Newbie looking to learn

Hey everybody I am new to this whole scene and I am looking to learn the ropes. Who is doing to teach a 23 year old straight male? please let me know

I think you should try the BDSM personals.

Alternatively you could read in our library and/or read threads, ask questions, make new threads with your questions or just join in.

Good luck

You can always ask specific questions about things you want to know about and a variety of people will usually respond with various views and answers, some may fit your situation, some may not.

Alternatively, you can get involved with a realtime group in your area. You can find local groups in the USA by looking at:

SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/

The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.

SirPaul's National Munch Page - http://phoenixdragon.dreamknight87.com/nmp.htm

Hope that helps!

- Be respectful of others when you post.
- Keep your eyes and your mind open
- Don't be afraid to ask about anything so long as you're non-judgemental about it in doing so

Read topics that catch your interest and watch the interpersonal banter/play and interractio n between those who post about it.

It's about as close as you'll get to a munch without being at one.

(a munch, btw, is a get-to-gether of like-minded people in your area about once a month or so. Look around and see if you have one in your area)
Anyone with some helpful munch-search tags?

Anyone? Bueller?

twysted73 said:

... It's about as close as you'll get to a munch without being at one.

(a munch, btw, is a get-to-gether of like-minded people in your area about once a month or so. Look around and see if you have one in your area)
Anyone with some helpful munch-search tags?

Anyone? Bueller?

Click to expand...

*points ^ at his previous post...*