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Polonius' advice to Laertes, no? I love this. When I went away to college I had photocopied it (the whole thing) laminated it and put it on my wall along with other inspirational poems my Mom used to read to me growing up..


Hi TX,
You must have been a serious young woman at college, I mistakenly thought the main aim at college was to indulge in houghmagandies (an old Scots name
for taking part in sexual shenanigans) and drinking.

Ha ha!

I guess comparatively speaking, I did appear to be "serious". But I wasn't really.

I just didn't indulge in "houghmagandies" as I probably should have. Well - I did, but just with one long-term partner followed by another who I married. So I didn't have the "classic" college or post-college experience.

You better not leave us :)

Well... I'm not leaving y'all. Without pics to post, though - I just need a reason to come back:cool:.

Hello Tx! Hope you are having a good weekend! Just wanted to say you are missed and not just for your pics! It was ALWAYS the way you expressed your thoughts to all of us that kept me coming back for more! I do hope you will drop in from time to time just to keep us updated on how you are doing!

Hey Fank! Thaks for the well wishes.

And thanks for the compliments. Y'all are going to make it virtually impossible for prospective dates to "click" with me. I of course will expect them to be enthralled by my every word, enchanted with my personality, and irresistably attracted to my physical attributes. But I suspect that real life reactions won't be the same as "Lit" reactions. ;) Sigh.
 
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Hey Fank! Thaks for the well wishes.

And thanks for the compliments. Y'all are going to make it virtually impossible for prospective dates to "click" with me. I of course will expect them to be enthralled by my every word, enchanted with my personality, and irresistably attracted to my physical attributes. But I suspect that real life reactions won't be the same as "Lit" reactions. ;) Sigh.

I don't think you wil have any problem with a date "clicking" with you unless he is a complete "moron" and then I don't think you would be out with him in the first place;) . I can tell you anyone with a brain will be enchanted by your personality just because of what you have shared with us through your thread. As for your "PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES" if he is breathing he will be attracted:D ! I just wished I lived a couple of states over and then I would be beating down your door my fair lady:rose:
 
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LOL - "Vist for chats"? What are we going to chat about?

I'm up for chatting. Actually - I do enjoy the openness on Lit. I think the anonymity has allowed many of us to share insights and experiences that would never be exchanged IRL.

But really - I'm at a bit of a loss as to how to initiate the conversation - which does not bode well for my dating life.

Hmmm - maybe that's what we could chat about - y'all could give me dating advice. :)

I don't think you need much advice sweetie:kiss:
I was always told to be yourself...doing that...you'll have no problems:rose:
As for what will we chat about...whatever your little heart desires:):kiss:
 
Wow - thanks for the kind words HeyAll. I have thought of writing stories to submit, but decided against it.

Though I come across as very open in the thread here, I thinkg writing stories/ fiction ect. would be far too revealing. I have always been guarded and private, and very few (maybe 3) people have had the opportunity to fully know me. And of those three - 1 & 2 knew a very different person than I am now. Well, same person, different experience levels. And #3 - well the Fates have intervened.

I don't even know why I fear "exposing myself" by writing stories and fiction - it's not like I have deep dark secrets or anything. Still, that's probably why I didn't pursue a certain type of writing. Oh well - maybe someday.



I personally think you would do very will in the Romance catagory.

You could create two characters starting off with what you've been talking about, and put a happy ending to it.

Who knows, it could even be theraputic for you.
 
And thanks for the compliments. Y'all are going to make it virtually impossible for prospective dates to "click" with me. I of course will expect them to be enthralled by my every word, enchanted with my personality, and irresistably attracted to my physical attributes. But I suspect that real life reactions won't be the same as "Lit" reactions. ;) Sigh.

While it's easy to compliment on the internet, this is not a bad goal to strive for, darlin'.

I mean, sure - This is online. It's very easy to type "Wow, you're fantastic" or "You have a great personality". It's easy to hold a conversation where you're appearing to hang on every word - It's the internet. I can have half a dozen different conversations simultaneously on IM, and none of the people I'm talking to would be aware of any delays, as I type at somewhere around 110 wpm.

