What does it really mean when a man holds your throat while making love?

[Twistedgem]

Does it mean he is dominating you?
He is more of violent person?

Just curious...

 

[AlwaysFara]

Does it mean he is dominating you?
He is more of violent person?

Just curious...

Checking for thyroid nodules, usually.

 

[JerseyJade]

It means he's psycho and you should get as far away from him as you can.

 

[cara2272]

Probably saw it in a porn video and thought that's how this thiing's done

 

[done_got_old]

It means this should be your last time making love with him.

 

[Rivvie]

i hope it means it started with consent ahead of time and mutual trust...

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Does it mean he is dominating you?
He is more of violent person?

Just curious...

It means he was fucking you, not making love to you lol.

That's what it means when I do it

 

[ydahecnot]

To me, it means he is more likely to tip over without having the hands as a support base. If it’s from behind, it means he is Stretch Armstrong

 

[AlwaysFara]

i hope it means it started with consent ahead of time and mutual trust...

This is the best answer.

Also, maybe he wants to feel how deeply his cock is embedded in your throat.

 

[flamouria]

Usually, it means, "Scream and this becomes a murder in addition to a rape."

 

[AlwaysFara]

Usually, it means, "Scream and this becomes a murder in addition to a rape."

Holding a woman’s throat during sex doesn’t mean rape.
If done right, it feels great.

 

[JerseyJade]

Holding a woman’s throat during sex doesn’t mean rape.
If done right, it feels great.

And if not done right, you're dead!

 

[AlwaysFara]

And if not done right, you're dead!

Good thing I’m still alive to tell the tale, then.

It’s not about someone crushing your trachea. It’s a carotid press. It can make you feel faint. It’s amazing.
The person you’re with has to have control, and there has to be a safe signal.

Just like any good sex, there has to be communication.

 

[JerseyJade]

Good thing I’m still alive to tell the tale, then.

It’s not about someone crushing your trachea. It’s a carotid press. It can make you feel faint. It’s amazing.
The person you’re with has to have control, and there has to be a safe signal.

Just like any good sex, there has to be communication.

I'll have to google, "how to speak while your gagging and your throat is being crushed" and then get back to you on that.

 

[cara2272]

Good thing I’m still alive to tell the tale, then.

It’s not about someone crushing your trachea. It’s a carotid press. It can make you feel faint. It’s amazing.
The person you’re with has to have control, and there has to be a safe signal.

Just like any good sex, there has to be communication.

Huh. Is there a way to be sure the press hasn't gone on for too long? Seems like risky business to me. Just, 'cause, you'll need your brain for other stuff in your life too, presumably.

 

[done_got_old]

Good thing I’m still alive to tell the tale, then.

It’s not about someone crushing your trachea. It’s a carotid press. It can make you feel faint. It’s amazing.
The person you’re with has to have control, and there has to be a safe signal.

Just like any good sex, there has to be communication.

Let's hope he hears the safe word or understands the signal. I don't trust anyone that much.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'll have to google, "how to speak while your gagging and your throat is being crushed" and then get back to you on that.

Huh. Is there a way to be sure the press hasn't gone on for too long? Seems like risky business to me. Just, 'cause, you'll need your brain for other stuff in your life too, presumably.

I do okay, brain wise.
No worries.
Different strokes, and all that.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Let's hope he hears the safe word or understands the signal. I don't trust anyone that much.

I’m sorry to hear that.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Let's hope he hears the safe word or understands the signal. I don't trust anyone that much.

Needs one of those I've fallen and can't get up buttons, but for police not ambulance. It's called a panic button usually

 

[cara2272]

I do okay, brain wise.
No worries.
Different strokes, and all that.

Oh no judgement at all, I was genuinely curious

 

[done_got_old]

Found this....

Erotic asphyxiation (variously called asphyxiophilia, hypoxyphilia or breath control play) is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal. The term autoerotic asphyxiation is used when the act is done by a person to him- or herself. Colloquially, a person engaging in the activity is sometimes called a gasper.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Oh no judgement at all, I was genuinely curious

If you ever do it, make sure he or she is experienced. A knowledge of anatomy and physiology helps.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Found this....

Erotic asphyxiation (variously called asphyxiophilia, hypoxyphilia or breath control play) is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal. The term autoerotic asphyxiation is used when the act is done by a person to him- or herself. Colloquially, a person engaging in the activity is sometimes called a gasper.

I like knife play, too.
I wonder if I’m a gasper-slicee?

 

[cara2272]

If you ever do it, make sure he or she is experienced. A knowledge of anatomy and physiology helps.

Yeah... Assuming I'm on the receiving end, it's probably not happening either way.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Intention being paramount to the appropriate answer, I would ask the man who has his hands around your throat..
after you're done fucking
and typically over a nice breakfast