Cuckolding--Turn on? or not?

Awesome story! Very arousing...

I have such a hard on after reading that. The description of the young guys cum pushing out as he fucked her is so hot. Then when hubby fucks her in the bath room was so good. So messy and sloppy and so accurate. Seeing cum squish out of her as you have a second or third go is so exciting. Sue, I need you now.
 
I love it - love to be the cuckold in a relationship and being made to lick all the cum up.
 
I think 'cuckold' encompasses a few different kinks, from interracial wife-share porn through femdom and female supremacy, down to more subtle and ultimately more exciting kinks.

For me, the essence of it is the desire for my wife to be available but not available to me, and the emotional and physical longing that would come from that situation.

A lot of us are aroused by interracial or 'hot wife' porn, myself included; I suspect a lot of those who claim to live that lifestyle are embellishing the truth at best, or even completely fabricating. That's not to say fiction doesn't have it's place; it's just that some stories just seem to me, to be so close to what I would write as a man in my 40s that I have trouble suspending disbelief. I have suggested this to a lady on this forum who now finds it hard to be even civil to me...

I think it's up to you to find the elements that appeal and somehow incorporate those into lovemaking; either some kind of swinging lifestyle or more subtle elements, I don't know- just thinking aloud, really! :eek:

For my part I get excitement from my lady desiring her dildo more than me. I do get pangs of sadness when I see how much more satisfied she is with 10" of black dildo in her but it does make me ache with lust for her. The first time she said to me 'I don't want you to fuck me tonight, I need something bigger' was a revelation. She may have just been playing to my fantasies- she knows I'd like her to be fucked by a more well-endowed man- but it's still a lovely little thrill.
 
Do not want to try it. But I do love being told sexy stories from a ladues past while getting it on.
 
I don't think that I would enjoy it. I would have this fear in the back of my mind that if she likes this other cock so much better than mine wouldn't she eventually just leave? What use am I then?
 
I don't think that I would enjoy it. I would have this fear in the back of my mind that if she likes this other cock so much better than mine wouldn't she eventually just leave? What use am I then?

I think the couple would have to be in a very strong, very secure relationship with good communication. If I thought my wife had just married me for regular cock I'd be constantly looking over my shoulder! :D

I think the idea is she gets love, emotional support, a life partner and everything that goes with it by being married to me; and yes, that includes very tender, passionate and intense lovemaking. But I could also find- I would do this, gladly- young men to take care of her physically when she needs the uncomplicated shafting that every woman craves.

And why would she leave a man who can provide, in fact, be honoured to provide all that for her? :heart:
 
I think the couple would have to be in a very strong, very secure relationship with good communication. If I thought my wife had just married me for regular cock I'd be constantly looking over my shoulder! :D

I think the idea is she gets love, emotional support, a life partner and everything that goes with it by being married to me; and yes, that includes very tender, passionate and intense lovemaking. But I could also find- I would do this, gladly- young men to take care of her physically when she needs the uncomplicated shafting that every woman craves.

And why would she leave a man who can provide, in fact, be honoured to provide all that for her? :heart:

Is cuckolding something that older couples enjoy more? After that trust has been built and there are a slew of younger people around that could fulfill just the one need of sex?

I guess for me right now at 26, younger is still my peers which is maybe why I have concerns
 
Is cuckolding something that older couples enjoy more? After that trust has been built and there are a slew of younger people around that could fulfill just the one need of sex?

I guess for me right now at 26, younger is still my peers which is maybe why I have concerns

Yeah, it does seem to be mature couples! When I was 26 I would have run a mile at any suggestion of another guy putting his cock in my girl (lovely as it would have been now I think of how she looked at the time! :rolleyes: ).

I suppose it's a combination of feeling secure in a relationship and wanting to feel that lust you have in the early days of a relationship, when you're really not sure if she's getting it elsewhere and you ache to be with her as a result.

Having said that, I bet a few couples who do swing or swap in this way find out their relationship isn't as rock solid as they thought.

It's this need to stir things up, suffer those pangs and mixed emotions, introduce an element of risk...
 
I would have no objection if my wife wanted to have sex with another man or woman. In fact, I think it would be good for her. I would not feel that it is something I could not do for her but that it would be good for her to experience a different lover. The desire and intensity that one has with a new lover is something that is very difficult to maintain in a long term relationship.
 
it can be a polarising subject - some people love the idea and the act while some abhor it. the Loving Wives section of Lit (where most of the stories are found) demonstrates the point. read some of the Public Comments at the end of the submissions.

horses for courses really.
 
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