On a forum, it's even easier. You have time delays, timezone differences, the space to think about your reply, correct wording and phrasing.

It's much harder to actually hang on someone's every word in real life. Besides, you don't really want that. That's pretty creepy, haha. But someone you can talk to? Someone you can have a conversation with, who both challenges and respects your opinions? Someone who's attracted by your delicious physical assets as well as your creative and dynamic mind?

No, that's not an unrealistic wish. And you shouldn't ever settle for any less.
 
LOL - "Vist for chats"? What are we going to chat about?

I'm sure we can find lots to talk about, after all your a woman who is intellegent, articulate and very sexy and are not short of an opinion or two.
If you continue to post, I could always swat up on a minor sport such as American Football :rolleyes: Are you pleased with your new accomodation and have you settled in?
 
well....

You mentioned you'd been in drama? We could talk about the theater and how putting on the mask of a character can be liberating to let one do things one would never do otherwise. You seem to be a person who is courageous, case in point being your sharing here, and would be amazing on the stage. Have you ever been drawn to even amateur theatricals (and I'm not talking home movies here, though they would be wonderful), I'm talking local theater? I'd be willing to put good money on you being great.
:rose::rose::rose:
 
Ha ha!

I guess comparatively speaking, I did appear to be "serious". But I wasn't really.

I just didn't indulge in "houghmagandies" as I probably should have. Well - I did, but just with one long-term partner followed by another who I married. So I didn't have the "classic" college or post-college experience.



Well... I'm not leaving y'all. Without pics to post, though - I just need a reason to come back:cool:.



Hey Fank! Thaks for the well wishes.

And thanks for the compliments. Y'all are going to make it virtually impossible for prospective dates to "click" with me. I of course will expect them to be enthralled by my every word, enchanted with my personality, and irresistably attracted to my physical attributes. But I suspect that real life reactions won't be the same as "Lit" reactions. ;) Sigh.

Sweet Lady.

you cause a reaction every time I think of you ..from the first pic....
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or pic 30
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OMG pic 45
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.. Alway dream of you doing a slow strip stease

WOW but it is you that stand out.. when you take the time to talk things thru.. like to friends sharing life naughty secerts

hugs kisses

fred
 
Tx , the reason I came BACK to your thread oh so very many times had very little to do with your incredibly (and yeah , I do mean incredibly) hot pictures , it was more because in your writing you showed thought , deliberation and depth . All of which are far sexier than tits will ever be -not that I have anything at all against tits - but a mind is the sexiest thing any person can have . All that drivel being said , I don't care if you post anymore pictures , but I would miss terribly the introspection you have shared here
 
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Sweet Lady.

you cause a reaction every time I think of you ..from the first pic....
attachment.php
15pictuces later
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or pic 30
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OMG pic 45
attachment.php
.. Alway dream of you doing a slow strip stease

WOW but it is you that stand out.. when you take the time to talk things thru.. like to friends sharing life naughty secerts

hugs kisses

fred

in real lfe it ould be a lot more over and over !
 
I will miss the pics you share but aslong as your still writing I'll still be reading your thread.
I think you've share alot with us all here and understand that sometimes a break is needed to make sure this is what you want to do and is it still fun to do.
It's your thread and your in charge, so amaze me with that brain of yours and/ or seduced me with that body.
You rock,I'll just say thanks and await your next post pics or pics free its all good!
 
How wonderful to stop by with some time to spare - in want of company - and find so many wonderful messages! Thanks, guys.

We'll just ignore the fact that it's Friday night and I'm here on the computer. :-\
I actually went on a date tonight / near-date. I don't know - do you call late afternoon drinks and appetizers a date?

It was fun - I laughed a lot. But still feels a bit surreal.

