Stella_Omega
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How about "cocksuckers R us" and "GLBT talk."
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How about "cocksuckers R us" and "GLBT talk."
This.I suspect what people are getting disgusted for is that the guys saying they like to suck dick but 'aren't gay' are in effect saying there is something wrong with being bi or gay in some way, that they are saying 'no, no, I am a manly man, but I like to suck dick, but I be a manly man" and such...and I agree, it is disparaging of gays,
And this.it is as offensive to me as people who see 'dressing up' as a woman as being automatically humiliating or dehumanizing or whatever.
BTW, please do nudge me if I don't come back to this soon. Packing is really stressing me out, hah. Only 2.5 weeks left here in Japan! But I do want to give this attention.
I am insanely impressed by your self control there!*nudge*
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P.S. The fuckwaffle dude asking about bisexual lesbians eating pussy DEFINITELY belongs someplace else!
It's basically a question of 'lumping' vs 'splitting', is it not?how about W4W and M4M? or how about "bi guys" and "LGBT"
Whether or not a W4W (or 'Women with Women') forum would be worthwhile is something on which I don't feel qualified to comment, save to say that a name like that implies a bi/lesbian focus which then leaves GLBT for gay men and trans people, which seems to me counterproductive. You may as well add a separate Trans forum and everyone can discuss their common ground in this News & Issues section. I don't think it would affect the presence of bi-curious women unless you specifically call it 'Bi/Curious Women' so lesbians can stay in GLBT, but there might then be a similar relationship between it and GLBT as I've suggested there might be between MSM & GLBT.Truth is I don't see the GLBT board having much of substance to keep any lesbian coming back. Mostly horny bi ladies.
So assuming a sub-forum in GLBT Chatter for GLBT-like fetishes, what should it be called? (I think it will get kinder reception here than in F&S.)
So, I just jumped down Wolfman's throat for his misguided version of "defense" of GLBT.
But I do agree with our "defender" that this forum is not really useful in this form. And if he's saying that the GLBT forum is a misogynistic pigsty then yeah-- it does start feeling that way with some regularity. these incessant threads about how much better women would be if they had dicks, or how much better men would be if they were women with dicks-- after awhile even the strongest stomach will revolt.
And "the Isle of Lesbos" is a single thread, and not every subject belongs in it.
I propose that the GLBT forum be renamed the Fetishists' forum. And that this section be named the GLBT forum. Let it actually be FOR the gay men, the lesbians, the transsexuals and transgendered, who need to talk about identity and sexuality, without the inane litany of "hate-men-want-cock" threads. A few threads from the current GLBT can be moved up here.
(ETA: I see one thread that has been moved here, despite the fact that it was doing pretty well "down below."
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=743996
We are a minority in the forum that has OUR name on it. Let us have an actual ghetto, instead of nothing much.
Whoa wait...now I'm confused.I'm offering my original post again, and honestly I still think it will be the most practical solution, because that's just the way it works. MSM as Haurni puts it, would have no need to look any further than the main forum, and those of us who actually have a NEED to look further- well, we are used to that and we know how to do it.
I have tried not to present my own irritation on this issue, but it's been hard.
I have tried to please everyone, and I really don't think I can do that. As far as I know, no other moderator on Lit has to deal with this level of discontent from the members in their area. I think it's warranted, sure, but I can't please everyone. Lit may not be what each individual wants it to be. It may not be the place for some people.
It's really tempting to just resign as GLBT Chatter moderator and have you guys talk to Laurel directly. I don't get paid enough to sort this out.
I'm not saying I'm going to, but that's how this thread makes me feel. I am tired of people being angry at me because the forum isn't exactly how they want it to be.
And yeah, moderating a forum that impacts lots of people's personal identity issues is going to suck.
I would moderate it, and believe it or not, I could do that fairly and equitably, simply because I am passionate about EVERYONE's right to have some self respect.
I happen to be very sure that there are better ways to arrange things to make that possible.