, with my wife's full consent of course.

Even though she has returned to being a faithful wife, and I have told her this, I would not stop her from seeing another man. The reasons for the change in my attitude has her intrigued, yet she is content with the relationship we have now, for the time being. There is hope yet so I can only be patient.

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silvertongu3 said:

You're not that odd. I don't think I could handle seeing my wife with another man. Especially if his cock was bigger than mine and my wife ends up going fucking batty on it, doing all the things I've always wanted her to do with me. I think the jealousy would eat me alive.

Funny though, I'm hard thinking about it. Dammit.

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BlackLawyer4WF said:

The reality is: it's about the husband and what he can handle. In my experience, the wife is usually cool with it, and down for anything. It's the husband's limitations and anxiety that create the problems. So I try to find out what's up the husband and where he's at in accepting that he wants this. Fix his problems and the wife is game.

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