I came home with the intention of making some more progress on one of my projects - but my brain isn't feeling very productive right now. The rest of my weekend will be more work thatn fun... practically all work, come to think of it. Still catching up on some things - trying to get ahead of others before traveling next week.
 
I don't think you wil have any problem with a date "clicking" with you unless he is a complete "moron" and then I don't think you would be out with him in the first place;) . I can tell you anyone with a brain will be enchanted by your personality just because of what you have shared with us through your thread. As for your "PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES" if he is breathing he will be attracted:D ! I just wished I lived a couple of states over and then I would be beating down your door my fair lady:rose:

Very sweet of you to say, Frank. No, I definitely don't respond well to morons. As far as "clicking" I don't think that's something you can script, plan or even "algorithm" into place. I've always thought of it a bit like lightning - you never know when and where it's going to strike. I've been lucky to have it strike three times in my life.

I wouldn't call it "love at first sight" but each time there was was an instant connection / charge/ ease/ intimacy that quickly lead to more.

We'll see what life brings - I'm certainly not out on the prowl - just open to possibilities. :)

As for physical attributes... I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and that's fine.


I don't think you need much advice sweetie
I was always told to be yourself...doing that...you'll have no problems
As for what will we chat about...whatever your little heart desires:)

LOL I apparently did need some advice. I haven't done much "dating" so I didn't realize there were rules regarding contact frequency intervals etc... I just sort of muddle through - communicating when I'm moved to communicate. And I try to respond without leaving people hanging - even if it's a "sorry not interested". I'd much rather deal with rejection than uncertainty, so I try to maintain good karma in that arena.

Anyway, I had some helpful advice to prepare me for possibilities - and it was helpful and much appreciated. :)

I personally think you would do very will in the Romance catagory.

You could create two characters starting off with what you've been talking about, and put a happy ending to it.

Who knows, it could even be theraputic for you.

Ha ha! Thanks, HeyAll. I have a friend who is a novelist. She's been trying to get me to write steamy romances for years now. I've started a mystery, and outlined romances ... but I apparently don't have what it takes. I've never really had much conflict in my life (well, there may be rose colored glasses here) but what makes writing good is how the charecters deal with conflict and crises in their lives. Since I don't like conflict and crises in my life, I have a hard time putting the effort into creating them... even in fiction.

Hello TX! Hope you are doing well! Missing you:(

Aww - thanks, Frank. Have been doing well. Busy with work this week. Taking a night off and will be back at it through the weekend. On the plus side, I get to play SERIOUSLY play when I head up north next week. Yay!:devil:
 
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While it's easy to compliment on the internet, this is not a bad goal to strive for, darlin'.

I mean, sure - This is online. It's very easy to type "Wow, you're fantastic" or "You have a great personality". It's easy to hold a conversation where you're appearing to hang on every word - It's the internet. I can have half a dozen different conversations simultaneously on IM, and none of the people I'm talking to would be aware of any delays, as I type at somewhere around 110 wpm.

On a forum, it's even easier. You have time delays, timezone differences, the space to think about your reply, correct wording and phrasing.

It's much harder to actually hang on someone's every word in real life. Besides, you don't really want that. That's pretty creepy, haha. But someone you can talk to? Someone you can have a conversation with, who both challenges and respects your opinions? Someone who's attracted by your delicious physical assets as well as your creative and dynamic mind?

No, that's not an unrealistic wish. And you shouldn't ever settle for any less.

Agreed on all counts, Raphy! But I'll take you one further... I won't settle for nothing less than all of that PLUS the lightning. :)

LOL - "Vist for chats"? What are we going to chat about?

I'm sure we can find lots to talk about, after all your a woman who is intellegent, articulate and very sexy and are not short of an opinion or two.
If you continue to post, I could always swat up on a minor sport such as American Football :rolleyes: Are you pleased with your new accomodation and have you settled in?

:) Thanks O.V. I've been keeping my nose to the grindstone lately though - so my conversation skills are growing rusty. I haven't been keeping up with American Football yet (sssshhhh... don't tell the Cowboys fans).

