gentlefeline
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Thought it would be nice to know what the 3rd sex is doing and thinking.
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Thought it would be nice to know what the 3rd sex is doing and thinking.
3rd sex? WTF? Sorry, I'm just a guy underneath the clothes and makeup... HahaKant
I must say I am very attracted to men transgendering. I love that they are women first on the inside, then dress and make up and breasts on the outside while still choosing (in some cases) to keep their penises. I do not consider them as porn stars but like everyone else people that want to live freely and be who they are.Long or short answer?
Here’s what I’m doing: I work in a university science department - a job I love and I’m lucky to have. The university are legally bound to be an equal opportunity employer and cannot discriminate, but even so, they got the best person for the job All the people here are pretty open minded, some are LGBT themselves and it’s no big deal: they want our brains.
When I’m not working, I attend a lot of functions run on the campus and that’s pretty much my social life. I swim, do pilates, dinghy sail.
Thinking? I’ve become increasingly vocal on feminist and LGBT issues because I can’t walk past or not speak up when I see something that’s inherently wrong or unjust.
Tbh I do get a bit tired of the numerous trans image threads, but I guess cis-gender women do as well. I really get it that we’re seen as being sexy, but it’s frustrating that everything is so penis / chick-with-dick orientated because we’re not just that. Remember some of us have never been comfortable about having a penis. Having said that, I PM’d the OP a while ago, thanking them for posting images that weren’t all dick and that some were even clothed Those help - even a few
Like I said though - porn is porn and if you meet one of us in the flesh, then be polite and unhitch your brain from the idea that we’re all porn stars and sex-crazy. You wouldn’t make assumptions about any cis-gendered person you meet, so you shouldn’t with trans folk either.
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I must say I am very attracted to men transgendering. I love that they are women first on the inside, then dress and make up and breasts on the outside while still choosing (in some cases) to keep their penises. I do not consider them as porn stars but like everyone else people that want to live freely and be who they are.
My attraction is no different to men and women being attracted to each other or same sex people being attracted to each other.
We should all get to be who we are. And we should all feel free to enjoy relationships we feel happy or excited about.
I agreeThe T girls I know mainly want to be accepted for wanting to be female. Its a simple human need that doesnt always have such an uber-sexual role to it. Its about acceptance and the dignity of the individual. I learned that in school 50 years ago.
That's really sweet of you xx TYLots of people struggle to be themselves. I can't imagine what it must be like to know who you are but have that challenged at every turn not just by society but in lots of cases by my own body. I wish I was half as brave as those of you who overcome such obstacles each and every day. There's nothing more sexy than courage like that.
Plenty of people transition later in life. Sure, testosterone has taken its toll and when you have established your place in the world, it seems crazy to tear it all down and start agiain. That's as much of a problem as knowing who you are. By why make these things so binary? Aren't we being told there is no binary, only a spectrum? Isn't it more important to be true to yourself than fulfil society's expectations of what gender is or isn't? Don't let society dictate to you - you set the goals. You can stay living the life of a guy, but keep your true self a secret from the world: there is no "fail" in that.Like most, a lot of my thoughts are confused; I wish I'd known what this feeling was sooner, that I'd done something about it earlier in life. Mostly, I just think I've left things too late now.
Plenty of people transition later in life. Sure, testosterone has taken its toll and when you have established your place in the world, it seems crazy to tear it all down and start agiain. That's as much of a problem as knowing who you are. By why make these things so binary? Aren't we being told there is no binary, only a spectrum? Isn't it more important to be true to yourself than fulfil society's expectations of what gender is or isn't? Don't let society dictate to you - you set the goals. You can stay living the life of a guy, but keep your true self a secret from the world: there is no "fail" in that.
...but only you can know. Baby steps one at a time - you can step back as well as forward because it's your journey. Being trans can be a blessing in many ways, not a curse. It is down to you how you express yourself.
I'm sorry if that comes across as airy-fairy idealism, but I'm just trying to say don't be too hard on yourself. Don't look at the mountain but just the next step
Silky
Since my transition, I'm much less sexualised and sexually frustrated: I am content. I would date - I will date, but I'm not exactly looking ( maybe that is shorthand for avoiding? ). Part of that is me getting used to me, but I like to think I'm a good judge of character and no one has really lit my wick yet. Add to that all the complications that come with not being able to have my own kids, so even if I did meet someone accepting - that kinda narrows the field yet more.
That's really sweet of you xx TY
Thought it would be nice to know what the 3rd sex is doing and thinking.
Dear Gentle:
Thanks for starting this thread to open up the conversation on third gender.
I have often thought that if my situation had been different years ago, I would have wanted to be, bi-gendered. Ok, no one freak out by yet an other term. For me this means being able to express my self as either gender as I feel the need to. There are times where I want to be very girly and wear heels and a skirt and other times not.
Just my two cents.
Kate