Justadesperatewifeandmom
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so today's mini rant. I have been asked to elaborate more on my statement towards fetish club and my attire and activities in relation.
ok back in the day, there was this club. public, alcohol served. played primarily goth and techno. Had a pretty significant club drug scene, such as X etc. It drew primarily goths, ravers, and lbgq. yeah and interesting crowd, but they also had specialized nights. Drag nights, fetish nights, techno nights, ladies night etc. Hubby and I primarily went on fetish night, and hit had a hard goth,metal,punk, industrial feel, and lined up with our schedule.
I would not call myself a fetish type. In many ways, I am kind of vanilla. like I have 0 desire to wear a big strap on and fuck some guy up the ass, whip someone to the points of welts and blood, be whipped by someone to the point of welts or blood, choke someone, and if you choke me, I will likely come out fighting. Hubby is even more vanilla than me
However, I do have a thing for the wardrobe, an exhibitionist streak, and a voyeuristic streak. Hubby was also game, and loved the music and party scene. Basically, we would party and screw on the dance floor. Technically they had signs to say illegal activity and nudity was not permitted, so they did their due diligence, but it was completely ignored.
here are 2 pictures of me getting ready to go to show the type of thing I would wear.
https://i.imgur.com/ZlMxyuam.jpg?1
https://i.imgur.com/ZKZGIMmm.jpg
This was long long ago. and yeah I still had cup fit issues lol. I liked the look of it though. the vest was cool because the snaps made it just pull off. The club ,as it was, is long long gone, and even if it wasn't, I don't know that I'd go. At least not regularly. I am too old for that scene lol.
We are still friends with a couple people we met there though. The DJ would be the closest. He moved further than we did, but if we find ourselves in the others area, we meet up. The most memorable couple was the car battery couple. Never talked with them, but did find myself watching. They had a bunch of tattoos and piercings, wore a lot of metal, and rubber, and brought a car battery with jumper cables, and would shock each other and put on quite the show. Exactly what the piercings were made out of to conduct enough electricity for the show, but not be overly brutal, I don't know. Maybe titanium, maybe they had insulation over, not sure. I don't actually have any body piercings or tattoos, I had a belly button ring forever ago. Wanted a tribal band around it, then a belt to my back with a tramp stamp. Thank you Lord that I was too cheap. Hubby does have several tattoos and a nipple piercing but he doesn't really change the ring type, so I am not really familiar with body jewelry. I did work in a body piercing store for like 2 days lol. But yeah, not long enough to learn much.
and that is that story.
ok back in the day, there was this club. public, alcohol served. played primarily goth and techno. Had a pretty significant club drug scene, such as X etc. It drew primarily goths, ravers, and lbgq. yeah and interesting crowd, but they also had specialized nights. Drag nights, fetish nights, techno nights, ladies night etc. Hubby and I primarily went on fetish night, and hit had a hard goth,metal,punk, industrial feel, and lined up with our schedule.
I would not call myself a fetish type. In many ways, I am kind of vanilla. like I have 0 desire to wear a big strap on and fuck some guy up the ass, whip someone to the points of welts and blood, be whipped by someone to the point of welts or blood, choke someone, and if you choke me, I will likely come out fighting. Hubby is even more vanilla than me
However, I do have a thing for the wardrobe, an exhibitionist streak, and a voyeuristic streak. Hubby was also game, and loved the music and party scene. Basically, we would party and screw on the dance floor. Technically they had signs to say illegal activity and nudity was not permitted, so they did their due diligence, but it was completely ignored.
here are 2 pictures of me getting ready to go to show the type of thing I would wear.
https://i.imgur.com/ZlMxyuam.jpg?1
https://i.imgur.com/ZKZGIMmm.jpg
This was long long ago. and yeah I still had cup fit issues lol. I liked the look of it though. the vest was cool because the snaps made it just pull off. The club ,as it was, is long long gone, and even if it wasn't, I don't know that I'd go. At least not regularly. I am too old for that scene lol.
We are still friends with a couple people we met there though. The DJ would be the closest. He moved further than we did, but if we find ourselves in the others area, we meet up. The most memorable couple was the car battery couple. Never talked with them, but did find myself watching. They had a bunch of tattoos and piercings, wore a lot of metal, and rubber, and brought a car battery with jumper cables, and would shock each other and put on quite the show. Exactly what the piercings were made out of to conduct enough electricity for the show, but not be overly brutal, I don't know. Maybe titanium, maybe they had insulation over, not sure. I don't actually have any body piercings or tattoos, I had a belly button ring forever ago. Wanted a tribal band around it, then a belt to my back with a tramp stamp. Thank you Lord that I was too cheap. Hubby does have several tattoos and a nipple piercing but he doesn't really change the ring type, so I am not really familiar with body jewelry. I did work in a body piercing store for like 2 days lol. But yeah, not long enough to learn much.
and that is that story.
lol