Am I pleased with my new accomodations? Physically and functionally, they are lovely. But neither the accommodations nor the city feels like "home", and I find that unsettling. I'm locked in for at least 6 more months, so I'm doing what I can to see if I can feel more at home here and in the city. But honestly, I feel like the princess in the fairy tale "The princess and the pea" - like I'm just adding more mattresses to the stack, but still the pea is uncomfortable.

(for anyone not familiar with the Princess and the Pea http://www.eastoftheweb.com/short-stories/UBooks/PriPea.shtml)

On the plus side, my golf class has yielded a fun little circle of friends. And that is expanding to some girl time.



You mentioned you'd been in drama? We could talk about the theater and how putting on the mask of a character can be liberating to let one do things one would never do otherwise. You seem to be a person who is courageous, case in point being your sharing here, and would be amazing on the stage. Have you ever been drawn to even amateur theatricals (and I'm not talking home movies here, though they would be wonderful), I'm talking local theater? I'd be willing to put good money on you being great.

Oh I LOVED my time in theater, though it was short lived.

I danced most of my life, so have never shied away from the stage. Always got the leead roles in drama. Unless it was a musical. Apparently I'm not a very good singer. Had I known then that you could train your voice and improve your singing just like you train to be a dancer, I may have given theater serious consideration.

But then again - anytime I've become overly-immersed in the arts, I was discouraged from pursuing them at a serious level. My school teachers, parents, friends... they would all say "You're too smart to be a dancer - you need to use that gift" They all wanted me to go into science, medicine, engineering... geez maybe I should have listed to 'em. :rolleyes:
 
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Agreed on all counts, Raphy! But I'll take you one further... I won't settle for nothing less than all of that PLUS the lightning. :)
Get the earthquake too, girl. Then the earth really will move for you.

You deserve that. Hell, everyone deserves that. It's such a shame, to my mind, that so many people don't respect themselves enough and settle for second best because they don't think they deserve better.*





*and by better, I mean "more compatible"
 
Sweet Lady.

you cause a reaction every time I think of you ..from the first pic....OMG pic 45 .. Alway dream of you doing a slow strip stease

WOW but it is you that stand out.. when you take the time to talk things thru.. like to friends sharing life naughty secerts

hugs kisses

fred

I miss the smile...:kiss:

Aww... so sweet. Wouldn't want you to miss the smile, so here is one from when I was out West last week.
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Apologies for the close cropping, but the jewelry and dress are fairly distinctive. :eek:

Tx , the reason I came BACK to your thread oh so very many times had very little to do with your incredibly (and yeah , I do mean incredibly) hot pictures , it was more because in your writing you showed thought , deliberation and depth . All of which are far sexier than tits will ever be -not that I have anything at all against tits - but a mind is the sexiest thing any person can have . All that drivel being said , I don't care if you post anymore pictures , but I would miss terribly the introspection you have shared here

Wow, thanks for this. I appreciate that. Wonder if I should change the thread name. Instead of Appealing? change it to "Deep Thoughts" or "Navel Pondering"

I will miss the pics you share but aslong as your still writing I'll still be reading your thread.
I think you've share alot with us all here and understand that sometimes a break is needed to make sure this is what you want to do and is it still fun to do.
It's your thread and your in charge, so amaze me with that brain of yours and/ or seduced me with that body.
You rock,I'll just say thanks and await your next post pics or pics free its all good!

:) Thanks, James! Yes, I've shared more here than virtually anywhere else in my life. Anyone who has read my thread probably knows me better than anyone who knows me in person (with one exception).

I don't know if this is a break, a regrouping, or what. But it really warms my heart to see you and the others encouraging me to keep posting and stay engaged in the thread.

:heart:
 
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Agreed on all counts, Raphy! But I'll take you one further... I won't settle for nothing less than all of that PLUS the lightning. :)



:) Thanks O.V. I've been keeping my nose to the grindstone lately though - so my conversation skills are growing rusty. I haven't been keeping up with American Football yet (sssshhhh... don't tell the Cowboys fans).

