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CLE4fun said:
After 10 years(7married) we are now in a basically sexless marriage. It's been 4 months since we've had any sexual contact at all and I honestly can't remember the last time we had intercourse. We are 46 and 38 respectively so not old she just "could go the rest of her life without sex".

This is a woman that sucked me of standing in a doorway with our children in the next room. We were fucking 6-7x a week, she loved head, Anal, nothing really off-limits.

Now I'm an asshole because i want to have sex with my wife, leave her dirty notes or lingerie, send dirty photos back and forth; all of which were totally fine a few years ago. I love her and I'm not leaving just didn't expect to only have my hand to look forward to 360 days a year.

Thanks for letting me vent and at least know I'm not alone in my situation and depression therein.


PS - Sunday is my birthday. Wish i could say i had high hopes but i think the Browns have a better chance of blowing out the a Chiefs then me blowing it her back.
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I"ve been sexless more that 10 years and it happened the same way; one day out of the blue she said "I'm no longer interest in sex: I know it is important to you so go find someone and we agreed to tell each other when we had sex with some one else so there wold be no surprises" We agreed to tell each other so no public surprises." so I went out, got some and told her .... I cold tell it hurt her a lot and other women have made me smarter that she did not mean I cold could out and play alone with a different lady. I have no guilt but I have not been out either - I do not want to hurt my wife. Whos know what tomorrow will bring.
 
My libido is killed off by the anti-depressants I take but I consider myself a very sexual person overall. My imagination is probably my best playground. I love porn and lust after both men and women. I know how to please myself and go after what I like. :devil:
 
hey

LizVegas79 said:
I know! It was so unfair! That whole stereotype of being "hot-blooded" is totally true even though I'm only half Mexican! And he knew what he was getting into before he married me! lol
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Hey Empress
I understand your frustration, ( half Mex/ half white myself) . Though my wife tries hard to feign excitement at the possibility of sex, her reality with the difficulties and the ravages of Menopause are such, I can't stand to see her or "feel" her hurt from sex.
So I'm stuck in places like this talking shit with people who are more practise at it than myself---,
and wishing for more.
 
SquidProQuo said:
My libido is killed off by the anti-depressants I take but I consider myself a very sexual person overall. My imagination is probably my best playground. I love porn and lust after both men and women. I know how to please myself and go after what I like. :devil:
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Empathizing -- Over the years, anti-depressants have greatly inhibited my own libido. I used to take more than I do now. About three years ago, my psych started weaning me off of two of them. One was Quetiapine (brand name Seroquel) and the other was Paroxetine (brand name Paxil). There were two positive effects, especially from discontinuing the Paroxetine.

One was a weight loss of about 20 pounds which was welcome as I was a bit on the high side.

But the other was a strong, strong increase in my libido. I have described it being like an express train coming down the line! I have enjoyed many very intense and satisfying sexual sessions (mostly with myself) and it is still very active.

I do still take one anti-depressant which keeps me stable but does not have the sexual side effect.

I'm not suggesting you stop any medications, but a frank talk with your psych or doctor might lead you to a better libido situation.

Just sharing....
 
I totally understand if your club has some sort of kinky initiation they put their new members thru. I'm game! :D :devil:
 
The problem with sex drive is that when people are young enough to take advantage of it, they are often too busy and up to their ass with work and kids and whatnot. Then you get older, maybe even retired, and the drive is the same..... in your head..... but the body starts to say, "Hold on there. You might break a hip." This has been my curse. I need to have a total body transplant into somebody 30. Anybody know a good doctor?
 
Can i join? My sex drive seems to have returned full force after a rather lengthy absence, and I'm looking forward to catching up on lost time.
 
Sign me up...

Sign me up for definition number two. Of course a world that thinks that a women loving sex makes her crazy, is crazy.
 
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