Am I pleased with my new accomodations? Physically and functionally, they are lovely. But neither the accommodations nor the city feels like "home", and I find that unsettling. I'm locked in for at least 6 more months, so I'm doing what I can to see if I can feel more at home here and in the city. But honestly, I feel like the princess in the fairy tale "The princess and the pea" - like I'm just adding more mattresses to the stack, but still the pea is uncomfortable.

(for anyone not familiar with the Princess and the Pea http://www.eastoftheweb.com/short-stories/UBooks/PriPea.shtml)

On the plus side, my golf class has yielded a fun little circle of friends. And that is expanding to some girl time.





Oh I LOVED my time in theater, though it was short lived.

I danced most of my life, so have never shied away from the stage. Always got the leead roles in drama. Unless it was a musical. Apparently I'm not a very good singer. Had I known then that you could train your voice and improve your singing just like you train to be a dancer, I may have given theater serious consideration.

But then again - anytime I've become overly-immersed in the arts, I was discouraged from pursuing them at a serious level. My school teachers, parents, friends... they would all say "You're too smart to be a dancer - you need to use that gift" They all wanted me to go into science, medicine, engineering... geez maybe I should have listed to 'em. :rolleyes:

go ahead put me down !
 
Aww... so sweet. Wouldn't want you to miss the smile, so here is one from when I was out West last week.
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Apologies for the close cropping, but the jewelry and dress are fairly distinctive. :eek:



Wow, thanks for this. I appreciate that. Wonder if I should change the thread name. Instead of Appealing? change it to "Deep Thoughts" or "Navel Pondering"



:) Thanks, James! Yes, I've shared more here than virtually anywhere else in my life. Anyone who has read my thread probably knows me better than anyone who knows me in person (with one exception).

I don't know if this is a break, a regrouping, or what. But it really warms my heart to see you and the others encouraging me to keep posting and stay engaged in the thread.

:heart:

Sweet Lady,

I was going to bed , when storm came up. So was checking what is going on . When saw your smile
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Hope you will stay... once a week ..month.. to chat and share... btw I do have index if you like a copy, just drop me a note.

hugs kisses

fred
 
Hey TX
That smile...helen of Troy comes to mind. What a warm picture. Thank you. Love your musings and I hope they never stop. Beauty to boot but I'll take a sexy mind over anything else. Thanks for making me smile...just by smiling
 
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Wow - thanks for the kind words HeyAll. I have thought of writing stories to submit, but decided against it.

Though I come across as very open in the thread here, I thinkg writing stories/ fiction ect. would be far too revealing. I have always been guarded and private, and very few (maybe 3) people have had the opportunity to fully know me. And of those three - 1 & 2 knew a very different person than I am now. Well, same person, different experience levels. And #3 - well the Fates have intervened.

I don't even know why I fear "exposing myself" by writing stories and fiction - it's not like I have deep dark secrets or anything. Still, that's probably why I didn't pursue a certain type of writing. Oh well - maybe someday.




LOL - "Vist for chats"? What are we going to chat about?

I'm up for chatting. Actually - I do enjoy the openness on Lit. I think the anonymity has allowed many of us to share insights and experiences that would never be exchanged IRL.

But really - I'm at a bit of a loss as to how to initiate the conversation - which does not bode well for my dating life.

Hmmm - maybe that's what we could chat about - y'all could give me dating advice. :)



The Rainmaker! Wow! Brings back memories of Drama classes. SO much fun.



Aww - thanks, Verbatum. I loved taking and sharing photos. Who knows, maybe someday I will again. But for now, it just doesn't seem like the right choice.

I also love (d?) sharing my journey here on Lit. I was going through wome extraordinary experiences. Well - they felt extraordinary to me, anyway. These days - my experiences are ridiculously mundane... to the point of being cliche. I'm not sure how compelling they would be if I did share them. :rolleyes:

beauty was meant to be shared , thats why you have so much !
 
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